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That is what happens with that behavior. I would have a very firm talk with her about what it’s OK I’m not OK and you guys need to agree on it or this is going to be your life with her and you will be divorced very quickly. In fact, if you can get it in New Orleans right now, I might not be a bad idea.
This is the one, OP. His timeline doesn't check out.
It's not illegal if a business has a few employees then they are allowed to pay cash. Cleaning a house or dog walking is not paid by check…and nobody is saying that a business would deliberately allow because she's a refuge…wages are not low…people get paid minimum wage and above
I understand that you feel your intentions were good but it just screams lack of respect for his boundaries. If you were to say no to something I'm sure you would hope your partner listened and respected that.
Your friends are kinda out of line. They're not dating, you are.
As for lifestyle conflicts, you eventually have to discuss this. Only you can decide if it's worth the challenges and compromise.
As for his lack of career ambition, i wouldn't think much of it. In this modern age, it's fine if the woman is the breadwinner of the family as long as the houseband does his share. It's a matter of give and take.
Of course, this is also worth discussing and contemplating about. Is this what you want? Not? Etc.
You love her but just don't like her parents…that happens more than you know. Get married and get through the wedding with the in laws and live a happy life.
Yeah I made it initially to surprise her but I’m just worried now if she knows I have a list every date we go on she thinks will be be planned.
So because she is pregnant he can’t go out and have fun? That makes no sense. Should he just stop drinking alcohol because she can’t? Should he also not eat cold cuts or sushi since she can’t?
Why should anyone have to give up anything? Why can’t she have a bachelorette weekend while pregnant or wait until after she gives birth? Ultimately it’s her body and she made the choice to keep the baby.
Yes, LOTS of parents love going out with friends. You can hang out with your friends and also be a good parent. I don’t get how you get him wanting to have a nice guys trip a month after the wedding as he’s not considerate, a bad husband, and potentially bad father. That’s such a leap.
Glad you are getting out of there. To be honest, Pete sounds more like a self loathing bastard who isn’t exactly as straight as he lets on and he’s projecting his self hate on you, because you were the one he put the moves on. He was probably raised in a homophobic, ultra religious household if I were to guess. However,these are not excuses, there is no excuse for what he did.
Tell him “no” and never to mention it again under any circumstances. Dump him if he does. You shouldn’t tolerate this or enable this sort of shitty behavior.
My wife was a club hopper before we met. I personally never had any interest in it. While we were dating, I told her even though I had no interest, I would not have any problem with her clubbing with her friends because I trusted her. She decided not to go anymore, but I encouraged her to go if she really wanted to for probably a year or two after that. She eventually told me she’d rather spend time with me than go to a club and that was it. If you enjoy doing it, you may have to find a new BF that supports and trusts you with it.
He's in a wheel chair he can't force me to have sex.
Have you met any of her friends? If the answer is no, I'd say you are the side piece relationship.
He’s telling you that he wants to get married but not to you. The fact the timeline doesn’t change means it’s not related to his relationship with you. He’d know by now if you were the one. He’d be telling you his plan and you’d know.
Instead the 5 years isn’t a changing time frame. He didn’t say 7 years when you met, he said 5. Two years on it’s still 5. He’s not counting down to a wedding with you.
Sadly I think the only thing you can do is move on. If you stay with him you won’t be happy and ultimately he’ll be the one leaving. Probably after you’ve been together 5 years. He’ll then meet and marry someone within 6 months and you’ll be even more heartbroken.
Girl… your relationship doesn’t sound like it’s going to last. But anyways, make him buy you a new chair. Make him buy you a new car. If he can’t or won’t, he needs to stfu.
She's a flake but nothing stated here smacks of her being a “narcissist”. What's likely going on is that you've invested far too much in some fantasy of her while she barely thinks of you at all. Sounds like an unrequited crush more than anything else.
If you are worried about him then call the police via non-emergency line to do a wellfare check on him.
I bet he is alive and punishing you by freezing you out. You need to end this for good.
He's an asshole: he hurts you repeatedly when drunk but sober him thinks it's okay to lift those cups! Sober him finds it acceptable to subject you to his BS and beg for forgiveness after and not just once. I suspect he does that on purpose.
Your the side chick ?. Big red flag I would be ending things.
Back in the 90's I was in a small group of people, an “inner circle” of my friends group and we all shared porn with each other.
Both men and women, including my then g/f, her BFF and older sister.
58M here – these are NOT trivial behaviours.
If you feel like a parent, he is not being a good partner. If you have to tell him what to do, you are being a manager, and he is not being a good partner. If you have to tell him to shower, you are being a parent, and he is not being a good partner.
And if his parents are expecting you to “take care of them” when they're “old”, you know where he is getting his expectations from.
Realize that, if you get married, they're not likely to change. You can't educate or shame them into changing – they'll only change if they actually want to change. If you stay in this relationship, you had better be comfortable being the one that keeps track of chores, ensures that things get done, and more. Expect to be handed the majority of the responsibility for any and all children you have.
If that's not the life that you want, then you have a decision to make. You can a) have an adult conversation with him (again) and say that this is not the life you want to build together and lay out how you feel, and ask him how it is that he feels comfortable being a child in the relationship, or b) just bail now, since you've already had conversations with him and he hasn't taken you seriously.
If you go with a) – DO NOT TEACH HIM HOW TO BE A PARTNER. That way lies resentment – for both of you. We on-line in an age where the sum of human knowledge is available at whim. There are millions of web pages, and probably billions of videos on how to be a good partner. If he doesn't want to learn that, then you will know. If you teach him, he will resent you for “being picky” or “nagging all the time”. Or, you will resent him for still making you do the emotional work to teach him how to be an adult partner.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. That's why it's important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.” Maya Angelou
Marriage requires mutual respect, love, compassion and support. If he's waiting to be told to do things, he's not respecting you and not supporting you. I'm no paragon, but having failed at two marriages so far, I've learned this much – if your partner is not working to be a better person, then they're just expecting you to accept that this is as good as it will get.
Good luck, OP. I hope you have a life filled with love, respect, support and compassion. With or without him.