You are being really naive here and attaching to potential instead of stepping back and seeing the reality of the situation. Attaching to potential is what we do when we want to protect ourselves from the hurt that is the reality of the situation.
Commmunicate like an adult. And at least consider the possibility that you’re CB letting your ideology strip you of someone you’d otherwise consider a friend.
He knows he’s in the wrong. He acknowledges how messed up it is and tells me that he doesn’t want us to separate. That I’m his one true love blablablabla
A month into dating. Abusers are dumb. They don't typically do it from the start.
You are being really naive here and attaching to potential instead of stepping back and seeing the reality of the situation. Attaching to potential is what we do when we want to protect ourselves from the hurt that is the reality of the situation.
Commmunicate like an adult. And at least consider the possibility that you’re CB letting your ideology strip you of someone you’d otherwise consider a friend.
He knows he’s in the wrong. He acknowledges how messed up it is and tells me that he doesn’t want us to separate. That I’m his one true love blablablabla