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I think you need to sit down with her and talk more. What does desired her level of attention look like, and is it reasonable for you to accommodate?
This happened to my friend… sort of. She had a coming out party. Dated a woman for like a year and then was with a man. Not going to lie… I was confused for a second but she said something akin to… “I thought I was gay but it never fully worked for me… I think I just loved her…” and everyone accepted this… and her. The thing is… people may ask, just have a canned response and don’t make it a huge thing. “Guess I have an exception… and it is Garry.”
Go be happy.
Have some self respect. Call out her shitty behavior and walk.
It could also be her friend putting weird thoughts into her head. Like she was telling her the experience and her friend got the wrong info and butted into your relationship. Maybe it's over, and that's fine. Maybe you ask for a side talk with her without her friend. The lesson here is to communicate as in yes you can feel these emotions but it's how you respond and take action is what matters.
They are probably thinking they dodged a bullet on their side because of your reaction. You could've responded with, what you said here that you were feeling the situation and the body language said yes. If she resisted you'd have given her time and space till she was ready. If you feel like BS is happening you need to say so, but having a reaction of breaking up on the spot even though now you didn't feel it was right is something to think about. Feelings happen in the moment, but your actions should be well thought out. It would've been appropriate to ask what prompted this response. You need to know the whys and those are the questions you need to ask as a man.
Do we, though? That's nowhere in the post.
Well, for one there's no indication that he's ever insistent or try to force OP's hand. He gets upset after getting rejected so many times, but OP never talked about him trying to change her mind after getting rejected. He never challenged her right to say no, just expressed that the constant rejections are making him feel unwanted. So we know he's patient, respects her boundaries, tries to come up with activities she likes, and is even ready to drive to see her when sick.
My only issue is where you said she needs to put in the effort or have sex without romance. It is both their responsibility to put in effort, and driving to her house is not enough effort.
That's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that we have no indication OP is putting any effort to make romance happen when she's the one who needs it the most. Read her post again, he's the one who made all the suggestions and the arrangements, OP simply accepts or refuses without making any alternative suggestion.
You can have romance on a Sunday afternoon, you can have romance in a 30 minutes meetup at an hotel. Was it a bit gauche to suggest coming over just to get frisky? A bit, but the guy's sick, six months in the waiting and trying to salvage his initial plans the best he can. Why couldn't OP make a suggestion or plan something for them in that time slot? Like you said, it's both their responsibility to put in effort, so where's her part?
Does your husband know that you went on dates with other guys?
Then you give him space, that's love. You wanting to comfort him is wanting to make everything okay with you when it's not. That's you wanting to absolve your guilt. That's not love, that's self interest. He needs space. He needs to be respected and heard by you. He needs to also communicate. Did you know they were racist? He should have told you that if not, but everything else here is on you and a savior complex you need to work out on therapy.
Wait, teenager is about generations? I always thought it was about age. Silly me…
Lying is not a way to keep trust. She is right not to trust you.
It's never okay to go through someone else's phone, and certainly not okay to question you about your parents in a demanding, intrusive way — she was wrong to do that — but hearing her questions makes me wonder about your relationship with your parents.
Your ex's questions (and your quoted remarks from your mother) give me an impression that your parents have domineering or judgmental tendencies…which is one of the things that trains children to lie.
I know it's common in some places and traditions to have bad boundaries with children, even adult children, but that tendency makes the child lie for a number of different reasons. To have a sense of control; out of self-preservation (to avoid constant judgements and demands to change); to avoid conflict; to keep them happy.
Aside from the fact that it can also keep the child in a state of anxiety (again, for a lot of different reasons), it can also cultivate a sense that bad boundaries are normal. A person who grows up having to lie will sometimes seek a partner who fits that same codependent pattern — I mean, your girlfriend sounded just like your mother, and both of them pecking at you is no good.
Here's the advice: cultivate boundaries with your mother and father. You don't have to be disrespectful, but you are nearly 30 years old, and you don't have to answer to them. Cultivate silence if the truth is not going to be spoken. Find a partner who has good boundaries, and show her (and yourself) respect by telling the truth.
I did mention it several times to my fiancé but he doesn’t feel the need to do anything because she’s chalking it up as “she’s joking”. ?
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
No, find yourself a real Asian man.
Yes, his family that already took her side. If they don't want to support him then they don't get to have him around.