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Date: October 27, 2022
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He cooks and cleans for me all the time. He buys me things that reminds him of me when he goes out. He’s always asking how I’m feeling. He’s always telling me what he’s doing
This is how he “keeps you”, to him it's just a game and you're an object to be had. He knows all he has to do is throw you a bone once in awhile and you'll stay.
He thinks I'm an idiot
This is what he really thinks of you, this is what he uses to keep control of you, he will put you down for the rest of your life and destroy your well being if you stay.
the only reason i want her to accept it or her “permission” is bc i feel bad for her. she lives w just me & my brother. she’s too attached to me since her divorce & wants me w her all the time. very toxic relationship between us & i keep making excuses for her but idk how to stop.
You'll be fine, actually better than fine. Go try a new hobby, have lot's of spa nights. Eat a ton of ice-cream.
It sucks that your hurting but it's only been 3 month. You can't really properly love somebody in that time. You know there's no future, why prolong the inevitable.
If she threatens to kill herself via text message, show it to the police. It can be used to put her on a psych hold, and that might be the best thing for her.
He is being abusive towards her. Who gives a shit how he feels?
yep so I’m damn if I do damn if I don’t
He's erasing Jacob's achievements and refusing to acknowledge any reason he may have won the award other than a political one on account of being trans. It sounds transphobic to me.
Also, someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the preferred terminology is trans man, or trans woman, or just trans. Trans-person reads and sounds weird to me. Like someone assigned nonperson at birth who … yeah I don't think you should use that.
You HAVE to consent. Period.
How can you not, she'll find out eventually
You are welcome! I hope you both will keep this beautiful relathionship you have!
Already done ☑️
Well.. I get that in some way? But you're not a child.. And it's not like it's more dangerous if you're below 21.. He sounds like a hypocrite and I find it quite odd
Difficult situation but if u don’t try being a bit more dominant/kinky, she’ll eventually go elsewhere to someone who can give her that, talk to her about boundaries for this
It is their property seriously once j gift something it is no longer mine and I do not think of it
regifting is better for the environment.
Somebody could have told them they liked it and they gifted or exchanged for something they like.
Seems you need to take more time checking on what the SO want in their life. Do you just go for an item with a cost rather than researching things that they like etc.
No proposal? ?
Probably yes, especially as you had the opportunity to direct the kiss to somewhere other than the lips. (Hand or cheek would have been a no for cheating)
Given that your relationship is new, and relationships are new to you, take the opportunity when you tell your BF to discuss situations like that so that you are aware where he sees things, and so you both can set the relationship boundaries. (Provided he doesn’t dump you over it)
YOU are fully committed. He is not.
He already has this side chick, it's just a ton of work to hide it.
What is he bringing to the relationship? Does he make you feel loved? Beautiful? Respected? Or does he make you feel like you constantly need to move outside of your comfort zone to accommodate him?
You don't have to be his girlfriend. I'd hazard a guess that you aren't actually his only girlfriend, anyway. Just tell him you aren't compatible. Because you aren't.
Honey, where is your self respect? Him allowing ANY of that is enough for my blood to boil, but especially the part where you think he would choose to defend those women over you? You should never be with somebody like that. You deserve better.
You're welcome girl and good luck to you ❤️
You are cheating emotionally and in denial
If you don’t think so then show this post your wife
A few things yes you are/were in love with him.
When there is a big difference in age – people tend to be judgemental. Seems you are involved in a church that inter fears in people lifes.
Discuss this with your parents. As they like him maybe they can ask him if he loved you or not. If he stopped coming because he did not love you – at least he is an honest man. If he loved you – he is not talking his life seriously.
It’s ironic how you say “haven’t they been through enough?” when the stupidity of the wife is going to put them through even more.
There is no way this child has a good life- either they stays with OP’s family and are a constant trauma reminder and will definitely be resented and treated awfully due to the situation, or they end up going with adoption/foster and suffer a life that wouldn’t be too great either- knowing their parents didn’t want them but not knowing why (or even knowing why and feeling shitty about the entire thing their whole life for something they had no part in).
People’s beliefs are their own sure, but this affects more than just the wife and her own stupidity and unhinged religious obsession is going to drag their entire family through a world of pain. OP is already suffering from the situation and they already have 2 kids who will also be suffering if this goes ahead. The wife should be shamed and ridiculed for being so utterly and unashamedly stupid. An abortion would be the best course of action for everyone involved but she’s choosing not to for god? Gods plan??? The very same god that she believes planned for her to get raped??? How anyone could defend her thinking (or lack of it) here is astounding. She went through an awful situation but she’s about to put everyone around her through a lifetime of awfulness for her delusions. That’s not something to be celebrated or defended, it’s something to be terrified of and put into a mental hospital for.
You did the right thing. He wouldn't have ever told you the truth if you hadn't otherwise found out. He cheated and will cheat again. Tell Samantha she can have his lying, cheating ass
You know pregnancy kills right?
Don’t. If he needs therapy to get over his abusive ex, have him pay a professional. If this is a continuing discussion after your NO, dump him immediately and start therapy to make sure you never end up with someone who doesn’t put you first.
Consent isn't not liking something.
Consent requires capacity and if you did not have the capacity to make an informed decision (because you were drunk/drugged) then you did not have all the facts and you couldn't make the correct decision.
It doesn't stop your body from. Liking it or even in the moment you saying you liked it. A drunk person will jump out a windoe for shits and giggles but when sober they would tell you to fuck off.
Do you see the difference.
Yup.
They really have locked us in that misery forever.
I keep seeing this phrasing repeated as if these people didn't willingly choose to take on these loans when many other options are available.