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Date: October 31, 2022
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That’s fair. I didn’t know what she was doing until she popped up on explore doing something my husband had JUST talked about. I thought it was weird until I started cross-checking and found out that this was happening a lot. Honestly, I don’t wanna look. I feel like if he’s able to let go of her, I will too. I straight out asked him now, citing some of my evidence, and he didn’t admit to anything. I don’t really believe him.
Yeah, we work at the same place right now, for about 3 years, he just changed alot and it's like a wave of emotion
I wonder if the issue is that for her it's actually fully by design, and there's no “problem.”
Could she have been so in love with the idea of being a mother and starting a family, that she just used logic, thought “well, I don't love this guy, but he's right there, seems stable, makes decent money, and would be a good partner logistically.”
So she was able to use that motivation and excitement of starting a new family to fake love enough to get married and get the baby. After that, she didn't need to fake that anymore, and didn't have it in her since she got what she wanted, she had nothing else to “work” for anymore.
So for her, of COURSE they don't date, they don't spend time together. Why would she want to? She never liked him in the first place, she just tolerated him enough to get her child.
Other possibility is a form of post partum depression (I think theres a new broader term for that now) that's long been untreated. The worst part about depression or other mood disorders is the person with them doesn't feel like there's something wrong, like you do with a cold or flu. It just feels like that's what “normal” even if normal really sucks.
Came here for this lol
With this one I'd just leave in the night like Lord Lucan never to be heard of again. Don't actually do what Lord Lucan did. Other than leave. Do that.
I honestly think she’s just not that bright . Good luck explaining this to her
This is really weird. He's hiding you and cares more about her feelings than yours. If he is hiding you, I'd ask why and I would ask if this is something you want to stay a part of because…you shouldn't be hidden. If he wants to be with you, and only you, he wouldn't feel the need to hide you.
The fact that he does is really concerning, and if they were together for nine years, you're absolutely a rebound because it takes actual time to get over that. There's a lot to unpack in nine years. Yes even if he lives with you.
He doesn't sound like he's ready to be with anyone, and I bet if you decided to dump him, he'd try and get back with her. He wasn't ready to move on.
Thank u! I just dont like people blaming themselves for things they can't control. Like no one needs to agree with me or share my beliefs. But this seems pretty cut and dry. She just wants something different and also she should probably focus on herself a bit more too.. condemning her poor pregnant cousin isn't very kind.. everyone needs love and support especially when they are going through something alone.