Part of the reason he isn’t chasing could be that he doesn’t have to. You initiate often enough so that he doesn’t ever get pent up. Also worth noting that if you initiate often, he may feel that when you aren’t initiating you aren’t in the mood.
Communication is key, and when I had a conversation with my partner about finding it very hot and wanting her to initiate more often it worked out well.
Bruh. It’s not cool to be sayin I love you to exes. You’ve got some wild boundaries but whatever works for you is fine I guess. I can ABSOLUTELY say without a shadow of a doubt I love exactly zero exes. Suggesting everyone should just be cool with your very unusual viewpoint is pretty naive.
I can agree on that though OP didn't elaborate much on how the conversation went when she brought it up. He may have apologized. Maybe not. We don't really know but I agree he needs to understand that she's sensitive about her parts, as many women tend to be, and he can accommodate for that in the future as he writes his terrible jokes.
Part of the reason he isn’t chasing could be that he doesn’t have to. You initiate often enough so that he doesn’t ever get pent up. Also worth noting that if you initiate often, he may feel that when you aren’t initiating you aren’t in the mood.
Communication is key, and when I had a conversation with my partner about finding it very hot and wanting her to initiate more often it worked out well.
You’re 38 and still this naive? Move on
Sounds like she is in his life the way you keep saying she isn't over and over again. She certainly is living in your head. Is she paying rent?
If it bothers you, bring it up and put the anxiety to rest. His reaction will either be good or bad, but it will be done.
Otherwise, you can just let her live on in your head. . .
Nope, not real, thanks for playing.
Bruh. It’s not cool to be sayin I love you to exes. You’ve got some wild boundaries but whatever works for you is fine I guess. I can ABSOLUTELY say without a shadow of a doubt I love exactly zero exes. Suggesting everyone should just be cool with your very unusual viewpoint is pretty naive.
Then why the f are you allowing a stalker around you. And yes she is a stalker.
I’m so so sorry.
I can agree on that though OP didn't elaborate much on how the conversation went when she brought it up. He may have apologized. Maybe not. We don't really know but I agree he needs to understand that she's sensitive about her parts, as many women tend to be, and he can accommodate for that in the future as he writes his terrible jokes.
No sir.
What she’s done, and continues to do is quite inappropriate.