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Date: October 14, 2022
You can laugh off one time. You have the right to be pissed at a repeat. But 4 times….you need to respect yourself here dude. I understand it's your first relationship, and your inexperience is maybe driving your reaction (or lack thereof). You need to stand up for yourself, or you're going to be walked over. That doesn't necessarily need to mean breaking up with her, but honestly – if I found myself in the same situation, there is no way I would be hanging around. Staying in this relationship is probably going to hurt you in the long-run.
What ypu should do is ognore it and stop caring about what she's doing.
Let's add for context we have a 11 year old child together as well. I'm black, they are white. The justice system would throw me under the jail if I stood my ground and his mother knows it. She cyber bullied me while I was pregnant, moved him 4 hours away to Dallas, and called cps on me, as well as took me to court on “grandparents rights” to try to get full custody. Luckily I got full custody and they got supervised. Keep in mind he was in the dark about all of this. He didn't find out until we talked about the past last year. He offered to cut his mother off to be with me but by that time I had made up my mind that I would never be apart of that women's family. Now I love him on my time without having to deal with his mom.
Being the textbook definition of a romantic is a good sign. Treating your partner well is a good sign in a relationship. Would it be less of a red flag if he wasnt romantic and didn’t treat her well?
Is the age gap a concern? Definitely. But immediately assuming there’s lovebombing isn’t really fair to them. They could be dating a year+ for all we know.
Agreed. I feel for both of them!
You need to cut this man off. You don't sound compatible and your relationship together is completely unstable. I understand you may want to act mature about it and remain friends but in order for you to heal, move on, and mourn that relationship is to cut him off. You seeing him hold onto those lingering feelings and gets your roped back into him. Cut him off and give yourself space to work and love yourself. There is someone out there for you who won't leave anytime things get hot. I wish you all the best.
What was the correct answer for him?
You want to be lied to?
Sounds like you put him in an impossible situation while doing some self-hating.
Sure he's not the most sensitive, but he's honest, and that can be a rare thing.
You wanna throw him out for someone that lies to you?
Try just breathing and accepting who you are and your body and stop fishing for fake compliments.
So he is an angry violent person who you knowing he was pissed at your grandma, got in a car with and drove 5 hrs. The one thing he said to you is he wanted to avoid your family…so you were part of a plan for a surprise birthday party at grandmas house with your family without the issue having been dealt with????? fail #1. You then tried to convince/force him to go in knowing that was the exact opposite of what he wanted to do! fail #2. You guilt tripped him into coming over the next evening he was feeling unwell and wanted to leave, your uncle decided he was going to teach your boyfriend somethings. You stood there knowing he was in pain and did not intervene even though you recognised his discomfort, only stepped in once you uncle had triple jumped all over the line. At this point you defended your uncle again while he was in pain and pissed off then decided to stay with the aggressor while he was in pain and pissed off because suddenly you were scared he would become violent, the person who had not up to that point been violent at all!!! He on the drive back had a moment of clarity about you not having his back or respecting how he feels or standing up for him. In fact you showed him that your family was no1 and he was a far distant whatever. Fail#3. What were you confused about? You took your grandma’s side and tried to make her feel better at his expense. You ignored and trampled over the on thing he asked of you, then guilt tripped him into coming. You defended your uncle! You left him alone in pain! you made multiple choices that weekend that benefited you and your family how many that put him first or showed you listened and supported him? I counted none. That is why he left that is why you can’t fix this. This is why you should not try. There is no way you are a caring loving girlfriend who just happened to repeatedly and consistently not have his back or care about his feelings the whole weekend!
You have done many many terrible things. Everything people about you in the comments is true. But I'm going to answer your question and give you advice on meeting with your son, since he's the one initiating contact. First, you need to follow any stipulations for him meeting you. Whether that means no Max, I'm public, whatever he wants, you do.
He is most likely going to rip you a new one. Things like all these other comments are saying. And you need to take it. You need to listen. Not only is it what you deserve, it's the very least you owe your son after all this time. And he still won't forgive you in the end. There's nothing you can do that will earn forgiveness.
Just for this once, do the right thing for your son. It may well be the last time you have the chance to.
Very lucky! It cost me $200 per shot, which is a bit nuts, tbh!
When one have given up and doesn’t wanna leave and the other is trying to fix the relationship and we just keep going back and forth
I think if you aren’t 100% sure it’s a yes then it’s a no. In the most beautiful way you are a baby adult. Let yourself learn and grow into adulthood, and do that by putting yourself first. You don’t sound like this is someone you want to keep spending your one life with and I know 13 months is a lifetime at 20 but it’s really just a tiny blip of your life if you are lucky enough to get older.
ETA: It’s bothering me—he “accidentally” didn’t stop doing something where it was an emergency to you that he stop? Did he rape you?
I'm 29 and couldn't fathom dating someone your age, we'd be in such different places in life that we'd have so little to nothing in common. He's for sure using you for fun and status.
I’m not the OP just showing that he’s basically lying about the situation. She does more chores and he pays a minuscule amount more than her, which is unfair considering the income disparity.
There should be highs! You shouldn't feel indifferent! It sounds like you just don't like his personality
Did you read your own title? Or post?
Do that as if a friend of yours wrote it asking for advice
Sorry babes. Her house her rules.