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Room for on-line sex video chat POPPY_XO
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Birth Date: 1989-06-16
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
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Date: September 16, 2022
Actors: POPPY XO
There's nothing wrong with open relationship per se. She doesn't sound like the type of person who's able to handle it responsibly. In fact it sounds like she has a crush on this new friend and cant follow on her impulsive desire to fuck him without feeling bad about herself for being a cheat.
Nobody wants to be the bad guy, so she looks towards open relationship to make it okay thing to do.
I'd suggest hitting her with question about her feelings towards this friend. Unless she has some very good reaction to it I'd seriously consider whether you want to be in relationship where stuff like this happens.
And I'm saying that as someone who's polyamoric and made my partner feel like I cheated on her, so I'm not projecting here. The behavior signs she shows are seriously not good.
Do you think your feelings for James has contributed to the demise of your marriage?
I'm sorry but you need to put everything on hold. including sex, until you figure out your next steps. There is no reasonable way that she met a guy and within hours/days was using such familiar intimate terms and photos so quickly. If that timeline is actually true, then that's an unbelievable lurch towards another relationship.
You can't assume she hasn't had sex with him, or others, so you both should get tested. She needs to take a pregnancy test. She also has to document her affair, to write-out her thoughts and the timeline, and you should gather your own evidence. No matter if you decide to reconcile or not, you should speak with a lawyer. You need to protect yourself and definitely look to family and friends to help you through this.
On reconciliation, she is obviously not remorseful in the least. Reconciliation need two to work and while you can forgive, the onus is on her to be remorseful and do everything she can to regain your trust. It'll takes years to mend this and you should both know that having children shouldn't be an option for a long time.
I hope you're able to see a path forward, but know that moving on from this person is not a failure on your part, she just wasn't ready to truly be your partner and you deserve to be with someone you can trust.
20 and 26, I read it the same way as you at first lol, but the title is referring to his age and her sister's age (f27). OP is 32