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Date: September 24, 2022
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So, you are saying that you have no control over where you stick your dick? Use a condom or stop having unprotected sex! FFS!
Biology lesson – anytime you have sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex, even using protection, you risk pregnancy. Obviously the risk increases when said intercourse is unprotected.
You need to see a therapist ASAP. This isn't something you can solve yourself.
Just because you think it’s the right thing to do it doesn’t make it the right thing to do. He told you “no” so respect his boundaries. It isn’t his problem you feel bad about it. He does feel bad at all so no need to insist.
Chase happiness or Money. Happiness wins.
Lol! Don't worry, I curse a lot too, sailors mouth! Yes, I immediately realized this situation I was in when I saw the file. I have been searching up everything I need to know, and my mom has been helping me a lot to learn the court stuff. I am planning on leaving as soon as I can!
That really sucks for you. I’m so sorry.
“Hey, bf, I appreciate the gifts but would you cut back on getting them? I'm having an unexpected emotional reaction & it's not comfortable for me.” Also, though, if you can — this is what therapy is made for.
The best advice would be to stop cheating on your husband.
I mean.. I'm a bit more creative than that, But I get your point.
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Final Edit:
Thank you to everyone who has been responding in the comments. I have decided that, since I do not have any way to contact the wife personally, I will speak to my friend tomorrow and tell her that she needs to tell the wife herself. I will let her know that until she or the guy does that, I do not want to be in contact with her for the foreseeable future and/or until the wife is being told as we seem to have very fundamentally different values.
My best friend since childhood, a 23-year-old woman who still lives at home with her family and just graduated from high school last summer is dating a 50-year-old man who is also her former high school teacher and now part-time coworker. He's been married to his wife for over 20 years and they've got two teenage kids together. He is cheating on his wife and my best friend is his affair partner. At this point I am just so fucking tired of all the discussions we had about this so I'll keep it short.
She says she loves him more than anything (they've been secretly dating for 2 months), he says he loves her as well. I have tried everything to explain to her why this “relationship” is wrong and utterly disgusting.
1) He is 50, she is 23. A 50 year old man should not be romantically interested in a woman who was born when he himself was 27.
2) He is married. He's got kids. He is waking up every day and actively choosing to betray his wife and family to, well, to fuck someone who's only barely older than his own kids.
3) Less than a year ago she was his HIGH SCHOOL student. Comoared to her, he is in a great position of power.
4) He's got his own family, house and life that he's been building up for the past 25 years. My best friend still lives at home in her childhood bedroom and feel very comfortable with that. He's got 27 years of just overall life experience that she does not have.
5) To me, this whole thing just screams “midlife crisis”. She says she absolutely understands why he's cheating on his wife because his life got so “boring and normal after 25 years of being with the same woman and I give him the attention that he wants”. She doesn't see what's wrong with that statement.
There's a lot more but I'm just too tired to write more at this point. I have his full name, I have found a work email-address and am considering contacting him to tell him to back off. I love my friend and have her best interests at heart, she can be extremely gullible and naive, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. She is absolutely infatuated with this man and believes in a happy ever after farytale ending of this situation for her.
I am angry that I can't do anything. I don't know what to do, I don't know what to say to her so that she will open her eyes and see this man for the pervert and creep that he is and not for her prince charming who “just couldn't chose who he fell in love with”. What can I do? What can I say to her? Should I or shouldn't I contact him? I am so fucking frustrated.
Edit because people are confused about a 22-year-old graduating high school:
We are not American, in my country there's a variety of different “basic” educational paths that you can take, some will get you apprenticeships for jobs, others will get you the degree you need to be able to go to university. My friend decided that she wanted to study at university after completing all our base level education and thus had to attend another form of high school in order to get that degree, I hope that clears things up a bit.
Edit 2 specifically for the person calling me a troll:
Feel free to look up just how every aspect of Switzerland's educational system works. I'm sorry I don't have the energy to do that right now.
I watched some interesting documentaries about these kind of conspiracies, and why people believe them, literally this morning.
What's really interesting is that these kind of ideas about COVID and such are extremist views held by groups that act similarly to terrorist organisations. The difference is, there are WAY more women who buy into these QAnon-related conspiracies than into the ideologies of extreme religious organisations, and the reason for this is actually really simple: COVID and government conspiracies target women by appealing to their desire to “PLEASE think of the children!” (but in a non-sarcastic way).
They post memes about “what will you say when your child asks you why you did nothing to save their world”, “Mommy, don't you care about my future?”, shit like that. I reckon that's what she was seeing and responding to. She was thinking emotionally, not rationally.
Wizard's First Rule: People will believe anything, either because they want it to be true, or they're afraid it's true.
Also, sometimes people like the idea that they know something others don't. They have insight that others lack, which makes them special, because they're able to “see through the bullshit and know how we're being manipulated”. And the two can feed into each other.
People who believe these things CAN be deprogrammed, but that's exactly what it is. It's like taking someone who was in a cult and having to slowly break them free from their strongly held beliefs. It's hot work and takes a LONG time.
It sucks, but if I were you I'd chalk this up as a learning experience (as my mother would say) and take the lesson that such wildly different, deeply held beliefs cannot be simply waved away or agreed to not be discussed in a relationship. You need someone who agrees with you on a deep level, with your surface beliefs being different.
Good luck, OP.
Even though when we were in the relationship, she expected me to share a lot of details about my past? And I respected her want and shared..?
no it's not. and I never said parents don't get breaks nor did I say they can't have weekends. what I said was that if you plan to date a single parent, eventually your free time (as in all relationships) become filled with the person and their kids and to expect a weekend every month where you get to get away from said person and their kids is unrealistic if things are serious wit that person. But God forbid I speak truth
OP this is not the crazy you are looking for, she's going to ruin your peace if you continue on with this relationship and you're constantly going to be walking on eggshells wondering what next thing you say is going to set her off.
Your wife is pretty dumb then. Sorry.
Honestly I would send the screenshots and say something like “very gross” or “how embarrassing” and then block
I agree. To OP, this girl may be the worst person ever. To everyone else it could just be that she’s an asshole who picks on OP.
Just him lol my oldest child is from a previous, he has been in his life since he was 10months old. I've always wanted to get married but I guess just waiting on him. He knows