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Olivia, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 3, 2022
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Nope. There are boundaries for a reason. They won’t be helpful for future relationships.
You’re so right. Thank you for pointing it out, this and my conversation with him really has made me realize I need to be grateful for what I have and how he shows me I am special.
This is not your fault. Your boyfriend is abusive, he knows you're a kind person and that you care about him and he's using that against you to manipulate you. Call an ambulance to his house, text him that you're over, and block him on everything.
He has changed into a judgmental AH who thinks it’s fine to be a judgmental AH. Tell him you’re not up for dating judgmental AHs so this is where you part ways and find partners who share your values.
Please try to stay at a friends house if you’re able to. Let a trusted adult know what’s going on. Make sure you find a way to jam the door so that he can not get in.
This really hurts my heart because I’ve been in this exact position and I just wished that I said something before it escalated. I’m trying to keep it PG because I don’t want you to get in trouble, but find something to protect yourself with that you keep in your room just in case he’s ever able to fully get in.
Perfectly natural. I would be too. Brave people experience fear – it's what you do with that fear that counts.
I mean, she can lose about 180lbs real quick, if she gets rid of that controlling [insert expletive here].
I am thinking more about living in different spaces for a bit but he sees it in a negative way and I wish he didn’t
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You move on and leave him alone and go to therapy so you can work on your trust issues and don't smother your next partner to death.
please message me if you think this is ragebait
I dont think it is and i want to believe you, it just reads like it. Red flags and warning lights everywhere.
an abortion unfortunately seems like my only option
Yes, dont get trapped with him. You are in no situation to raise a child, no matter if you stay with him (which i would strongly advise against) or leave. Its the responsible choice, not just for you, but also for your unborn child.
i can give you proof if you really want me to
i dont want to, this isnt a court of law. you dont have to justify yourself infront of anonymous strangers. you asked for advice, not for judgement.
This this this this. I had to have a similar conversation with my 18f sister.
she’s still talking to me tho so idk
Yes it seems like you’re in two very different phases in life. She’s barely out of her teens. Let her have fun in college and be with someone closer to her own age.
Don’t ever feel guilty for saying no to sex. Ever. You are not “making him feel” anything. He is not entitled to sex on demand simply because he is your boyfriend. Sex is not something you owe him, so why would you feel guilty for sometimes not wanting it?
That said, compatibility does include how often two people want sex, not just whether the sex is good or desired when it does happen. So, if he wants it 3x as much as you do, yes that would be a compatibility issue.
But it sounds like, perhaps even more than frequency, he wants you to be a bit more assertive and demonstrative when it comes to sex. He has said do directly. Is that something you can do?
That is a reasonable request. It is not reasonable to make you responsible for his self-esteem. And it’s really unreasonable to link your consent to his self-esteem. You see how fucked up that is right? If you saying no to sex plunges him into a self-hating spiral… that’s a toxic dynamic and, in my book, a deal breaker.
You guys need to have some major serious conversations about all of this, at a time when sec isn’t on the table — so not right in the moment after you’ve said no. Go out for coffee or something and lay all of this out.