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Deep Kiss [Multi Goal]
Date: October 27, 2022
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Deep Kiss [Multi Goal]
A lot of times it's not about not liking someone but needing space to decompress from being overstimulated or touched out. I'm autistic as well and while I love my husband very much, I also need space and time to collect myself. It's not about him, it's just a sensory need I have.
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Adding: my last boyfriend made me feel like I was just a convenience at the end of our relationship, which led to me leaving. It felt like he didn't miss me when I left, just that I left a girlfriend shaped void. He was on his computer constantly and stopped wanting to actually do things with me, also.
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agreed. when it comes to finances and assets, that's what more marriages sound like today. otherwise we wouldn't have prenups
I cheated one time and it meant nothing. I feel terrible about it to this day, I am very very remorseful years later… but my partner and I worked through it. We are both happy now, and he finally does trust me.
I don’t think we would have been able to do that if I had or had ever had feelings for the person that I cheated with.
That would never happen, but I wouldn’t even want to try to fix things if that had happened because you can’t move past something like that. Neither party can be happy at that point, especially the person who has actually been loyal the entire time.
This wasn’t a mistake or a 1 time indiscretion on your parents end. This was deliberate and planned. You deserve to move on at this point, and you will likely be happy that you’re single.
I’m sorry you are going through this… I hope sharing some of my story helps in some way, too.
I haven’t addressed the texting yet so no I’m that case she didn’t lie . I have no idea if the flirting stopped cause I’m not at work with them but no the texting has t but again there has been nothing inappropriate said through text . She will ask him about the basketball game and if he replies with they are winning she replies with a heart emoji and if his kids are doing well she replies with a heart emoji and so on . Sometimes winking faces with tongue out if she’s picking on him or vise versa but never anything sexual or inappropriate
They are the ones who need to apologize.
This is not your person unfortunately.
I never did any of that to be petty at him. People in my life know I am terrified of being alone outside and even worse at night. I genuinely felt pain and confusion which just made me follow along instead of saying something. It was never to be malicious. I genuinely felt that he had abandonedmy safety. I never wanted to leave the friend alone. My plan was for us to stay with him all night. All the emotions are because my bf thought it was okay for me to walk to my car and drive by myself and because he went after sober friend, but could have been better IF I had spoken up instead of letting my emotions freeze me up and lead me away. That's the part I'm working on but it's difficult to distinguish with bpd
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Did you even read the post? She hasn't been happy in her relationship since long before the SA even happened! What is there to save when she's been trying to leave for years and has to be guilted back?