there's no universal standard for what cheating is. so many conflicts happen because two people have conflicting definitions and they never discuss them until it's too late. this is a good opportunity for OP and his wife to have a very open and frank conversation about where their boundaries are and set a more solid foundation for the future.
So he's either a controlling, jealous asshole, who thinks that sleeping with one's siblings is common, or he's watching too much siblings porn. Any chance he's had an inappropriate relationship with a family member? Consensual or non? Seems like there's something deeper going on there with him. And your family telling you to apologize is they them wanting it to go away, and they are wrong.
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there's no universal standard for what cheating is. so many conflicts happen because two people have conflicting definitions and they never discuss them until it's too late. this is a good opportunity for OP and his wife to have a very open and frank conversation about where their boundaries are and set a more solid foundation for the future.
So he's either a controlling, jealous asshole, who thinks that sleeping with one's siblings is common, or he's watching too much siblings porn. Any chance he's had an inappropriate relationship with a family member? Consensual or non? Seems like there's something deeper going on there with him. And your family telling you to apologize is they them wanting it to go away, and they are wrong.