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Birth Date: 1996-04-21
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Date: October 3, 2022
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Who cares his intention. His prices are out of line, have someone else do the work.
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You keep saying he lives 5 minutes away… but it's really not.
Say the kids get up at 6. Dad's not there. Mom calls him to come over. He's not going to be there at 6:05. He needs to get out of bed, probably have a cup of coffee, shower then rush over.
That's not 5 minutes. That's a good half hour of kids waiting for Dad, which for kids on Christmas will seem like 10 hours (and probably for Mom too since she'll be hearing them complain the whole time).
My wife and I fluctuate. Sometimes we’ll have sex 4-5 times a day….sometimes we’ll go a month or two and only have sex once in that time period. The important thing is carving out time that you spend together. Sec is important, but to me sitting on the couch while watching a movie or having a conversation is equal to it.
I suggest you both grow up, stop creeping on each others SM and accept that each of you had a past. Why would you unblock his exes and then moan when one of them is a chat or friend suggestion. So what if she came up as a suggestion, does it matter? You invited it when you creeped in his SM after his exes!
it's her job to be attractive, most normal people like use aren't getting paid to look good
You're joking right? That's so much more mean than what bf said. All he said was, “I guess, but I like you more.” At least bf ended what he said with he likes OP more. With your example, it's just blatant shaming for not being a professional model. That's fucked up.
I'm not sure if this is a form of gaslighting or something. Like hes trying to make out I'm the problem because I've literally pointed out that I've caught him out in lies or controlling behaviour.
Yes. All of this.
Why does a man in his mid thirties date a 23 year old ' sweet and innocent ' / Ew / girl? He thought you would not call him out and put up with his crap. Listen to your gut. Kick him out. Now. This will only get worse. Before you know it he'll cut you off from friends and knock you up.
It is understandable that you are feeling confused and overwhelmed by the situation you are in. It is never easy to find out that your partner has cheated on you, especially when you are almost eight months pregnant. It is important to take the time to process your emotions and consider what is best for you and your baby.
It is ultimately up to you to decide whether you want to continue the relationship with your partner. It may be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you work through your feelings and make a decision. It is also important to remember that it is never too late to seek help and make positive changes in your life, whether that means ending the relationship or working on rebuilding trust and communication within it.
If you do decide to continue the relationship, it will be important for your partner to take responsibility for his actions and demonstrate a willingness to make changes to rebuild trust. This may include seeking individual counseling to address any underlying issues that may have contributed to the infidelity, as well as attending couples therapy to work on communication and rebuilding the relationship. It is also important for both of you to be honest and open with each other, and to make an effort to prioritize your relationship and address any concerns or issues that may arise.
Your friend is into you. He’s not disgusted that you sleep around because of that lifestyle, he just doesn’t like that it’s not him.
no of course not – and no one is saying that
Groomers marry their victims regularly – the two things are not mutually exclusive.
BUT you have had a crush on him (you were not in love with him) since you were 15 and he was 30. He took advantage of that and when you are 30 and you look at 15 year olds you'll see the problem
A good man isn't selfish in bed, doesn't ignore his partner and isnt content to be bad at sex. He should feel ashamed of himself.
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this is a really bad sign. there are ways to teach a kitten how to not scratch, but even still…how is he going to react to his children making mistakes in the future? kids screw up, sometimes in very painful ways. is he going to throw them and things at them and scream at them too? will he never applogize to his kids for hurtung them? what happens if you accidentally hurt him some day and he forgets that youre not a cat? how a man treats an innocent and defenseless animal is one of the biggest tells of his personality imo
Question: Would you shun a female member of the group for unapologetically slapping her boyfriend?
I also don't see anything wrong with it. You don't seem to dispute the claim that it wasn't that serious.
There are times when it's disrespectful to get with a friend's ex — say, that ex was abusive to them, or the breakup is still emotionally fraught. These exceptions ought to be taken seriously, but they can't be because of people like you who try to put them under a blanket umbrella of “I have permanent dibs on everyone I've ever had sex with”.
i’m not trying to be controlling at all ik we both have our own lives i’m just scared she’s gonna leave yk
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Drunk words are generally sober thoughts. You honey are being treated like garbage. You need to get yourself into therapy and you need to leave him. This will only progress and get worse.
I disagree. He said she resorted to crying when they argue in order to derail the conversation. That’s not the same as not crying at all, ever. I feel she’s being even more manipulative now by doing this, trying to further guilt him.
This isn't a problem with your partner. This is the problem:
I struggle with getting her approval and it is very important to me.
You're not getting her approval. Forget it and free yourself. No guy will be good enough for her. This will probably never stop. Getting your boyfriends to bend to her whims to make you happy is not the answer, never will be. Note i said “to make you happy” there and not her? Because she wont change and you're just doing this for your own discomfort. You have to get over this.
Accept that you're not getting her approval and on-line your life.
Is it normal to have guests help around like that? That's not an invitation to come over for dinner.
I mean you could tell him, hey next time would you mind helping out with xyz it would mean abc to me and my family.
However, if you need your mother's approval when she's difficult to please and no one is good enough for her , you'll be setting yourself up for a difficult possibly lonely life there.
I'd ditch my dad if her ever does something like that to my mom
Put all the pros and cons of hers on apiece od paper. Od the cons are small or easy to overlook/fix, then go for it, but if they are double the amount of pros, you have some deep questions to ask yourself of why are you still with her
So you both disagree and have different viewpoints that won’t change.
Why are you (both) still together?
Where was the conclusion talk?
I could just be a general incompatibility. He might not be a bad person and it might not be related to your past trauma. I would say that if you are spending so much time thinking about how you want to break up with him, then I think it's probably best for both of you that you do. Sometimes people just aren't right for each other and it's not either person's fault. Its better to break things off so that both of you can go find partners who are better suited for you.
He's too old to be so irresponsible. Unless you want to be broke the rest of your life, you'll need to break up and move out.
Thanks for the encouragement, I'll give it a shot. The fact that we're still living together can make me forget that I don't have much left to lose, so I need to keep that front of mind.
You are a fucking awful , vile man. You are a terrible husband and will be a awful father. Your wife may have a scar (from defending you , you piece of shit) but YOU are the ugly one through and through .
Bullshit. Bullshit. Lies. Liar.
Want a weird fix?
You say fuck it. I am going to give this guy the best reletionship possible. You do such a good job at it where it would be laughable if he was to cheat on you.
You make it so it would become his loss, not yours.
That way if it does ever happen, you can brush it off and take your premium reletionship to someone who deserves it.
So she is mentally unstable and a hoe? Wow, what a packet. She definitely will not kill herself lol. Why tf would she cheat on you if she loves you to the point of suicide? Leave that hoe, she's using her mental problems to manipulate you. Don't let her walk all over you, my man.
If you talk to him, be prepared for him to get defensive. This is a good thing in his life and theirs and potentially yours. Be careful not to ruin it for yourself. If it were me I’d go with every time and play too. You can also bake cookies and help the mom clean while they play. Make your house a great hang out spot for those kids so the mom can have some alone time.
There are lots of kinds of families. You can be an auntie and uncle for those kids. That’s what I’d embrace.
As long as it works for the two of you! I’m also extremely plan-oriented and my whole life is my calendar. Which is why my partner and our sex is life is, my respite almost. It’s where I can loosen my grip for once and relax. But this is why we communicate with the people we love – tell them what we need! So good on you.
Yes I dont like when he dismiss me like this and goes to sleep and leave me feeling bad (attachment issues)
Do you think 6 months is long enough to know you've changed as a person? Cuz it seems like you care more about your wants and zero about anyone else's. I haven't heard anything that you've done to show people you've changed for the better. You're doing things that look better, like I am totally doing therapy and in 6 months they fixed how narcissistic and selfish I behaved with cheating and using people…also I picked up pottery so I'm all better and a perfect, trustworthy person
Having a termination is kinda a big deal in just that you need someone to drive you to and from and you’ll be bleeding heavily and need to rest for a week or 2.
It does not go unnoticed. Would he expect you to ‘go on a holiday’ and go through this alone? Fuck no.
You need to comfort him and reassure him about it. I know it may seem like simple jealousy and him being silly but it goes deeper than that.
Its the fact that you looked at another man's body and this can make your husband insecure of his own body if Tom's body looked better than his. Also, no matter how much your husband may trust you, after seeing that, you tend to think the worst and to be completely honest aswell that excuse kind of seems bullshit I'm not saying it is but if I were your husband I probably wouldn't believe it so I'd say you just need to comfort him about it, let him take some space and explain to him and even provide proof aswel
so this is an on-line relationship? That's not a real relationship. If she's never seen him in person it isn't real. He is acting out his fantasies live. That's the sum of it.
Oh thank god you stopped me before I did it then
we started dating in the same day we met. I don't think there's an amount of dates you have to do. If you match, you match from the first day
we started dating in the same day we met. I don't think there's an amount of dates you have to do. If you match, you match from the first day
we started dating in the same day we met. I don't think there's an amount of dates you have to do. If you match, you match from the first day
Google it. He’s definitely cheating and looking for a way to leave
Google it. He’s definitely cheating and looking for a way to leave
“Initially, I had a feeling that I had no choice but to support her decision because she is my wife and I couldn't make a different choice for her.”
You're right that you couldn't control what choice she made. However, that doesn't mean you can't make a different choice for yourself. Get a lawyer, file for divorce, and make sure she doesn't name you on the birth certificate. Don't sign the birth certificate either. Get this started before she gives birth. She'll have to figure out who the father is.
Given ur mom's age, there is a huge risk that you will be raising ur sister/daughter in time to come. Talk about sister mom ming…
It's exhausting to be a geriatric mom past 35, let alone past 45.
You already have ruined his relationship and he has also. Guilt is a thing. Sometimes cause it eats people up. It stamped that you slept with him in his mind and it stamped in yours. When package gets stamped at post office it continues to it destination but the stamps is there even if faded or rained on in transit. True empathy and sympathy honesty and apology. And not doing it again is best recourse.
that’s very true, i guess a part of me wants him to feel bad and miss me but i know i shouldn’t care
That makes sense. Therapy is probably a good idea. I shouldn't care about him but apparently it all just snuck up on me.
Even if her diet is out of whack — you're going to change your whole diet for a roommate? Nah. Also totally inappropriate to ask her to medicate herself.
My dad did this and it drove me bonkers, I thought he didn't think I was capable of looking after myself.
After he passed I read parts of his notebooks, turned out he was showing me how much he cared. What I wouldn't give to hear those things now.
That depends entirely on the style of make up. If she is into make trends from TikTok etc it may make the situation worse.
No, feeling sad about someone’s sexual history isn’t what I would consider a usual response. But then I wouldn’t not expect someone to say they didn’t have a history, so when you say you weren’t expecting it, why not? People have lots of different experiences and people in their lives. That’s my advice. Is look at what your preconceived ideas were and whether or not 1) they matter in terms of making decisions about who you do and don’t have relationships with and 2) whether it’s reasonable to have them. There are many times I expect something, it doesn’t happen, but rather than be sad it’s a good time to challenge myself. Is it reasonable that I thought that, or is it time to challenge my preconceived ideas.
She used to be a ballerina, she loves dancing. She's a big fan of retro stuff, but doesn't like the place to be overfilled with decorations. She's an amazing cook but because our apartment is a rental, the tools we have are quite poor. We already have some stuff to make good ingredients, but the cooktop and the oven are absolutely worthless. She used to go to dozens of concerts a year but since she divorced her husband, that doesn''t happen much anymore (she only goes to the ones I wanna go to). She's still big into music. We don't really have hobbies, we're more the kind of people who organize stuff in our community. She's dislexic so she doesn't read often. Ever since we're together she loves film but doesn't know much about it. I'd love to take her to Disneyland, but then again since buying a ring that doesn't fit into my budget right now (that'd be 300+ EUR). She works at a clothing store and they sell jewelry as well, so she's kinda obliged to wear those clothes and jewels.
Thank you for a fresh perspective. I feel like most of the comments are either blaming me, or blaming her and nothing inbetween
Other people should mind their own business. After everyone is aware she is an adult the gossip should stop. We don’t want people blaming women by the way they dress as justifying rape and assault, this is no different. There’s no pedo dress code.
Being with someone who doesn’t like to be clingy is one thing.
Being with someone who gets angry when you are upset. Is a completely other thing.
I don’t think this is the right person for you. Sounds to me like you need to be with someone empathetic and laid back.
OP hasn't responded to the comments. Think it might be a fake post.
Wow.
Before even dating, I was honest with my husband that I absolutely hate cooking. He, on the contrary, loves it. So, we got along well in this deal. But, if he had said he hates cooking too, we'd have to eat out. Cooking for me is the most exhausting and upsetting things someone can ask me to do. I can do all the rest if someone else cooks. It literally ruins my mood and the food always gets bad due to my hate and impatience.
If that's his case, break up. I would if I were him.
If it's just because he's lazy, then maybe setting days and alternates the responsible for cooking and have days to order in between – up to a certain number of times a month so you don't spend a lot. Also, share the payment for the food ordered. You shouldn't have to pay for all alone. He needs to pay for it too.