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We are Gaby (Blonde) and Barbara (Blacky), ?PVT is Open!?Please Make Us CUM?, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 5, 2022
Not much info to go on & this seems one sided. There are 2 sides to every story
Thank you for your response. Others are telling me to give up, and I get where they’re coming from, but I’d like to at least try a conversation (if I can get him away from his girlfriend for two minutes). He may just be clueless, so I’d like to give him the chance to understand why this matters to me.
I just don’t know how to phrase it. I think I’d rather just have like a complete sentence that includes all my thoughts on the matter condensed and then just leave him with that, even if he doesn’t / won’t really respond :/
Ummm. Doesn't sound like you want any advice. You just want to brag. But there isn't much to brag about – you used someone's desperation for an easy score. And not like it was even a good score, you only “scored” a claim to her virginity. I'd be embarrassed to brag about that…
How recently has she said it first?
Any source for your claim
Not saying this is the case but here is a slightly relevant anecdote that may shed some light:
When I was just turning 19, my girlfriend was invited to a party where her ex was going to be. Unfortunately, she had nowhere to stay because a taxi was “too expensive :(“, so she said the only place she could stay was at her ex's house. I immediately cut all contact with her and said it was out of order. It turns out she was still sleeping with her ex behind my back.
The point is, your GF has the choice to go or not, your lack of invitation isn't your girlfriend's fault but if she chooses to go, it shows she values more what her ex thinks of her than what you think of her.
Let him leave and in a week or two text him about when he’d like to pick up his stuff.
This is manipulative behavior – going silent during arguments – and a way to control. Its not healthy communication or behavior and while its naked you should move on.
He shouldn't be your boyfriend then. That's controlling as fuck and I think you know that.
Do you think there is a way I could effectively communicate that with her or is that more of a standard that I should just hold
Unless things have changed in the last year or so… the souse is responsible and has ti pay child support if they divorce. I don’t know that they’ve changed things because of same sex marriage laws.
The thing is I'm considering staying with him.
You're giving him a free pass because he's hiding his sexuality?
So it's very touchy for me.
Is it really though?
You do you, I'm just gonna get the rubber stamp;
Dont Stay With Cheats
Maybe because men and women are… dare I say… different?
What are you getting out of this arrangement? If you want something better for yourself ditch this long distance pen pal.
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Js.. as a married woman I'd want to know. So i can kick the shit out of him. Poor woman thinks shes married to a man that isn't a utter AH. Tell her!
I lost mine around his age, the best thing for you to do is to be patient, understanding and reassuring. If anything goes wrong (he's awkward, he can't finish, he finishes in under a minute, etc.) tell him that it's okay and you'll try again next time. Try to be communicative both before, during and after as well so he can learn what to do and what you like.
Also some people would find it offputting or judge him so good on you in general for being understanding about it and asking for advice, he's lucky to have his first time with someone like you.
You set boundaries for yourself, but you can’t control if someone respects that or not. You can only control how you react.
When you bring this up, ask if he can talk – don’t spring this on him, and have specific examples and how it makes you feel.
hey, can we talk about your gaming friends? I’m sorry I was passive aggressive instead of communicating with you maturely. I’m bringing this up because it’s still bothering me, but I’d like to have a conversation. It upsets me when you do xxx because xxx.
He could respond a few ways – you need to decide how you will handle this moving forward. If he doesn’t change, can you tolerate this long term?
Well you could counter propose she does a financial budget plan to see if she can cut costs else where first. How much do you actually know about her finances? Enough to safely say that her higher income warrants you denying a lower rent? Also if she is your girlfriend, is she not sharing a living space/room with you therefore freeing up this extra room for a room mate?