Don't go, because there's no reason to. She took advantage of you when you were only 18 and inexperienced. She used you to get over her ex, then dumped you when she was done with you.
It wasn't the age gap or she never would have gotten into a relationship with you in the first place. I wonder how her fiance feels about you being invited to their wedding? Does he even know? Who is more important, your gf or your ex? How would you feel if it was her ex, that invited her to his wedding?
It was the most difficult conversation of our entire marriage. finally, after 10 years of being married I found courage to ask her more or less straight. And some information was rather hurtful to me. It did not change how much I love her but I wish we had had this conversation before we got married.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Safety. Unknown strangers sleeping in same apt as his gf. If these are hook ups and not her friends bf there’s a much higher chance of possibly being a bad actor and something happening to her.
Op has every right to feel uncomfortable with the situation and offer possible alternatives but no right to dictate her choice.
With that said she did chose to move in with her friend so now he needs to decide if he can accept that and either break up if he can’t or put it behind him and move forward.
Personally I’d feel a bit uncomfortable in his place too but would trust my partner and ask that she just be a bit careful when her friend brings a hookup home or if she is willing she can come over and spend those nights with me.
His family sort of lost the privilege of having him close by being mean to him. Can’t undo that. They should have been considerate when they had the chance
I would get divorce papers and give them to your husband and tell him he can either sign and give you full custody or he can schedule an appointment for his first day off work for you to both go to a couples counselor
And I'm currently handling a case where I had to call the cops on someone for stealing private property.
Guess what we had to do instead of waiting for them to…what, barge into someone's home and turn the place upside down looking for the pills?
Is that what you think they'd do?
Don't go, because there's no reason to. She took advantage of you when you were only 18 and inexperienced. She used you to get over her ex, then dumped you when she was done with you.
It wasn't the age gap or she never would have gotten into a relationship with you in the first place. I wonder how her fiance feels about you being invited to their wedding? Does he even know? Who is more important, your gf or your ex? How would you feel if it was her ex, that invited her to his wedding?
well im not bad looking and tall, and had gfs before so it seems to be unbelievable for her that i didnt have sex >_>
What the heck is she doing for work where she's travrling for nine weeks straight without you?
What the heck is she doing for work where she's travrling for nine weeks straight without you?
What the heck is she doing for work where she's travrling for nine weeks straight without you?
Thats fucking disgusting. Telling someone to buy their parents sex toys what the fuck
Wait you find mullets attractive? Has this term changed meaning with the youth lol?
It was the most difficult conversation of our entire marriage. finally, after 10 years of being married I found courage to ask her more or less straight. And some information was rather hurtful to me. It did not change how much I love her but I wish we had had this conversation before we got married.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Safety. Unknown strangers sleeping in same apt as his gf. If these are hook ups and not her friends bf there’s a much higher chance of possibly being a bad actor and something happening to her.
Op has every right to feel uncomfortable with the situation and offer possible alternatives but no right to dictate her choice.
With that said she did chose to move in with her friend so now he needs to decide if he can accept that and either break up if he can’t or put it behind him and move forward.
Personally I’d feel a bit uncomfortable in his place too but would trust my partner and ask that she just be a bit careful when her friend brings a hookup home or if she is willing she can come over and spend those nights with me.
His family sort of lost the privilege of having him close by being mean to him. Can’t undo that. They should have been considerate when they had the chance
I would get divorce papers and give them to your husband and tell him he can either sign and give you full custody or he can schedule an appointment for his first day off work for you to both go to a couples counselor
Tell her to go fuck herself. She's a terrible person and not a friend to you at all!