“If this makes her happy maybe i should accept it”
This is you trying to cope with this, but it seems obvious you are not comfortable or want this. Relationships are give and take, but in the end it is for both to be happy. And the give isnt supposed to be emotional scarring, which this obviously will be.
You ask now maybe you should accept it, but that is you trying to avoid what it would be like without her. Right now you feel you would be less hurt letting this continue. Maybe that is the case, but it rarely works out that way. And you will put yourself through way more pain drawing this out, then in the end ultimately making the decision to leave anyways.
I feel for you, I do. Please never let this “relationship” status get any higher than Fuk buddie. For your own piece of mind. Her actions so far are not conducive to anything long term.
“If this makes her happy maybe i should accept it”
This is you trying to cope with this, but it seems obvious you are not comfortable or want this. Relationships are give and take, but in the end it is for both to be happy. And the give isnt supposed to be emotional scarring, which this obviously will be.
You ask now maybe you should accept it, but that is you trying to avoid what it would be like without her. Right now you feel you would be less hurt letting this continue. Maybe that is the case, but it rarely works out that way. And you will put yourself through way more pain drawing this out, then in the end ultimately making the decision to leave anyways.
I feel for you, I do. Please never let this “relationship” status get any higher than Fuk buddie. For your own piece of mind. Her actions so far are not conducive to anything long term.
I’m rooting for you.
UpdateMe!
What do you mean you don't know how to ask? Tell her you have something important you want to discuss and just ask her!
The comments are deleted now but OP did lie about her age.
Not only that, there’s other things
She’s craaaaaaaaazy!