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Date: October 10, 2022
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Is she in AA? Recommend a check in with her sponsor.
You can’t “help” her stop feeling that way if she doesn’t want to stop feeling that way. But the problem is bigger than just this one opinion.
Right now it’s homeless people she hates, but later it could be someone else. People who make snap judgments about an entire segment of the population and refuse to show them empathy can always find a new group to hate.
People like that bring to mind something Kurt Vonnegut said: “Where's evil? It's that large part of every man that wants to hate without limit, that wants to hate with God on its side.”
I think you need to try to figure out why she is motivated to “hate” homeless people. Is she hating on them because she likes the feeling of hating on someone she feels superior to? If so, that’s probably not going to get fixed any time soon, if ever. But maybe she had some sort of traumatic experience relating to homelessness. Or maybe she is being immature and thinking that finding something to hate makes her quirky/interesting. Who knows?
Personally I think you should tell her up front that you are legitimately rethinking whether you want to build a life with her because her opinion on homeless people indicates that you and her might have very different values. Then take it from there.
I think it’s time to call it quits. If he’s getting aggressive when drunk and doesn’t make an attempt to stop then he’s intentionally hurting you at that point.
If I were you I’d tell him “I feel as if this relationship is beginning to crumble and it is heavily due to your recent behaviour. I care very deeply for you and that’s why I’m choosing to leave, I cannot bare to watch this continue. I wish you the best and hope you can find the strength to get help.”
Then you need to work on communication and lead with that. You don’t mention you want to get over it and that you need to educate yourself or that you even think you’re wrong for viewing her this way. Not one time in that post did I read anything that suggested this was a you issue instead of you thinking it was a her issue that you cannot get over. Do you want her to quit because she holds the same ignorant beliefs or do you want to remedy your own ignorance. Those are two very different things…
I wish he wasn’t putting the responsibility on me for execute the break up but it seems like I’ll have to. I can’t be his friend and I can’t remain in contact without having that hope / feeling like I’m waiting. I’ll just simply have to delete him on everything or I can’t move on.
We both get paid biweekly, on separate schedules (we therefore get money every week). No matter who’s paycheck, the bills that are due that week are coming out of that paycheck. We both have access to the shared bank account, but I make sure every single bill is paid on time.