But you are, judging yourself simply by making the comparison. We all have our cross to bear in life, it’s what we do with the shit pile we are handed that matters
Yes everyone has value
Nobody can help you like you except you. You don’t need to convince me, you need to convince you.
It is wishful thinking. That's not how people work. You know this intellectually, even if you are pushing back against it emotionally. Don't do the stupid thing here, you'll regret it if you do.
Do not apologize. If anything, say “I’m sorry for taking you at your word that you didn’t want any” and leave it at that.
She is an adult. She needs to learn to communicate honestly if she wants something. Demanding an apology like this is manipulative bullshit.
But you are, judging yourself simply by making the comparison. We all have our cross to bear in life, it’s what we do with the shit pile we are handed that matters
Yes everyone has value
Nobody can help you like you except you. You don’t need to convince me, you need to convince you.
You are a grown woman, start acting like one
Tell her. Omission when you know your partner wants to know, isn’t that far from lying about it.
It is wishful thinking. That's not how people work. You know this intellectually, even if you are pushing back against it emotionally. Don't do the stupid thing here, you'll regret it if you do.
But now she is also critizing the wedding as well.