No but I’ve worked a lot on trying to change myself and I can normally convince myself to calm down when my thoughts start racing about a partners past relationships
i sent him a text like this now, his response “Does this make you happy or something? Bringing up the man i’m not anymore. Does that make you wet?” idk what to do anymore
You might be one of the few people she feels like that cares for her, rain or clear skies, that isn't related to her.
That being said, I would recommend telling her that you're disturbed by her choices in relationships and it bothers you due to your morals. You will be there for her as a friend, but not a friend that will engage with her on her sexual and romantic issues/drama/conversation. You have your boundaries and they need to be respected if this friendship is to continue.
If she throws a fit, then you can't say that you didn't warn her and it shows that she ultimately cares more for you as a conversationalist, and less as a friend.
You're better off without. It's never worth your time to be with someone who doesn't view you as an equal (and who gets so upset over something that happened before them)
Considering his emotions and opinions is okay…to an extent. Your emotions and opinions are also valid, and he’s acting like a victim of your trauma. You do have a voice, sweetie. It might be buried deep within, but it’s there—I suggest you let it out before you’re hurt again. And if you still struggle to find your voice, I guarantee loads of internet strangers on this thread will help you find the right words. Be strong. Be confident. Be heard.
Hahahahaha tell him to fuck all the way off.
No but I’ve worked a lot on trying to change myself and I can normally convince myself to calm down when my thoughts start racing about a partners past relationships
i sent him a text like this now, his response “Does this make you happy or something? Bringing up the man i’m not anymore. Does that make you wet?” idk what to do anymore
Here's the thing, bud.
You might be one of the few people she feels like that cares for her, rain or clear skies, that isn't related to her.
That being said, I would recommend telling her that you're disturbed by her choices in relationships and it bothers you due to your morals. You will be there for her as a friend, but not a friend that will engage with her on her sexual and romantic issues/drama/conversation. You have your boundaries and they need to be respected if this friendship is to continue.
If she throws a fit, then you can't say that you didn't warn her and it shows that she ultimately cares more for you as a conversationalist, and less as a friend.
Sounds like a misogynistic hypocrite to me.
You're better off without. It's never worth your time to be with someone who doesn't view you as an equal (and who gets so upset over something that happened before them)
Considering his emotions and opinions is okay…to an extent. Your emotions and opinions are also valid, and he’s acting like a victim of your trauma. You do have a voice, sweetie. It might be buried deep within, but it’s there—I suggest you let it out before you’re hurt again. And if you still struggle to find your voice, I guarantee loads of internet strangers on this thread will help you find the right words. Be strong. Be confident. Be heard.