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The problem is that this IS who she is at her foundation. The alcohol only exposed it. She is not the person you thought you knew and married. Cheating is a series of choices, and she did every one of them that night, and she's still lying about it, to herself and to you, two months after marrying you.
This would take years of personal therapy to correct on her part, and further years of absolute transparency to attempt to rebuild any meaningful life with you. I doubt she is capable of it. She's still in damage control mode. The likelihood of success for you is near zero, even with immense emotional investment on your part. Some things cannot be undone. I'm sorry. Best wishes to you.
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You tell him he either wears a condom or gets a vasectomy, otherwise, no sex.
Don’t have sex with men who refuse to take responsibility for their own fertility and who believe birth control is entirely the woman’s responsibility. You do not want a baby by this guy.
Will this change? NO
Yes, this is a gay man. He’s also probably got a porn addiction, and treats you like a piece of shit, tf are you still doing with them?
I understand and empathize with her, and I agree with you she’s not abusing him by looking if that’s their agreement. However, it’s still a leap to turn someone making a one-off comment about a person being pretty or attractive into attraction or the potential for cheating. I find lots of people pretty/attractive/cute, but I’m not attracted to them nor would I try to pursue something. Now if he went on and on about her or was saying it to her, that would be a massive red flag.
Going crazy because of a comment like that isn’t terrible but it’s certainly an overreaction. There’s probably a lot of insecurity, and he should try to figure out why. He didn’t say he was attracted to his therapist though, he said she’s pretty, and again, pretty absolutely does not imply attraction.
I might be missing something, but how is dog grooming/washing not a transferable skill? Couldn't she build up a clientele wherever she goes? I don't understand why there have to be a lot of expenses.
It's clear that your GF doesn't have a lot of business sense, and is socially challenged as well. I suspect she doesn't have good abilities to plan for the future.
Only you can determine if she has enough compensatory strengths to make it worthwhile to stick with her. The tone of your OP suggests she does not. But don't break up on a whim.
Id totally do this
I agree with your comment and this goes for both myself and husband. I have been insecure in my marriage for so long that I let myself entertain feelings for others to come up the surface. Both of us need to start watering our side of the lawn.
Put it on a shopping trolley, he would have to ask what the he'll you do all day standing out in the carpark then doing loops around the same shop
What she did was wrong but fuck you sound controlling
First, congratulations!
I know it hurts to have your family disapprove, but try to remain hopeful and happy. Your mother's opinion is just that, he opinion. It is not fact, and it certainly does not dictate your life. Good for you for following your heart. Keep doing that.
I would start looking for places to rent and move in together. The quicker you get out of their home, the happier and lighter you will feel.
Why would you want to be with someone who has absolutely no ambition and willing to live off taxpayer money?
You are playin dumb, no point arguing
I dated someone for almost 2 years who had a very promiscuous past, turned out the past bled into the present. He had a best friend (female) from high school who he had dated in the past. Something didn’t feel right about it. I tried to chalk it up to my own insecurities so I just talked through it in therapy. Turns out my gut was right, he cheated on me with her and others.
Sometimes gut feelings transcend the evidence, until they don’t. You need to make a decision either way. My decision was to trust him, despite my gut feeling but given the lack of evidence, knowing that I might get hurt. Then I made the decision to end it when the cheating came out. It will hurt either way so don’t let that keep you from making a decision.
No phones in bed. Every morning before work my wife gives me a “hug” where I get a minute of boobies in face. Always say goodnight, I love you and be honest. 17 years married, 27 together. It's a long life, little fights will happen, but they end at night abs every new day is filled with hugs.
You can justify your bad behavior however you wish. Still, at the end of the day, I’m not the one that hit his girlfriend, and routinely gets violent with his sibling.
Just tell her how you feel.
This sounds like either an issue that she requires therapy for, or a fetish you didn't sign up for.
Do you and your wife participate in BDSM and do you think there's a possibility that she's a Little? I've heard that some people live their private lives (or even entire lives, 24/7) as Littles and I can't help but wonder if your wife might be one and either hasn't informed you or isn't aware that it's a thing yet. If it's genuinely that she's a Little, it sounds like she's a Lifestyler in either the Older Littles (like 7-11) or Middles (12-17) range.
Regardless, this is a conversation that you will have to have on a public area. Maybe a park or something, but NOT at home of that's where she's age-regressing. She needs to be an adult for this conversation and it sounds like she can't do that at home.
Express that you love her but no longer wish to do ANY age roleplay with her. It makes you feel like a pedophile and you are no longer consenting. Also tell her, point blank, that you are concerned for her because she seems to roleplay as soon as she gets home and that it doesn't seem healthy, nor do you consent to 24/7 roleplay in the house. Tell her you'd like couples counseling and that you still definitely want to have sex with her, just never again with that kink.
Already texted my therapist! We talk every week.
What tools or scripts has your therapist given for distancing from her?
Why would someone want to come up with a fake video of your girlfriend having group sex with some guys? Where would they get even a blurry video?
Sifting through porn to find someone who could pass would be a lot of work.
Do some dimensional analysis on the video. Compare your girlfriend's height and another dimension such as head diameter or lower leg length to a known dimension in the video (find something in the video whose size can be calculated).
If the blurry girl with the same color hair as your girlfriend also has the same height, femur length, and head diameter, its probably her. If she is substantially taller or shorter, its not.
She is the one who should tell her family. If she's stressed it was her own doing and not your responsibility.
The golden child deliberately set out to upstage you?
Typical golden child behaviour, heaven forbid you get any attention for your achievements.
Go to your graduation, you’ve spent years studying and doing prac to get to this point. And everything I hear about med school is it is tough and you basically don’t have a life. What a marvellous win for you. Please don’t blow it off. Gather your closest friends and ask them to stand in for your family.
It can be and it's incredibly serious. Literally your entire post is so selfish and tone deaf. You are the reason you are missing out on relationships here. YTA.
Her not wanting to meet you is what’s throwing me off. That’s weird behavior. If my friend’s got a SO I want to meet them. It’s like a BOGO new friend.
Why aren’t all 3 of you going climbing anyways?
this seems like a really controlling relationship though. i think you are just falling into a traditional dynamic that is really hot to break out of. sit him down and just talk to him, that’s really all you can do.
If all those things mattered you probably would have tried harder to protect yourself.
When I unexpectedly got pregnant with my child I had nothing and was with her dad for 4 months when it happened. I’m so thankful she’s here, she’s the reason I pushed myself to succeed.
It’s your decision if you want to end it or not but maybe be more responsible
If all those things mattered you probably would have tried harder to protect yourself.
When I unexpectedly got pregnant with my child I had nothing and was with her dad for 4 months when it happened. I’m so thankful she’s here, she’s the reason I pushed myself to succeed.
It’s your decision if you want to end it or not but maybe be more responsible