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BJ@2 / gdeepthroat @3 / Spit tits @4/ sloppy dildo @5 [18 tokens remaining]
Date: October 29, 2022
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BJ@2 / gdeepthroat @3 / Spit tits @4/ sloppy dildo @5 [18 tokens remaining]
I’m questioning why marrying this man even crossed your mind in the first place. My advice to you is to move on because this man has repeatedly made disparaging remarks about a part of yourself you’re proud of. He won’t change, and all any kids you may have with the is man will hear is hateful things about their mother, their mother’s side of the family, and themselves. You’re so young at 24 OP. Can you really tolerate hearing this hateful shit from him for 10, 15, 20 and up to 40+ years of marriage?
Tell her husband no matter what ,not ur fault if ur friendship and her marriage blow up cuz of her acts and desire to cheat
I agree with you!
???? say goodbye to her before she breaks your heart anymore. There are a lot better women out there. Good luck
Ooooooh I used to love ice skating, it was such fun as a kid. I will definitely be using that one, thank you!
I haven't been to my local museum in a while so that's also not a bad idea, it's very appreciated.
My partner is super into art (and wine haha) so art openings and gallery shows is such a perfect idea, I hadn't actually thought about those as options, thank you so much!
Thank you for the contributions and luck 🙂
Well omitting that info tells me it has more meaning than what you're implying if at no point OP tried to even let her husband know that she was just talking to the other guy. She wasn't born yesterday.
Hey, this is going to be harsh but he does not love you. Your partner should not be saying he wants to fuck your friends, or flirt with other women while in a relationship.
Just because you have a kid together doesn’t mean you have to STAY together. You’ve stated couples counseling, he doesn’t want to go and you can’t force someone to do something. So instead I urge YOU to go to individual therapy and start making an exit plan.
Get your financials set together, pick up extra shifts if you can, sell the items you don’t need and get the fuck away from this man. You can coparent, just like lots of people do.
Please know your worth girl, I promise you you’ll be so much happier by yourself than with a loser who treats you like trash.
Um yeah obviously given that you’re in her home you better find housing elsewhere before telling her “you’re not feeling it” lol the fact that you have to even ask that question… Do her the favor of leaving her. And her house… lol
No lol
Really? I'm Gen X. My friends & family & I were spanked as punishment when we did something very bad and very serious, and we absolutely know that was spanking as punishment and not abuse. The 5 times I got spanked as a kid didn't scar me for life. In fact, they stopped me from doing really stupid and destructive stuff.
Tell them to sort their shit or the only daughter they have will be the one that they let beat animals
I sincerely hope this post is fake because wtaf
How about no to all of this? You're both idiots if you think this is ok
If you guys were older, run, for sure. But at 20, I feel the best course of action is to talk to him once you guys are alone and tell him how this all made you feel.. hell, even show him the comments here about how she's most likely manipulating him and to keep his eyes opened for the next thing (which mostly likely will happen soon). After that, you can still break up and run if you feel like this is an absolute deal breaker, or if he refuses to see it. But at least try to talk as this might be the first time she's pulling this kind of stuff, so it could very well caught him off guard.
INFO: if he was not consuming porn but still masturbating daily via a head full of fantasies — some involving you, some involving a host of other people from his personal past and the pop culture present — would this still be a problem?
I also had a relationship like that. We broke up for different reasons, but I understand where you are coming from.
What you need to understand is, after doing it for so many years, watching that kind of stuff is sort of a habit or more like an addiction for some people. It is not abnormal, it doesn't count as cheating, but if you are unconfortable with it you two should talk it out and he should still respect your wishes.
Don’t panic. Take a deep inhale and let it out.
Now… What was your gut instinct? Was it “why does she have these?” “Oh she wants to have sex again” or “ she is cheating”?…. Not the thoughts after, but that instant thought. Gut instinct isn’t proof but important.
Next, use I Feel statements. “I feel a bit confused and panicked by something I found. I was looking for x and saw condoms in your drawer. I love you and trust you, so I was hoping we could talk about us, sex or whatever. Would that be okay?”
That’s currently how I’m feeling. Like I do deserve to have more emotion and comfort. All I want is to be able to discuss my feelings and wants without my partner thinking it’s an attack on them. It never is, I just want to talk…
I do feel left behind. Like I’m just a part of their life whenever they deem it necessary. Even to calling, they call whenever people aren’t around or when it suits them. I don’t even feel like I can call them whenever they are in their home town.
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Life is teaching you a lesson. Open your eyes and ears and learn
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Holy shit I had an ex like you. He would embellish his stories and then if I literally would leave out a detail because I found it irrelevant (like the littlest detail, like if we had hotdogs or brauts) he would say I was lying. Sometimes in front of my friends and sometimes in private. I’m also emotional, cry a lot, cared about him more than anything. Would have killed for him if he asked me too. Way more than what he would have ever done for me. When he called me manipulative I asked him how and promised to change. Then he told me that me saying that was manipulative. So I hated myself and thought I was manipulative and a liar and that I deserved nothing and that no one would love me if he stopped. He hated my empathy and hated that I was emotional. Before him I was kind and carefree and after I felt like I needed to never date again because I was worried I would hurt them. He was the worst thing that ever happened to me. I read this in his voice. If it weren’t for the ages I would guess you were him writing about how he bullied and embarrassed his next girlfriend.
Listen. He was a narcissist, you might just be kind of a dick right now. But you better change because your girlfriend deserves better treatment. If she was making this post I would seriously advise her to leave you.
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The trip was gonna happen either way! Lol usually try to get out of the country every couple months or so. But I hear you, thanks for the advice
I did mention this to show that kissing doesn't have to be romantic.
Some people are just more physical than others and there's nothing weird nor erotic about it.
I did mention this to show that kissing doesn't have to be romantic.
Some people are just more physical than others and there's nothing weird nor erotic about it.
Nobody on Reddit knows where he is. He’s an adult who told you he was out partying, so the police don’t consider him a missing person. Go to sleep. Give him hell when he gets home.
My husband promised that he would never look at porn.
Any guy who says that is making an outlandish bullshit claim. Unless there are layers of preventative measure put in place along with some type of ideology that they themselves believe in.
I guess what I’m asking is do I trust that he’s changed? Am I being irrational? I know my idea of porn is heavily skewed because of my father
Here is why I agree with your stance. You set your boundaries and expectations at the very start of this relationship. And he violated those by lying and hiding things from you. When he could have just been upfront and told you that it was something he could not promise to commit to.
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I haven’t caught him with actual porn in 4 years (outside of the instagram models) but I mean his phone and laptop are sterile, he’s on his phone all the time, but his history is nonexistent
He has just gotten better at hiding it.
The very hot truth here is what you're willing to go through.
she'll get upset because she feels abandoned by her child.
Is there a risk of her disowning you or otherwise going no contact if you try to expert reasonable boundaries? Because it sounds like your options at this point are “put up with her” or be disowned. And you have to desids where you draw the line.
What do you prioritize? Is family more important to you than your independence? Or is your independence more important than a no filter mom who doesn't seem to care much about the fact that you're an adult?
You don't have to tell me. I just want you to think about it. Cause nobody can give you the answer. You have to decide for yourself what your priorities are.
She’s only punched the wall once. That’s not a big deal for me because I do renovations. I’m just really in love with her because I remember her before she started doing crack and I want to help her but I also want to run at the same time.
She's practically still a kid, and kids are blind when it comes to toxic people. I'm not sure what you could do other than go to couples counseling and try to make her realize that her friend is not a good person and shouldn't be around.
She's wrong for not telling OP about the sexual history, that's about it.
I love my mom, I truly do. But she will never get in the way of my marriage or my role as a father. She’s tried to come over unannounced to see the baby or “just to spend time with my son” but I know that it’s all selfishness borne out of an inability to make regular connections with other people. Having her around has always stressed me out, my wife caught on to that almost immediately after we started dating and it stresses her out to see me stressed out. I won’t let my mother put that strain on my family.
You did the right thing. Your husband made an awful choice and put his mother ahead of his family. That just shouldn’t happen
What's off is that they are all diagnoses which give him the perceived room to blame her reactions towards him on her being crazy and not the way he's treating her. Adhd- emotional regulation, bipolar? Emotional regulation! And now pmdd- the “she's on her period that's why she's angry” disorder.
Like, I just get this feeling that he's poking the bear till it “explodes” (eye rolling, how extreme ??) and turning every reason she has for reacting like she does to “just being crazy”
Like, if I was unmedicated, stuck at home doing childrearing, and then had a husband who insisted I not move my face certain ways when reacting to him I'd be a little fucking crazy and unmedicated too. She sounds like she needs to treat her ADHD – and notice how that's not a concern of his until after the internet reams him- but he's calling her a gold digger in his comments?
Something is way the fuck off.
Like dude, she decided to recconect with someone from her past, then lied about setting clear boundaries and sended him provocative photos, then she went to his house and doesnt respond you, you know, i know, they know, we all know what they were doing at his house, she lied to you about setting boundaries (what type of boundaries is that you send provocative photos to him?), if you confront her she will probably lie once again, since both of you are with her family i would just leave her there and go back, and obviously break off the engagement, you deserve someone who wasnt going to cheat on you man.
It sounds like you are experiencing a significant trust issue with your husband. This behavior is not normal and it is understandable that you would be upset and confused by it. It is important to address this issue as soon as possible. Here are a few suggestions for how you can handle the situation:
Communicate your concerns directly with your husband. It is important to approach this conversation in a calm and non-accusatory manner. Explain how you feel and why you are concerned. Express the importance of trust in your relationship and how this behavior is damaging it. Ask for an explanation from your husband about the fingernail clippings. Give him an opportunity to explain his actions and listen to what he has to say.
It's important to remember that trust is a fundamental aspect of any relationship and it's important that it is restored. Good luck with the conversation.
She is still using you. But now she’s using you when it suits her. Block her number and try to avoid her as much as possible. You will be stuck in this cycle if you don’t.
Nah he made a choice you gave him 2 options he isn't talking to you, he picked and it is time for you to keep moving.
Good luck with the next person because he is dead to you now you just have to accept it.
Happy cake day!
Also, people breakup all the time. No big deal not sharing. NDAs are no joke.
What was the point of coming on here if you’re just going to deny all advice given to you?
If you want to live! a life where decisions are only made by your husband, who told you you come last to him, then fine. Forego the future you wanted for the future he’s willing to give you. But you cannot expect everyone else to give you a pat on the back for it
I'd say the reason for going there would be 50/50 study and him. In there I would get other friends too of course but the problem with living on my own would be the living fees and all. I still wanna have freetime alongside studies and not spend it all on working. During university I have worked part-time alongside studying and it just is way too tireing.
You have a point. He's her responsibility now. Thanks for your comment.
The breakup wasn't the turning point, i think it was when you started doing drugs.
Not weed but whatever the other was.
This might be a bit obvious of a sign because I show that I'm interested in him and he usually says things like “I'm just tryna hit”.
I'm sorry what?
This is your fuckbuddy, OP. That's why he says he's not good for you. He's not into you on more than a sex level, and he knows you want more. But he'll keep having sex with you.
Should you step back? It depends on if you're cool being just sex friends until he meets someone he likes in a relationship type way.