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Blowjob [Multi Goal]
Date: November 6, 2022
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Blowjob [Multi Goal]
If you want a monogamous relationship, then it’s best to move on. He’s telling you he’s ploy and if you’re not, you’ll end up being miserable trying to be something you’re not.
Leave, she doesn't want you anymore
What the hell is rape culture ? She is fine, she grew up in a good family and I know literally everything about her, even her deepest secrets and she wasn’t raped.
Hi babe! Let me start and say actual weight means absolutely nothing.
I'm 26F & fluctuate between 130-140 through the year. 5″3. I have personally looked my absolute best at 140 and ironically enough, I'm at my low weight of 130 right now and look so flabby. I think the key here is health. Dont overthink it. You both are the perfect age to be making these moves and decisons. Your older self will thank you and you both will live such healthier, quality lives.
At my best, I was eating right, going to the gym regularly, and yoga / stretching at home. I'm moderately active with my work too and when I take a break from my routine , I can definitely tell in the mirror and energy levels.
Also, I struggle with eating regularly myself and at my best– I had to really put forth an effort to make sure I was getting enough protein, fat, and carbs everyday. Skipping meals sucks but it's low effort, I rly had to reprogram my brain lol
Best of luck!♡
Why not take some space to figure it out before you reaffirm a lifelong commitment that you made at an age where people typically dont know what they want from life
You’re avoiding the problem. To now bring it back to the title question, you don’t move on from those things.
You acknowledge that you’re still unhappy and make a change.
she wont see this unfortunately btw idk if you know or not
Say that you are in love with him
Or he agreed to support his wife and all kids because he views them equally as his kids and responsibility and she does which is sad.
Thank you for your reply. I appreciate the time you spent to help me.
By my count you used the word “hate” eleven times in your post.
All the same YOU are complicit in this because you continue
to subject yourself to the issues and do nothing.
You are Responsible for your well-being and sitting on
the INTERNET complaining while actually doing nothing does not qualify.
Get to work.
I totally get that. I'm the same way. I'd move mountains for my partners and I know he would too.
I know you wrote in another comment that youre going to see him on THursday, maybe talk to him about where this relationship is going? I feel like youre the type that isnt dating for heartbreak
A lot of people here don’t seem to understand the realities of the fears a 14 year old has in this situation.
If she goes to the police or if she reports it to staff at school, who are required to report it to the police, the police will come to her door. If she’s collected evidence, they’ll take her away from the household and put her in a foster home. If she hasn’t, her mom and stepdad will deny what she’s said, the police won’t be able to do anything, and her home situation will be worse.
She doesn’t want either of those things. She wants this man out of her life. She wants her mom to protect her. She wants to feel safe in her home. The sad truth its not like she’ll get any m of those things. But that’s what OP needs to be convinced of before we start giving her advise.
Because of course foster care — or living with a relative if she’s fortunate — is better than the inevitable sexual abuse her stepfather is plotting. But right now I doubt this 14 year old girl has accepted that eventuality. I imagine she’s still holding out hope she’ll the safety and security in her home that she actually wants.
u/throwracreepystepdad, I’m sorry you have to deal with this. No teenager should need to worry about not feeling safe in their home. But the other commenters are right: you need to collect what evidence you can and report your stepfamily to a teacher or guidance counselor at your school. They’ll call the police and if you tell the police and give them whatever evidence you have, they’ll likely remove you from your home.
I know that sounds terrible and is an insanely difficult choice to make, but the alternative is what your stepfather is planning on doing to you. You know what he’ll do if he has the chance. You know your mother will not protect you. Please try to get out before it happens.
“getting pregnant at 15 by a man in his 40s” yes, that is called statutory rape, not “a thing for creeps”
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Doesn’t really chance what the optimal decision is ( just moving on ).
Yeah, faking isn't the best idea in my experience. It just leads to feelings of resentment and anger later on. But like another commenter said, be open and honest, and hopefully he'll take it like an adult and want to learn now to please you better. It will take time, experimentation, and lots of awkward and funny moments, but eventually y'all will find what works for you!
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1) I can’t stress this enough – tell your family. Do not keep them in the dark with this.
Does your father know? He needs to first.
I know you probably think you are saving them all from the pain and anxiety you are currently feeling, but if he dies when they haven’t had time to prepare themselves and they find out you didn’t tell them it will cause irreparable harm.
Don’t set yourself up for future pain and drama.
2) Get yourself and anyone else who is open to it into grief counselling BEFORE he dies.
3) If he is open to it start asking him questions about his life. Childhood/family stories, look at old photos and talk with him about them. Learn about him as an adult and not through your childhood view. You will never get a chance to do this again, and when I did it with my dad I learnt a whole new side of him I had never known.
That’s all I can think of atm. I lost my dad to cancer in the space of 6 months and the only things I regret are not spending more time with him. That’s it. Don’t steal that time from your mother and siblings by keeping them in the dark, and don’t waste it yourself. Death of a parent is always very hot, the most you can do is try and minimise regrets.
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No I don’t, my partner wanted to raise his own flesh and blood, I wasn’t going to take that chance away from him. The child is no longer my responsibility.
Apologize and tell him how you feel about.
And the next time. It's perfectly fine that you don't want to listen but it might be better to just say that you can't be available for that right now instead of invalidating his feelings.
Yet he was interested in you much earlier.
Because older men who specifically go after younger women are always problematic lol
Did this star when you move in with her family or before that?
Honey, wear your heels and be masculine af.
Somewhere a chick is going to think you’re the hottest guy she’s ever seen (because honestly, men with great legs in high heels? Yes pls) and you will find a woman who love you for you. PSA: men can wear high heels, skirts, dresses and not be transgender or even be cross-dressers. Clothing and shoes are for everyone.
So she can dish the treatment but can’t take it,
So you probably need therapy, but good luck broaching that subject with her response to you bringing things up.
If you want to go down the petty path, you can try mirroring her behaviour and attitude.
You need to make sure you do it exactly, so if possible record your normal reaction/response, then record hers. Then the next time you mirror her. And when she complains etc, you bring out the recording of her, and say “why do you have a problem with it? All I did was mirror you, if it’s okay for you it must be okay for me.”
Then if you really want to hammer home the point, you tell her that you would much prefer to handle things better, like how you normally handle it and show her the recording of you.
Let time do its thing. A lot of us go thru this at the start of a relationship. The more you get to know her the less her past will affect you.
“For some reason I didn’t apologize” – I love when people write stuff like this as if it was out of their control and some random force beyond their control caused their behavior. You hurt him, accidentally that is, but you physically hurt him and rather than just apologize, you told him he was being dramatic. You chose not to apologize and make light of the situation. Then, you again put pressure in the same area a few moments later and his reaction was to remove you from his space to stop the pain.
Was it violent, yes. Self defense/self preservation/alleviating pain often is violent.
I don't want to leave my husband, if I did I couldn't call my family for a ticket home. my family is either dead, has cancer, or is broke.
The only people trying to make it all about “genitals” are the ones who don't like gender reveal parties.
The people who like those parties are not celebrating the genitalia, they are celebrating the excitement of pregnancy and discovering something about the mysterious future-person who is to become one of the most important people in the world to them.
And in spite of all the modern-day understandings of gender, the vast majority of parents-to-be are still excited and thrilled to find out if their baby is a boy or a girl whether it happens at birth or before birth.
My guy, lots of people ragging on you, but from how you describe her reaction to when you need naps “too bad deal with it” your instructions to her in that context isn’t condescending it’s specific because she doesn’t respect it when you want to nap. And if you legit do the majority of the housework (that includes childcare) and she doesn’t work, your relationship doesn’t sound healthy at all. Probably time to go to couples therapy.
If men don’t want to be on the hook for child support, they have many, many options to prevent pregnancy in the first place.
Good news is you can ease your mind by doing absolutely nothing. Like never engage in any communication with her ever again. She’s a joke in your mind now. Go live your life.
You could arrange transportation before you go. Carpool maybe? Drive yourself if you aren't drinking. Could you have left the party earlier? Why should he sacrifice his sleep for you to go to a party? Are your needs more important than his?
YTA for putting your needs for outings above your BFs need to sleep, and not looking into alternatives. Did it occur to you not to go out if it isn't safe from beginning to end? Can you make the outings safer? Change the time? Contact different taxi companies to find out the security measures in place, and maybe one you are comfortable with.
You are an adult and should be able to problem solve on your own. I get the wanting to be treated as a delicate flower, or a damsel in distress. It feels nice to have someone treat us that way. It isn't reality for most women though.
We got engaged after 6 months but I was 39 and he was 45. Meh, it happens.
Keep going, 3rd time's the charm, right?
STD tests immediately.
DNA tests if you have kids.
Lawyer.
Pregnancy nose is no joke and second hand smoke for babies is absolutely the worst. Quite for good and don’t go back to any form.
The path is off, it shows a straight line there and back to work so to say. Like she jumped ther and back to work and the home.
Yah the watch was picking up activity all right
Google messes up, often. That’s why I don’t use it to get around.
Open the window and sleep with a second blanket. End of story
It’s a pretty big lie and you are still thinking about staying with this person still? What else has he lied to you about?
I had a boyfriend like that. Never met ONE SINGLE PERSON in his life, and we were together for over a year. For the first six months I didn’t care. But what did bother me was what happened when I started asking to meet people. He made EVERY KIND of excuse, which I didn’t like.
I gave him an ultimatum. Either he introduces me to someone (actually anyone that he knew), or I was going to break up with him. He stuck to his guns and so did I. We broke up, and at NO POINT did he relent.
I was sad at the time, but this all fitted into what was beginning to reveal itself as a very manipulative, secretive nature (yes-absolutely gaslighting! In fact, I think you could hardly get away with this kind of behaviour without resorting to gaslighting). I knew it meant something about him that made him a person who it was best to get away from. I haven’t regretted it since.
When you meet someone more “normal”, if you’re like me, you’ll look back on this relationship as an oddity. “How on Earth did I get persuaded to put up with that?”, I think.
Well… If she's the type of person that will destroy his marriage, maybe she they type of person you shouldn't trust…
I mean, oral sex is still sex…
But, maybe it's just because I'm older now, I wouldn't really give a fuck. They had a fling, it is what it is. As long as they aren't still flirting or wanting to date or whatever, then it's in the past, and apart from sexual health issues, it can stay in the past.
7 years tho? Are you sure you’re compatible because at some point assuming you want a traditional type of relationship you have to move in together. Do you want to get married to him eventually?
The questions you’re having doesn’t seem normal for a 7 year relationship. Not saying your wrong but I question your compatibility.
I love the part “he turns into a different person when drunk”. If you accept this then cheating doesnt count while drunk. What are you worries about?
Or maybe I don't have a proper distinction between personal and professional relationships since we do work together…..so I'm taking it personally like he kinda betrayed me hahaah……
Or maybe I don't have a proper distinction between personal and professional relationships since we do work together…..so I'm taking it personally like he kinda betrayed me hahaah……
She was a stranger in thier home
he did not tell roommate and roommate only knew a stranger was thier.
With todays home invasions she pulled the gun for safety .then after learning who she was she apologized .
Yes it is scary but not as scary as having your door kicked in and nen coming in with guns and killing anyone home..or worse beating you and raping you over and over and if hubbys home beating him and forcing him to watch..then killing him.
Op needs to talk to the guy and roommate.
And hopefully get her a concealed weapons permit too. .