Thank you for the insight. I tried to research Asperger’s to support her with the struggles that it causes, but I have a hot time imagining how she actually perceives social cues, so this comment has been really helpful.
She has been telling me about her lack of empathy even before this situation, but I thought that we would be able to work it out together. She is in a lot of ways pretty self-centered, but I thought that it might be because of Asperger’s too. Thinking about it now, a lot of her behaviour alings with narcissism. Maybe I need to do some research on that aswell.
I really don’t mind guy friends, but this was explicitely a crush, which makes the whole secrecy worse for me. It all felt so deliberate, that I can’t count this as just an accident.
You’ve given me a lot to think about, and your comment is really helpful. Thank you.
“I can fix her” /s
Thank you for the insight. I tried to research Asperger’s to support her with the struggles that it causes, but I have a hot time imagining how she actually perceives social cues, so this comment has been really helpful.
She has been telling me about her lack of empathy even before this situation, but I thought that we would be able to work it out together. She is in a lot of ways pretty self-centered, but I thought that it might be because of Asperger’s too. Thinking about it now, a lot of her behaviour alings with narcissism. Maybe I need to do some research on that aswell.
I really don’t mind guy friends, but this was explicitely a crush, which makes the whole secrecy worse for me. It all felt so deliberate, that I can’t count this as just an accident.
You’ve given me a lot to think about, and your comment is really helpful. Thank you.