look you want to build a relationship right? you can’t built on lies, she’s lying, you are lying, communication is not on point, I don’t see why you’re blaming my advice that is indicating that you both should be honest with each other starting with you. sit her down and talk to her, be honest, there is no better solution
He must be the type of guy who thinks it's disrespectful to have opposite genders as friends. No, you didn't disrespect him. His behavior with this is disrespectful.
You yourself have said multiple times that your place is small and there’s not a lot to do. But suddenly taking on more is going to take up a substantial amount of your time.
Because you taking on more than 50% would still leave you with a lot more free time than her. Why wouldn’t you want to make your partners life easier? Allow them to have more free time when you’d still have more free time than them? Plus I wouldn’t trust you saying you’d take on more than your “fair share” of the kid stuff with your free time when you’re adamant not to take on more than your fare share now. Won’t even entertain volunteering 2 or 3 hours less a week to take some of the burden off of her. Can’t cut into your free time.
When you break up, tell her exactly why you did what you did.
You are pretty lucky that you saw this side of her now, before marriage.
look you want to build a relationship right? you can’t built on lies, she’s lying, you are lying, communication is not on point, I don’t see why you’re blaming my advice that is indicating that you both should be honest with each other starting with you. sit her down and talk to her, be honest, there is no better solution
He must be the type of guy who thinks it's disrespectful to have opposite genders as friends. No, you didn't disrespect him. His behavior with this is disrespectful.
Gold digger. Get rid of it. Tell her to mind her business, it's your property. Not our property
Do you really think the world is this black and white? That the moment you have feelings of insecurity or distrust, the relationship is over?
Good luck, buddy. You're going to need it.
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You yourself have said multiple times that your place is small and there’s not a lot to do. But suddenly taking on more is going to take up a substantial amount of your time.
Because you taking on more than 50% would still leave you with a lot more free time than her. Why wouldn’t you want to make your partners life easier? Allow them to have more free time when you’d still have more free time than them? Plus I wouldn’t trust you saying you’d take on more than your “fair share” of the kid stuff with your free time when you’re adamant not to take on more than your fare share now. Won’t even entertain volunteering 2 or 3 hours less a week to take some of the burden off of her. Can’t cut into your free time.
blindsided me
Oh just wait until you have kids!! Traditionalist means he’s not getting up for a single diaper change (that’s women’s work)..
You’ll be exhausted, probably get ppd, and have nobody to turn to. You won’t have income or savings so you can’t leave even if you wanted to.
What exciting things lie ahead for you!
Exactly