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I’m sorry you got lied to and betrayed. So did the guy she is seeing.
You know what nice guys do? Tell the truth, and protect other people from her shittery. If she wants respect she shouldn’t act so disrespectful towards others.
If I were you, I’d text your friends, tell them what happened, try to find out who she’s seeing, and tell him too. I’m dealing with my own cheating ex right now, and that’s what I would want someone to do for me.
Don't let her shame you into engagement those toxic tactcs will never cease , she has been using you for 3 years that's bad enough but this is just ridiculous.
If he is unwilling to stand up to his family for you, and you are looking for a long-term relationship, it's time to dump him and move on.
No. Stop. As someone who suffered a TBI (traumatic brain injury) you NEED to get checked out. About two weeks after the injury is when I started having long term issues including a stutter and serious short term memory issues. The brain is no joke and the long lasting affects can be devastating. I'm over 5 years out from my injury and I still have issues with speech.
My fear is: what if he is hiding something dangerous about his mental health and we leave him alone facing it?
Women’s suffrage and abolition of slavery was preached in churchs in the north in the 19th century. It was preached against in the south
Nothing exists in a vacuum, things often evolve including women’s right, which there was none of in the beginning settlement times. I don’t know how to put history courses into a few paragraphs. Women’s suffrage movement had a large religious component. Think of how the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Preached social equality from the pulpits when just a street down in a white church the opposite was being said. Because America religion was so popular an extreme idea couldn’t get wheels without religion agreeing in some way. Couldn’t just say let’s do things differently because we feel like it including women’s suffrage. It’s like working for a jerk who has to think of every idea themselves before they’ll implement it.
Dude, you don’t want kids yet but are trusting that to someone else’s birth control. Also, the withdrawal method is basically non-birth control. You’re 30. Time to wise up so your life doesn’t get derailed.
Unhappy single people in the comments are about to talk you out of enjoying your life, if you let them.
If you're enjoying each other and on the same page, who cares what anonymous redditors think? Go have fun.
you feel like the more mature one because you probably are. Theres a reason women his own age wont date him and as you mature you're starting to see it.
And now it does feel like I mushed up feeling unsafe and frozen to creating a reason to feel hurt like you said. Like my fight and flight turned into a blaming game.
But this is the first guy I have dated that I wanted to marry
Do you want to marry this guy and have a life together that is similar to what you’re going through now? Because that’s what will happen.
I mean… If she went to bed alone and got followed and groped while she was asleep, it's hot to see how she did anything wrong there.
OK I stopped after I read the title so sue me. But never ever do something sexually with somebody else she don’t want to. When you open a relationship from monogamous, usually the relationship is over. Because the person wants to cheat and is trying to find a legal way to do it, and not entirely lose you, so they figure if they can get you to agree to it and not leave them and have the pleasure of playing around. I’ll do it.
Never ever tape some thing with somebody ever especially if you don’t want to they’re not going to delete it number one and number two it’s degrading and humiliating when you don’t even want to be part of it. So you have a big problem, your boyfriend doesn’t value you and I believe your relationship if it is not over now it’s going to be shortly. I did finally read through it, and I still feel exactly the way that I said. The relationship is mostly over.
To clarify:
You entered the relationship NOT wanting to marry, he DID want to.
Then you changed your mind and DID want to and he changed his mind and DIDNT want to?
I’d say you are wrongly judging him for changing his mind when you did so just as much.
“Marriage material” is a ridiculous term. It means anyone who isn’t married isn’t marriage material- and that is far from the truth. Don’t ruin a good relationship over a societal expectation and governmental paper.
If you’re common law, you’re already married in the eyes of the law. If you want to officiate it further, get a write up done by a lawyer to ensure you have access to each other in hospital in case of emergency, and there you go. Your rights are now 100% the same as married people in the eyes of the law.
If it’s a show of commitment that you want, then have an unofficial ceremony.
Divorce is not cheap- there are more legalities involved and it’s more expensive to separate if you have a marriage license. That’s the only difference.
HOWEVER, your issue has nothing to do with marriage. Your issue is that your partner isn’t showing affection- and a marriage isn’t going to fix that. You need to go to therapy as a couple to fix that. If your partner is not responsive to you communicating your needs then that is a massive problem.
I’ve been with my SO for 11 years (never marrying), and he is all over me every day. It just seems to me that you have incompatible love languages.
You are looking at his number of sex partners through the lens of how YOU define sex. So my suggestion is to look at it from how he defines it.
Accept that he can enjoy casual sex as just a physical act. It’s ok that you are demisexual and it’s ok that he’s not, As long as you are both on the same page with what your sex life with each other means.
I used to work nights and lived close to a very busy construction company. Here’s some advice: there’s an eye mask you can get live that has Bluetooth speakers in it, and with it playing sleep sounds, it drowns out a lot of noise. Also, invest in some HQ earplugs, like professional earplugs that are comfortable. The others personally irritated my skin. If you have a fan, blast that thing at night. Box fans make a ton of noise and great air circulation. You can also buy a white noise machine that can go really loud.
A lot of people comment like moving out is so easy anymore, as if you can now sign on to a lease (yes, this even applies to university housing) without credit or with very little credit history at 19…many rentals will laugh in your face and not give you the time of day. And let alone afford the rent and groceries with your current wages.
You got defensive because you felt threatened.
You felt threatened because you perceived an attack.
You perceived an attack because of your held biases and worldview.
I'm not saying you were wrong to be upset. That's not my point. But there are a lot of steps involved here where you could use some introspection. It's not about “everyone versus me” – people just don't have the bandwidth for that. It's about fixing your own attitude towards situations like this generally.
i know im just… i’m scared to leave i love him but it’s not mutual and i feel so dumb
My wife is 30 lol.
You're young, ya be reet.
Go and have fun and find someone better.
She's not your friend. She's trying to steal your boyfriend. You and he are BOTH uncomfortable with this situation. Cut her off! Trust me, you won't miss her or her drama.
to benefit all of them
First, fuck assuming she's poor just because she's a single mom. That's messed up. Second, I do not see how his job benefits her in any way. He doesn't even want to move in together.
I almost threw up at how disgusting this is. I would rather live alone in a cardboard box with my kids than choose a man’s happiness over the presence of my child
You need therapy and what you have is not misophonia considering no sounds are involved with having nail polish on your fingers. Also your wording is gross – “i won’t LET my girlfriend paint her nails”. Controlling much? What else do you tell her to do or not do? I feel bad for your girlfriend.
OP, why don’t you just pay the excess utility fees? That seems like a fair compromise.
She wants a break, she wants to know how you're doing,she wants this, she wants that…. she doesn't want the 1st time meet ……
Do you see a pattern here? What she wants is NOT your problem anymore. You're going to be doing a job. If she's uncomfortable she is free to be elsewhere.
Get up off the floor and stop allowing her to walk over you. She probably wants to break it to you that she found someone else while out looking for herself or some dumb shit. If she does have someone already he was in the picture before you broke up.
I understand that, maybe I didn’t phrase this better. The place only has a bed no couch or nothing. This is a dorm type place and it choosing between a guy who can’t force himself on her vs being attacked by people who will force themselves on her while she is on the way home.
I agree, I just need to sort out what I’m gonna say. Thank you so much, I really appreciate the outside perspective. I think I definitely got stuck in my own head about how I was feeling with regards to the situation and this really needs to be a proper conversation with him
That is correct. We decided to put our money towards what felt right at the time. There’s no conflict as to why we haven’t held our wedding. Just put other things before it.
If he’s hiding stuff from you because he knows you’d be angry or break up with him if you saw it….
Do you really need to see it to break up with him?
Why not take your mom
You recognize that you are fundamentally incompatible, but you also love and care for him so you don't want to hurt him. And you're right love isn't enough. Not stupid at all.
The problem is you're going to have to hurt him for both of your sakes. Yes, it's going to suck but it has to be done. Putting it off isn't going to do either of you any favors. You need to sit him down and tell him that you just want very different things and you're ending things. If you live together, you need to think about that-who is going to move, are you both on the lease, what's the timeline for finding a new place etc. I'd be prepared for pushback from him, but stand your ground. If you feel unsafe, LEAVE.
Shit family. You can do better
i keep thinking that it's my fault, if i wouldn't have been so emotional, he would've still been interested. if i wouldn't have had sex with him so soon, he would've valued me more. i feel like i cheapened myself and ruined all the fun and mystery by throwing myself at him, because now he knows i have feelings for him, he knows im scared, he know's he has all the power in this.
Your only mistake was to pick the wrong guy. Thinking of it as a manipulative game that you misplayed is a very bad way to go.
Tell him to get hell for his issues or you can’t marry him. It’s not simple, I know, but at the same time it really is that simple. You don’t deserve to live like that. I quite literally would’ve had a. Real down long before 6 months. I could barely handle the 6 weeks.
This is not ok, and you cannot marry him until this is dealt with.