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i know sometimes ultimatums can seem a little selfish, but more times than not- we have to use them to protect ourselves and our hearts. i am so sorry that this happening feels like the entire trajectory of your relationship has changed. trust is very hot to rebuild, but it can be done if both parties are willing and working to fix it. i really hope she decides to get the help she needs, not just to save the relationship, but for her wellbeing too. if it doesn’t work out now, maybe some years down the road your paths can intertwine again if she makes the right moves in improving her mental health.
don't beg for this man back. he's so ungrateful for all the cleaning and cooking etc, looks like he wants to work full time and manage the house by himself. it's time to move forward. focus on getting your finances in shape and talk to a lawyer before doing ANYTHING. stop contributing within the house, let the dishes pile up, let the house get dirty. not your problem anymore and it should be a wake-up call for him, not to change his mind but to hopefully not be difficult during the divorce.
I haven't told them they're wrong? I'm trying to tell them the whole story? I'm honestly trying to gather up the strength to distance myself, realising there's a strong trauma bond. It's not that easy though. No need to be rude.
But youqy want to stop making this about her. It's not about his friend – she's just a symptom. The illness is that he is emotionally unavailable to you. He's probably physically unavailable to you, too. He's not interacting with you intimately. These are all valid concerns and issues that he must address for you to be happy in this marriage. The fact that you feel like the third wheel in your marriage isn't great – but don't let him foist off his problems onto your dislike of her and thus excuse himself for his crap behavior.
The reason you're unhappy is him, and he's made no moves to fix things. I'd be done, too. But call a spade a spade. You have husband problems – his friend is just another symptom of his mistreatment of you.
i know sometimes ultimatums can seem a little selfish, but more times than not- we have to use them to protect ourselves and our hearts. i am so sorry that this happening feels like the entire trajectory of your relationship has changed. trust is very hot to rebuild, but it can be done if both parties are willing and working to fix it. i really hope she decides to get the help she needs, not just to save the relationship, but for her wellbeing too. if it doesn’t work out now, maybe some years down the road your paths can intertwine again if she makes the right moves in improving her mental health.
don't beg for this man back. he's so ungrateful for all the cleaning and cooking etc, looks like he wants to work full time and manage the house by himself. it's time to move forward. focus on getting your finances in shape and talk to a lawyer before doing ANYTHING. stop contributing within the house, let the dishes pile up, let the house get dirty. not your problem anymore and it should be a wake-up call for him, not to change his mind but to hopefully not be difficult during the divorce.
Comparison is the enemy of happiness. Stop it.
I haven't told them they're wrong? I'm trying to tell them the whole story? I'm honestly trying to gather up the strength to distance myself, realising there's a strong trauma bond. It's not that easy though. No need to be rude.
I think you should leave.
But youqy want to stop making this about her. It's not about his friend – she's just a symptom. The illness is that he is emotionally unavailable to you. He's probably physically unavailable to you, too. He's not interacting with you intimately. These are all valid concerns and issues that he must address for you to be happy in this marriage. The fact that you feel like the third wheel in your marriage isn't great – but don't let him foist off his problems onto your dislike of her and thus excuse himself for his crap behavior.
The reason you're unhappy is him, and he's made no moves to fix things. I'd be done, too. But call a spade a spade. You have husband problems – his friend is just another symptom of his mistreatment of you.