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villy-billy chat
Date: October 24, 2022
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villy-billy chat
If you have to “beg” for anything in a relationship. End the relationship. If you have to even ask others opinion if you should stay in a relationship. End the relationship. Sorry, move on to someone that makes you happy without you having to question if it’s a good relationship or not
Wtf why even rank people like that. I mean I'd be more upset that you ranked your son of unequal importance but the entire thing is stupid
“These days the app is mostly used for hookups”
Is it? Who told you that?
This rule is a proxy for real trust, so that's probably why people are saying this is a toxic situation.
Offer him a sexy handy then ruin his orgasm. When he complains, say what’s good for the goose should be enough for the gander.
My parents are on good terms but aren’t friends exactly, at least not in the talk regularly and hang out sense. But my stepmom was applying to a job in our area and my mum got so excited because if she got the job they could go on lunch dates! Told my stepmom and she thought it would be fun. Too cute.
Anyway, what I’m trying to say is coparenting doesn’t have to be caustic. It SHOULD be cordial for the sake of the kids. Your wife’s mindset is insecure and a bit toxic. Your ex will always be a part of your life somehow. I’m an adult and my parents are still part of each other’s lives because I’m the connection. Why make everyone miserable by being cold and unfriendly?
Yes I read it as she was 15 and he was 19 which is concerning ?
First off this is a crazy person who could start accusing you of harassing them. So you need to send her one final email or letter that certified that states you belong to the gym you join together you will continue to go an outline specifically what you’re gonna do. Do not back down.
Then, at the end you’re going to tell her she contact you again to go through your lawyer, or you will follow up with a harassment suit. Then blocked her on everything you need to go through the attorneys for a while. She is a nut job and she will do some thing like this. And here’s the problem with that you may think she won’t . But she can ruin your reputation accusations stick on some level in peoples head so stop this immediately.
With friends like that.. who needs enemies??
You’re young and can make new friends. Don’t spend time on people who don’t gaf about you. It’s not worth it in the long run.
Is there an update to this?
He needs to see a doc.
Also, is he overweight by chance? My hubby had this issue for a while after he gained 20lbs. He wasn't obese or anything either and was otherwise healthy. No BP issues. He decided to lose weight for himself and after he lost 15 lbs his issue went away on its own.
It all sounds like a huge manipulative plot.
I would not believe anything told.
But she still has to go in there. Why make the situation more uncomfortable for herself? Better to just keep the peace.
I was 25 when I started dating my older partner who kept his ex wife’s son even though he wasn’t his because he was grown and chose to stay with him. Didn’t stop him from being angry and an asshole towards my partner because of how tumultuous the marriage had been. They fought like cats and dogs, and finally I started stepping in and telling the son to stop being an asshole to people that care about him and he didn’t pull his own weight for him to be acting like this. I was only a handful of years older than him and he hated me saying those things, but that’s what partners do. You have to do what’s right for you, but it does feel like you kinda just dropped her because things were tough even though you should have known that going in
You're self destructing your relationship dude. Just enjoy it. If these things bother you, discuss them with him. If all you do is think you're just gonna tear it all apart. Discuss it with him to actually figure it out.
Nope nope nope, absolutely the correct decision. The fuck, did he just want you to dump your baby at the shelter? What a heartless fuck.
My dog is… Probably way too bonded with me as well. I would go scorched earth for him; there is literally absolutely nothing in this world I wouldn't do to protect him.
Is that unhealthy? Probably. I don't care, he chose to trust me when he was a tiny little defenseless runt and I vowed to care for him for his entire life to the best of my abilities.
Maybe try and talk to your stepdaughter's mom and tell her what actually happened? That he kicked at your dog? I mean, she's gotta know the guy is an asshole, too
You should be working. It’s fine to aspire to be a SAHM someday. But not to expect your bf to support you before it’s more serious than a bf; not to expect your bf to pay off college debt; not to expect anyone to fund your lifestyle between now and the time you’ve found that life partner and settled down together.
You go to therapy when you suffer from PTSD, you don't run around with a gun & pointing it on others, ready to shoot any second.
She doesn't understand corporate life, and the worst part is she is unwilling to learn. You need to start putting your foot down and thinking of your money as yours again, because she clearly thinks it's hers. You're going to keep getting passed by other younger more dynamic men and women at your office if you're seen as the sap who has to do as his wife tells him.
It’s a girl thing
Your fiance is right. You're wrong. Apologize.
John, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
John, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
Why would he leave you feeling unloved, hurt and confused if he really fell for you? ???
He has proved that he can bail when things get difficult for him, and he showed you how emotionally immature he is since he couldn't manage his own emotions without dissapearing.
You deserve better. Don't fall for this.