OP why are u with this dude? He clearly is breaking boundaries of things that u aren't comfortable with AND HAVE STATED AS SUCH! due to literal SA trauma and ontop of it found it funny? And then ignored u for not liking it?
ur staying because?
“He's a good guy?” :No he isnt! I married a good guy, i have family members and friends who are good guys… ur bf did something to u you hate and makes u feel gross about urself for his own pleasure and found your discomfort humorous! Good men don't do that!
Because “you love him?” : my gurl wtf is there to love?! He sounds like a creep. And don't say uve been together for a long time. That doesn't excuse his behavior it makes it worse.
Because “he will say sorry and it was a mistake”: he wasn't sorry! And he made that rather clear if he apologizes it'll be to get u off his back not because he gives a shit about the fact it hurt u. Bt to get u to stop nagging him if u get the self respect to tell him it's unacceptable.
U shouldn't feel Slightly violated.. he violated u! U don't do tht shit to someone u love especially someone that's been physically and mentally impacted by trauma because of the same shit!
U deserve better please Lord have the decency towards urself to get a better bf!
If he's upset because he now knows, ok well maybe I can see that but if he's upset because you hooked up with someone then fuck him, he didn't want you and you weren't together, you can do whatever you want.
And you don't have to downplay the guy like you did, it doesn't matter if it was serious or a one night stand or if you keep in touch, it was your business to do as you please.
I’m not angry anymore. I used to be since it was being dismissed.
I have forgiven her for that. She’s struggling to forgive me for what I did. She says it’s “way worse” than hers. We both want our marriage to thrive. It’s just a matter of her being able to work through and not hold it over my head.
Well you clearly only want him for his body, because you didn't want him before. Of course you can't really control what you're attracted to, but your language is gross . Hopefully he knows his worth and won't settle with you
This would have been useful info to include in the OP.
Sounds like you’re too busy for a girlfriend, bun her off, be single and enjoy life.
I feel this comment on a deep level. Every time for me too, this is the 3rd person and now I know it’s not a coincidence
Yes, the only reason some people don't have as much money as others is organization skills. /s
Yea still weird
OP why are u with this dude? He clearly is breaking boundaries of things that u aren't comfortable with AND HAVE STATED AS SUCH! due to literal SA trauma and ontop of it found it funny? And then ignored u for not liking it?
ur staying because?
“He's a good guy?” :No he isnt! I married a good guy, i have family members and friends who are good guys… ur bf did something to u you hate and makes u feel gross about urself for his own pleasure and found your discomfort humorous! Good men don't do that!
Because “you love him?” : my gurl wtf is there to love?! He sounds like a creep. And don't say uve been together for a long time. That doesn't excuse his behavior it makes it worse.
Because “he will say sorry and it was a mistake”: he wasn't sorry! And he made that rather clear if he apologizes it'll be to get u off his back not because he gives a shit about the fact it hurt u. Bt to get u to stop nagging him if u get the self respect to tell him it's unacceptable.
U shouldn't feel Slightly violated.. he violated u! U don't do tht shit to someone u love especially someone that's been physically and mentally impacted by trauma because of the same shit!
U deserve better please Lord have the decency towards urself to get a better bf!
If he's upset because he now knows, ok well maybe I can see that but if he's upset because you hooked up with someone then fuck him, he didn't want you and you weren't together, you can do whatever you want.
And you don't have to downplay the guy like you did, it doesn't matter if it was serious or a one night stand or if you keep in touch, it was your business to do as you please.
I just saw previous posts about him and its just.. no
I did a few years ago and would consider going back.
I guess I'm worried too that the space I'd give would drive her away too
Leave
I eventually got the ick, too. That's what led to his new girlfriend and how I eventually got free. I stopped making the best out of crumbs.
Especially since this dude is obviously wealthy. They are LOOKING to be taken advantage of.
I’m not angry anymore. I used to be since it was being dismissed.
I have forgiven her for that. She’s struggling to forgive me for what I did. She says it’s “way worse” than hers. We both want our marriage to thrive. It’s just a matter of her being able to work through and not hold it over my head.
Hollywood really needs to hire ChatGPT, it was a very engaging story.
Well you clearly only want him for his body, because you didn't want him before. Of course you can't really control what you're attracted to, but your language is gross . Hopefully he knows his worth and won't settle with you