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Date: October 28, 2022
Just reading through your comments, I think your anxieties and insecurities are driving your actions. Refocus the energy you’re fixating on this potential engagement w instead continuing therapy, getting to know yourself better, adopting habits and rituals that validate your growth and not your anguish. If you and your boyfriend are as meant to be as you feel in this moment, he will be there w you as you grow more and more into who you are as a person and that healthier, more balanced and thoughtful version of you can be the one who marries him — not the skittish, fearful one who is afraid of abandonment. Are you in trauma-informed therapy? Are you working toward learning to better online w your BPD? Have you noticed a pattern in your relationships? You’re so young! I don’t say that condescendingly but excitedly; you have SO much time left to be engaged and get married and step into a shared life w someone, but all this time can also be used to broaden the horizons of your fears and establish a relationship w yourself that feels grounding and fulfilling and doesn’t need to be replaced by harming yourself by way of seeking out the next adrenaline rush of a relationship
If it's already established that you both don't like each other then there's nothing more to talk about on that topic. I was in a similar situation before and it was all hidden behind fake smiles. Take it from me, you should probably go if you value your wife. Especially if she made it a point to tell you to go.
Suck it up and bite the bullet.
Yeah and he hangs out with criminals? What the fuck girl?
What the fuck are you talking about?
Stop being so controlling. You're in a LDR. She doesn't need you to be there every step of the way. If you can't take that YOU decide to break up with her. You don't give HER an ultimatum. That is even more manipulative and controlling than what you're already doing. Work on yourself while single.
So his defence is ‘I only went out at weekends’ rather than ‘I would never do that’, and then he’s pissed when you want to talk about it.
Massive red flags. Just get out and move on.
This could be it. Maybe he looks like an alpha bro but doesn't act like one. Rather than worry about your partner, maybe you should take a harder look at the people who don't want to be friends with him and question where they are coming from.
Sounds like if his office is a bunch of alpha bros, then he probably doesn't laugh along with their inappropriate jokes and makes them feel like they are inappropriate. They wouldn't want someone who isn't going to want to go to strip clubs and hit on women who aren't their partners with them in Vegas, perhaps.
If your parents prefer guys who act like used car salesmen, that also kind of gives you an idea that they prefer guys who act a certain way.
Sounds like your partner found his friends when he found you.
the worst part is i know you’re right and i believe the same exact thing. i never wanted to be this person but i unfortunately feel so attached and i don’t know how to let go of him 🙁