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Misstela Public Chat Channel
Date: January 10, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Misstela Public Chat Channel
To put this in the nicest way possible; you’re an idiot.
People can change, absolutely.
He’s very clearly not going to change. Not anytime soon at least.
You knew about him before you dated him, decided to date him despite the relationship starting on the wrong foot, got cheated on, and now wondering if he is going to change?
From his point of view why would he? He gets the girlfriend and he gets to go fuck other people because there are no real consequences for that behavior.
Friendship can happen and cannot happen. If you connect at some level, communication should be easier overtime. You both will find easier to share more of yourself with each other. The best way to befriend her is trying to do things with her group of friends (when men and women are included). If they have a plan for doing something fun, be sure to ask if you can join.
To me it sounds like she's frustrated because, according to her own words, whenever he's not liked something new she's tried with her appearance and kindly said so, she's taken his advice and not done the thing again.
She didn’t have to change her appearance to appease her husband…? She could have remained the way she was, but instead chose to make changes. Those are things she values, but she was still afforded a choice.
Wow. You’re a piece of work. And your boyfriend is a disloyal jerk. Enjoy each other.
There is no way I’d be sleeping with a guy for a month and a half. They did that or in the situation at all toxic get out.
The short answer is, you talk to her.
The thing is I have nothing to talk w her outside of class. I’m interested in her but I don’t even know if she’s interested in me or if she’s single.
You ask her about the things that she likes, and you ask her about the things you like. You see if there's anything in common.
In general, if someone has a significant other, it will come up over the course of such conversations. After all, most of us share hobbies with our significant others. If not, you're just going to have to ask and put up with the risk of rejection.