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Don’t be reliant on your girlfriend Get away from that horrible woman
I feel like I was robbed of my youth (college years)
You have the change that mindset. It was an experience, whether it was good or bad. You learned a lot about yourself and relationships. You also learned about what didn't work.
You just gotta learn from it and grow. But it was never ever a waste of time.
Cheaters often lash out and say cruel things to protect themselves from feeling guilt or shame.
Also people who cheat on their wives this extensively are usually abusers so it's no surprise that he would insult you after his mistake.
My ex husband was a serial cheater so I can tell you from experience that this isn't going to be easy. I'm almost a year past the day I found out and I'm still struggling. What you have to do now is just focus on putting one foot in front of the other. Just make lists of things that need doing, do them, go to bed and get up the next day and the next.
Make sure you put eating, showering, getting fresh air outside the house on your list.
Please get the book “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life” and read it asap. If you can't get the book, look for the blog, there are lots of helpful free articles on there.
He may not have fought for you this but he might still come around begging to try again. PDo not give him another chance. But if you do, look out for yourself and your baby and get a post-nup or even better, a big lump-sum of cash as an apology, not just words. Honestly I would say forget about asking for things like access to his phone and just concentrate on things like access to bank accounts.
You will have so many questions and your husband won't help you answer them. So another book you can read to give you more insight on the man you were with is “why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft. He has a blog as well with a post explaining why serial cheating is abusive behaviour.
Get a good lawyer, you're going to need one for the custody battle.
r/survivinginfidelity was my go-to for the first several months.
Good luck, you're going to make it through this.