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TURN ME THE FUCK UP/ PVT PRETIP 250TKNS/ TIP MENU ACTIVE/AT GOAL IM A DO SUM TO MAKE US FEEL GOOD [68 tokens remaining]
Date: October 2, 2022
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If it's something she decides on her own, then it's her choice. I'd just suggest if it comes up to be honest with where you are at first to make sure she isn't getting any mixed up signals leading her to take that plunge and give her a chance to be sure it's what she wants.
Honestly, there is not enough info here. We cant blame her for breaking up, if we dont know why she broke up.
We usually only read one side of the story but in this case.. there is sooo much info missing..
Imagine he f*d all his workmates, should she stay bc she is finantially dependant? And she should “think twice before leaving him”?
Also.. who has custody? Bc maybe he just didnt give a s. about keeping the kids and she is doing all the job with a 2 days salary. He can obv work more if he doesnt have the kids… and will earn more considering he didnt take a 4 years “break” that delayed his career to care for his kids.
So… yeah.. missing info usually means the info doesnt suit the narrative.
Like a catfish. Someone pretending to be someone they’re not. It’s very common live. Like you could be a fat bald 59 year old man pretending to be a pretty woman.
Dump her
As someone who just got out of an abusive relationship of a month, thinking my spark towards the girl I was talking to would reignited, it never did and she gaslight me and was petty when I blocked her. She was also my first “girlfriend” who wanted similar things to your boyfriend, but it got to be to much for me.
My biggest concern for you if you and him stick together is, what will happen when he tries to get you pregnant again, as he already refused to use a condom despite you getting them, then lied to you and didn't pull out. This will NOT just be a one off for him, especially since he is talking about marriage at 3 months in. Get out NOW, and get a restraining order if you feel like you are in danger.
He’s not a great man, nor is he a good and loving husband. Of course he is raping you, you cannot consent WHEN YOU’RE ASLEEP.
You should leave him. If for some reason you feel you don’t want to do that, you need to see a therapist. I mean you should get therapy regardless, but especially because you think he’s a good man and a loving husband. HE IS A RAPIST!!! Say out loud to yourself “my husband is a rapist.” Because he is.
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I don’t know the whole story, maybe add more to it? Like how long have you been seeing each other, do you hang out a lot, have you communicated about this to him? Things like that. Because based on your post I can just say he’s a dick ??♀️
Size 12 isn't average, honestly. Depending on your height you could be categorized as obese. Even by clothing standards, you're in the “large” category.
That being said, I feel you're more upset that he's not appreciative of you rather than not being attracted to you.
This has to be a joke.
Lol.