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Date: November 13, 2022
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and I can guess that it started getting really bad once you got married.
True. Thanks for the advice. It provides a little more clarity on what I should do
Just tell him you won't be able to attend because you can't afford it and you don't want to have to pay him back. If he keeps insisting just keep saying no.
On your cat: she will be fine if you follow your original plan. It’ll take her a while to come back to homeostasis after the shock, but she won’t resent you or anything. If y’all break up, I hope he doesn’t take the kitten with him.
Asking for a paternity test is insinuating cheating thoooo…
Mayby I should refrase
Speaking as someone who lost my father when I was very young and without many memories of him, I think the massive hole in your life left by a parent's death is a constant source of pain to any child. Someone essential to your wellbeing is missing, and it hurts constantly. You don't just think of them when reminded, but every year at school you deal with making father's day cards for your dead parent, you get asked questions to check contact information for parents, etc., etc. It's like growing up with a leg missing, a constant painful absence.
It's not for you, it's from him.
The way this works is if you agree to him sleeping with his friend you will not be happy and he will most likely start trying to sleep with other women as well and you will become insecure in the relationship. If you refuse he will do it behind your back, because he does not see it as a big deal, or he will eventually leave you to pursue other women because you're not “open minded” enough for him. If you want a monogamous relationship that is perfectly okay. You just won't find it with him.
Your mindset will cause you to be lonely and miserable and end up with a low quality man
The thing is, everyone thinks blunt or even cruel things about other people at times, but if you are mature about it, you don't blurt them out to other people, even when you think it won't matter.
Your BF should have kept his internal monologue to himself. It's a painful mistake to make, and I'm not sure he has fully taken ownership of it.
This doesn't sound legit especially that it's some country in Europe…it's not like United States…there's no management or laws of sex harassment…this sounds like sex trafficking…or underground prostitution
No
Got it, then yea I’d say my statement stands. Really it’s just a questions of how important sexual compatibility is for you. If it’s really important then you might want to think about ending the relationship. But for the same token, she’s really young still. I’m not exactly surprised that someone who is still getting used to adulthood may still have some apprehensions and hang ups around sex. It’s not like you both have years of experience on the matter. Once you guys get a bit older I’d be surprised if she didn’t open up more. But that is a total and complete gamble. It’s up to you to decide whether it’s worth it or not.
Well he did say he brought it up in the wrong way in his post so …..
And then OP, and I say this gently, think about what you wanted from a relationship with someone who couldn't take care of themselves in their late 30s. Are you used to caretaking?
From what you say, you already spend most of your time with your girlfriend and very little time with your friends. I’m unclear why your girlfriend feels the need to insist on spending New Year’s Eve with you. Traditionally, it’s not a romantic holiday or one you spend with loved ones. it’s a holiday you spend with friends and at parties.
You don’t see your friends very much, and they’ve clearly noticed that, so I think you should spend your time with them. In a romantic relationship, it’s important to spend time apart, doing your own thing, your hobbies, time with friends, time alone, etc. And it sounds like there’s currently an imbalance where you’re spending too much time with her and not enough time with other people.
Graham it’s New Years Eve so make a resolution to get a life!!!!!!!
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Which is going to be next to impossible my guy. Best chance of saving things would be to talk about it and say it makes you a little uncomfortable but you're working on getting over it.
But that's only if you want to work on it which I highly recommend doing because this will keep coming up in relationships.
Holding in you're feeling that affect your relationship isn't great for your health and mental state either. Working on your emotional intelligence is something that can help.
It takes time to learn and master but it makes you so much more desirable as a partner and will help ensure healthy long lasting relationships.
It's easy to find information and videos live! to get you started if you wanted to put the effort in.
In this day and age, 30 is the new 18. His behavior sounds like the behavior of a completely immature and inexperienced boy. Since she says he's completely great in every other way, and he has only had 1 gf ever, he could just be completely underdeveloped in this one particular area. Maybe he's on the spectrum. Maybe he's mormon and completely misinformed about sex. We dont have enough information. The lack of self control thing is definitely concerning and the physical pestering is a huge red flag but you're wrong about consent not being something you have to teach.
Some men had terrible role models or no role models. There are too many women out there willing to accept a loser, and too many men are allowed to just be losers without consequence. If the man is bad, throw him out and hope that some poor woman with low self esteem doesn't find him. But if he's good and just needs help in one area that definitely can be taught, and she thinks it's worth it, which it sounds like she does, then why not? I know most men in these posts are trash but if we don't make an effort to teach the ones who can be saved, it's just releasing an ignorant man into the wild to do damage to countless others.
Your boyfriend seems to suffer from what I like to call Magic Penis Syndrome. Your orgasm exist only to boost his ego, not to make you feel good or feel cared for. He just wants to feel like his pee pee is extra special.
I have been you, please break up with him. This is only going to escalate. He knows exactly what he's doing.
Extending the olive branch to stop the yuckiness, isn’t empathy, it’s self preservation. If you understood her pain and offered to help, that would be empathy. And you don’t understand her pain, as you original post asks why she hates you so much.
So this doesn’t sound like too much empathy, this sounds more like you want to smooth it over because you’re uncomfortable with people being upset with you not because you understand or feel their pain and want to help. And that’s called people pleasing. Might be useful to google that and see if it fits you.
Thank you for your message and for reading my post. I also feel that I wish she would have spoken to me sooner about this and we could have tried to discuss this then. I guess I'm at the point of trying to go over this discussion now, but I'm unsure whether she's willing to do it or wants to. I'm wondering whether any of this is salvageable.
I live! in Edinburgh which is a really lovely city and I enjoy living here. Even if I don't have the same friendships as before or family nearby. I suppose that if I don't live here, I'll consider going back to the US with family. However if I do that, I would lose the opportunity to keep living in the UK as my residence permit would be voided. If I stick it out for 3 more years I'll get permanent residency (settled status). It just feels like a tall order given everything that's happened, but maybe I can make it.
You're right though, it's also a time to talk to my family. It'll be difficult to bring it up as they all know her so well and love her as I do, but it has be done. It's just a really tough situation and I need to figure out what the best course of action is.
I think that if I say it makes me feel uncomfortable the response will be that she would feel more unsafe in a taxi alone with the driver (stranger) than if an acquaintance is also there. I’m not sure how I could respond to that because it also seems reasonable.
Yea there’s missing reasons here. And you sound self absorbed and insufferable just from this post. Can’t imagine what it was like to live! with you. Plus your relationship probably gave her a complex to boot. Yikes
So your belief is that people are instantly in love?
Please tell us more how you definitely have experience with relationships.
Kind of shows her and your friend didn’t have any boundaries. He wasn’t available and they still did.
So if she would break boundaries before, would she now? Especially with him constantly around.
It doesn’t mean it would happen again but it doesn’t show good character of either person.
Thanks for the reassurance
If the chinese female gained status, does that mean the white guy lost status?
he knew you when you were 16 and he was 33. And he STILL said those things? Not to victim blame, but that was your first sign that he was a freaking creepy ass groomer. You guys hooked up and he pumped-and-dumped. He got what he wanted from the chase and left
This man is gross. You should block him from everything.
He's much older then me idk why he would act like that gave him the chance for me to leave him alone but he didn't take it. 1,
This made me want to puke in my mouth
I just want to point out that, according to the Mayo Clinic, the Minerva only stops about 20% of women who use it from having periods. I currently take a BC pill that stops about 45% of women on it from having periods. All BC has a ton of side effects and varies wildly from person to person. For some people, all BC causes side effects that are not worth it for them. It’s ridiculous that the onus almost always falls on the person who can get pregnant instead of on the partner.
Maybe I should have read the whole thing. ?
This is truly not a difficult situation. He is married. You won't complete your degree. Etc etc. Dont go there. It's not worth it
You shouldn’t be engaged right now.
Yes.
So umm, you're currently pregnant?
Thank you for replying. He used to be, but he got off them a few months ago. He said that since he got off them, he can get hot much easier. So maybe that's part of it.
Doing too much is just impossible, and it brings in resentment, I totally agree. I guess I really wished (lied to myself) that I would be able to pull it off. This is my part of the dysfunction.
she also needs to double check if he'll be entitled to half the 12k if they're still together when she receivesit
He's a man child. If you want to keep sleeping with him, go for it. Just stop posting about this because clearly you don't want to acknowledge the fact that your “FWB” doesn't give two shits about you.
Gotta pay the troll toll
Why are you ignoring all these obvious red flags? You have to respect yourself bro- no one else is going to do it for you.
He's a catfish. Or romance scam. He doesn't have nudes of the person he's posing as to send. I hope this isn't one of the scams where he threatens to extort you over your nudes.
Birds of a feather flock together. If you think she had a good reason to cheat and basically defended her infidelity, I'm not surprised that your wife would think you'd do the exact same thing.
I'm sorry lol but there's no excuse to cheat (unless someone is being abused and feels too unsafe to leave). I've said this a million times on this sub, and I'll continue to say it: cheating is well-documented to traumatize people and cause ptsd very commonly. It is not a small mistake. It is a decision to traumatize someone else. Your friend is a pos.
Plus, you realize that one of the most common reasons that people cheat is because they aren't being sexually/emotionally fulfilled, right? Your friend's situation should not be an exception to you because her reasoning isn't an exception to the common reasons. So, if you excuse her, you're excusing a whole lot of cheaters, dude.
If someone is in a sexless/emotionally unfulfilling relationship, there are plenty of things that they could do such as…idk..maybe fucking leaving?? Or idk…maybe communicating, seeking couples therapy, and then leaving if the issue doesn't get fixed when worked on. Cheating is not excusable. It doesn't fucking matter if it's your closest friend who did it.
Your friend is an immature, unempathetic, inconsiderate coward who did something that commonly traumatizes people. There is no excuse, and you SHOULD be taking a hot look at the company that you keep because being friends with people that are shitty, and making excuses for those shitty friends reflects who you are as a person as well.
Your wife has good reason to not want you to be friends with this woman. She's in the right here. I wouldn't want to trust someone that willfully did something so cruel either, and I wouldn't trust my husband if he was excusing that person either.
You picked a bad egg and this will only get worse. It's a lot worse than you think. Removing the money from the joint account without telling you is a giant red flag. It's not ok. He doesn't have the right attitude about how to make a marriage with an equal partner rather than a live in maid, cook and caregiver.
You need to speak up now, calmly and reasonably and let him know none of this is ok. Depending on how he reacts, it sounds like it will be in your best interests to not marry him and leave and work out child support and custody. If it goes badly in trying to get him to listen to reason, Speak to an attorney about dealing with child support and visitation.
Do you have family to help you/move in with until you get on your feet if he won't see reason?
I think this is possibly just a miscommunication issue. I think he seriously erred in how to say that he had sex not because he was horny but because he wanted to make you feel better and not negatively affect your overall emotions. But those reasons are a way of showing love and care.
No legal agreements on seeing my daughter, we separated because she thought I was cheating. (I wasn’t). I went out a few times with the boys and would work on cars late some days. So I get it. And yes i understand that part . Only reason I tried to ask her on a date was to be nice because I don’t want to end on bad terms with my daughters mom. I don’t care if she forgives me or not I just want that relationship that two people who are coparenting should have. Not be enemies
I think this is possibly just a miscommunication issue. I think he seriously erred in how to say that he had sex not because he was horny but because he wanted to make you feel better and not negatively affect your overall emotions. But those reasons are a way of showing love and care.
What's fair is fair for those involved.
If it's feeling less than fair, talk it out.
No he wants a relationship m. She doesn’t. OP has relationship expectations of someone who’s clearly stated that’s not what they are or what she wants
I’m not surprised that the roommate who is 10 years older than you is either a) completely socially inept, or b) is negging you.
Have you asked her WHY she didn’t plan on telling you? She might be saying it’s no big deal because she’s trying to protect herself or she’s had a miscarriage previously
Sorry but it’s hot to feel bad for you here.
Sure, she’s a POS for screwing a married man. But you put yourself in this position by sticking around waiting for a relationship with this girl even after she told you multiple times she wasn’t interested.
This was also my first reaction. Maybe instead of getting angry at her, OP should be asking himself why he isn't a safe person for his own wife.
Yes and they pretty much all think I have no backbone.
i think this is a point you might just have to accept him for who he is and enjoy ur just dance videos and walks together. and maybe he will come around on his own one day but you cant force him
Seems like a cool girl
shrug I'm the same way, no one's going to convince me otherwise, it's literally not about you
Just kinda hot when I'm being actively ignored.
Weird thing is he's been friends with guys she's dated since then…no idea why I'm an issue.
“Turn the tables”? Ahhhh, yes… Get a huge strap on and put the offer to him.