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Sara & Jacob Turner, 99 y.o.
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Date: September 26, 2022
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Read “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin de Becker. It could save your life.
Likkke I feel like he has a wife and 3 kids at home now
You can seriously see marrying her down the line? Oh boy.
This seems unsalvageable tbh.
You need to get help from your doctor, not your boyfriend.
I see, thank you for elaborating. You did say 'advice' though.
It's good that you've been open to therapy. If you still have that therapist, might you guys discuss this with them? They will know so much more about the boundaries you've discussed and agreed to and the context in which those exist. They will know what issues you both raised and what was recommended to resolve them, and you both know whether you've done and continue to do those things. We don't know any of that, and of course that's totally ok, I don't want to know anything you don't want to share. I'm just saying, it's relevant in my unpopular opinion.
I see a mixed message in referring him to his friends for advice and how you responded to this, which he apparently voluntarily told you he did. Did he think he'd done something to be proud of?
How would he have known that talking about it with two friends over coffee would be ok but not four friends over brunch? In what context did you suggest he seek and from his friends? You don't need to tell me, I'm not interrogating you I'm just saying what I'm wondering as I read that sentence.
And of course it's also possible that he did know it wasn't acceptable and that you would hate it and did it anyway. You might care about why he did that, or it might not matter. It sounds like even if he had known, he wouldn't have cared, based on what he said when you raised your concerns with him. Again, does it matter to you why he did it, or only that he did and he'll do it again? (I don't need to know this, ofc)
I do recognize that sex is a very personal subject. I just don't know what advice you told him to get from his friends and how similar it is or isn't to the subject of sex and intimate relationships.