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It sounds like they are just being pushy with what they want and expecting you to cater to something that they know you aren't comfortable with. The fact that your partner is blaming you for y'all's relationship being the way it is, when you weren't the one who emotionally cheated is telling.
Your partner sounds controlling, manipulative and childish. Do yourself a favor and leave them. They don't deserve you, and the only thing they are showing is how uncaring and ugly they are.
Sorry you're going through this OP
It's not clear from your post, but it doesn't seem like you have actually ever discussed any of this with your partner. It seems like you have just let your emotions build & build to the point you are now a pressure cooker ready to explode.
At this point, I don't think that there is much point or value in bringing all of this up with your partner, because it seems like you have checked out and are done. So what is the point in talking about it.
If you want to be single, then be single. Don't stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in.
And in future, if you do end up in another relationship, don't sweep problems under the rug and let small problems snowball into relationship ending ones. All of the problems that you have described with your GF are fixable, you just needed to talk about them and give her a chance to fix them.
No thats not the issue here. Its just a conversation for conversation sake. We already talked about it and she agreed not to tell me, but she also wants to understand why and im having trouble actually describing the why.
So you've repeatedly asked her about this and she's repeatedly said no, yet you've decided you still know better than she does what she really needs and so you're just going to keep nagging her about getting back together with you until she caves?
You haven't grown as much as you think.
I’m here asking for advice. It’s not going to be seen as negative. It’s not that big of a age gap. I was 19 when me and her started dating. I took some advice from the post last year but not all. I’ve gotten better with leaving her alone. There would be days were I would not talk to her all day and night. Just to try in the morning to get the same energy as the night prior.
I could’ve chosen a different title yeah, but ultimately it’s the relationship advice subreddit. I don’t think people who post here only want to break up. I posted to see if I could get advice on what to do to possibly get her back.
The living situation is rough but getting by due to side jobs and family. I start a landscaping job in the next couple of weeks.
The car is in my name because she doesn’t have her license. The insurance company told me I couldn’t put insurance on the car if it was in her name.
I hope this makes some of these things more clear.
You rejected a drug/alcohol driven sexual advance. It’s honestly nothing more than that. If it was something more he would respect you enough to pursue you when sober or take you up on your offers afterwards. That’s what a guy worthy of your time would do. My concern is that you are going to offer him the low hanging fruit of being a FWB with the hopes that it will become something more, and this is when your feelings will be genuinely hurt when you realize the reality of the situation you placed yourself in.
Consider this situation as a dodged bullet and take the L and find someone worthy of your time. The last thing you want is the be the desperate girl/one night stand that everyone in close vicinity to you knows about. I’ve been in that position before and it’s way worse than having to see your temporary crush in passing and at parties.
He knows.
He’s choosing to allow u to suffer and go cray cray
Loll, he doesn’t want to be bf/gf but wants all the bf/gf privileges. Tell him you guys are breaking up and he will not be allowed to touch you at all or see you in a non-platonic matter and that you will no longer be sharing a bed or a room together
My advice would be to either tell him to move out, or for you to move out.