When you got into the discussion about sharing, hoping to hear he felt the same about you, his best answer was to fucking explain how he would want you to share him if someone offered him a blowjob? And dumbo doesn’t see why you are upset about that? You should have said “Good, because if a guy ever comes my way to solicit me for sex, who happens to be hung like a horse, I would hope you understand and say yes.” But on second thought, that could inspire a whole line of discussion from clown shoe about opening up the relationship which you don’t want.
Forget counseling with your pastor. Huge mistake right there. Get your financial ducks in a row, keep screenshots etc.
No one who would be on this many websites, weird searches sketchy behavior has never done anything physical. So he’s lying.
Get your financial ducks in a row, take screenshots of any of this old stuff if you can, and divorce him. Beat him to the punch because he’s planning on it when your youngest turns 18, presuming that’s the rule of child support in your state that he has since found out. Also whenever it comes into it try to compel DNA on these kids if possible if proof of adultery is a factor in how much you could get etc
I know curiosity is hot to avoid, but before asking a question like that, think about how it will cause you mental anguish later. I know self-sabotage is a thing but think about your health and well-being and how it’s more important than being curious.
Also, insecurity destroys relationships more often than not. If you want to keep dating your girlfriend or be in future relationships, you need to work on your self esteem. Your penis size or appearance won’t change, but your perception and self-worth will. Therapy isn’t for everyone, but try seeing a therapist for at least six months and if it doesn’t work out, then practicing mindfulness, gratitude, and a healthy lifestyle will probably make you feel better about your appearance and help you learn to accept who you are.
You will always regret it if you don’t go to your graduation. Tell a friend about all of this, let them have your back and be there for you. Most importantly, be there for yourself!
Congrats on not answering the question
When you got into the discussion about sharing, hoping to hear he felt the same about you, his best answer was to fucking explain how he would want you to share him if someone offered him a blowjob? And dumbo doesn’t see why you are upset about that? You should have said “Good, because if a guy ever comes my way to solicit me for sex, who happens to be hung like a horse, I would hope you understand and say yes.” But on second thought, that could inspire a whole line of discussion from clown shoe about opening up the relationship which you don’t want.
Mods here praying on my downfall lmao, insta deleting all the comments. Bias relationship advice shnizz goin on here.
Forget counseling with your pastor. Huge mistake right there. Get your financial ducks in a row, keep screenshots etc.
No one who would be on this many websites, weird searches sketchy behavior has never done anything physical. So he’s lying.
Get your financial ducks in a row, take screenshots of any of this old stuff if you can, and divorce him. Beat him to the punch because he’s planning on it when your youngest turns 18, presuming that’s the rule of child support in your state that he has since found out. Also whenever it comes into it try to compel DNA on these kids if possible if proof of adultery is a factor in how much you could get etc
I know curiosity is hot to avoid, but before asking a question like that, think about how it will cause you mental anguish later. I know self-sabotage is a thing but think about your health and well-being and how it’s more important than being curious.
Also, insecurity destroys relationships more often than not. If you want to keep dating your girlfriend or be in future relationships, you need to work on your self esteem. Your penis size or appearance won’t change, but your perception and self-worth will. Therapy isn’t for everyone, but try seeing a therapist for at least six months and if it doesn’t work out, then practicing mindfulness, gratitude, and a healthy lifestyle will probably make you feel better about your appearance and help you learn to accept who you are.
Isn’t that the point. You’re not like those women, he’s not like the really nice ‘boyfriends’ you listen to.
Sounds very hypocritical of him
You will always regret it if you don’t go to your graduation. Tell a friend about all of this, let them have your back and be there for you. Most importantly, be there for yourself!
Congratulations.