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squirt untill i get empty [Multi Goal]
Date: September 28, 2022
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squirt untill i get empty [Multi Goal]
Is it normal to get a restraining order 'just' because of cheating?
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I don’t know where you live!, but the American southwest is one of my favorites. Navajo Nation or something. But it doesn’t have to be so major. Look at properties like 2 hours away you can drive to for a couple nights and just create memories together.
The relationship has been good, he’s a good guy that is caring and gives whatever he’s interested 110%. However, he’s never given me or the relationship that 110%. So I see where the “you’re amazing” comes from cause yeah he is. But when it comes from my side of the story all I see is someone who forgets to tell me he loves me for weeks and hates messaging often.
It sounds like he digs you and wants you in bed. Perhaps the relate has grown further than friends over the years. If you are close you could talk about it not just joke. Tell him the sex joke and slap is confusing not helpful. To make it clear what your relate is or what it could be. Or he may ask you on a date when the time is right. As long as you are comfortable with it is ok. If you dont want sex or other physical intimacy and the relate is close enough for you then that's it. It doesn't have to be anything else.
You can only change yourself not others. You are enabling him by supporting him.
You will be “throwing away” every day you are staying with him not the days/years you have already been together.
You are learning how to do relationship. You are adulting. He is not.
You can try to make this work but it takes two and he is not trying.
Learn from this and move on.
Yes, he’s exhibiting controlling behaviour. If he’s like this and you’re not together, imagine what he would be like if you were.
He’s also attempting to make you feel guilty through making you feel like you’re responsible for his mental and emotional well being by the looks of it, this is a classic form of manipulation.. please don’t allow him to.
Are you a feminist?
I ask because if yes it would make you overly sensitive to behaviors that very possibly don't exist!
Some people look for fault and manufacture it when they come up empty.
I'm not trying to trigger you or any of the man-haters who will likely attack my response but instead attempting to help you to understand why you see this and he doesn't.
It's entirely possible you wrong, and you are overreacting, it's also just as possible you are spot on 100% correct in your assessment of him.
I would bet though, that the truth is somewhere in the middle. The valuable part of this post is that you are talking to him about it.
How long have the two of you been together? You say “partner” are you married? Is this a new appraisal of him or has it been growing?
So much to unpack!
My oldest sister hates men, she is just full of anger towards them and never fails to blame virtually every problem found in the world big and small on a man or men in general. She is by no coincidence also a lesbian so she is clearly following some stereotype handbook. This experience has made me overly sensitive to this type of behavior and has absolutely impacted the way I deal with women. I do approach most with suspicion.
I bring this up as an example of how things sway our ability to be impartial and fair. I am not perfect but I recognize in myself biases. My hope is that this self-awareness also allows me to treat people fairly. It's an ongoing process.
Your girlfriend has a very strong sense of entitlement. If you let her mother move into the rental you will never see a dime in rent and you will never get rid of her.
You offered a very reasonable compromise and the fact that your girlfriend got mad at you over this means she only sees you as a bank and not an equal partner.
Well, OP, it sounds as though your wife is trying to sneak off the reservation for some forbidden goods. Is this how a woman truly interested in a sanctimonious, monogamous bond with for life should act? I know you know that there is something deeply wrong with this. The question is, if she’s capable of doing this, then what else is she capable of? As another commenter said, the problem isn’t the other guy – it’s her!
You should be questioning your commitment with this woman. Someone who has respect for a monogamous relationship would not be doing this. So, what you can do is demand that she cut this person off. If she doesn’t do so (that is, she either refuses or she just does it behind your back), then walk away. You don’t have to put up with her bullshit. You DESERVE someone that will love you and adore you and treasure you, and not do this kind of crap.
Life is too short for this, OP. You must stand up for yourself and be present, or you will be played like a fiddle. This is, unfortunately, the world we live! in.
Best of luck to you, OP.
While I agree with your wife. (It’s gross) she went to far. Btw. No one can make you leave
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It does sound like this relationship has run its course. You two aren’t really that compatible, and if you stay, you’ll always feel like something is missing.
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Your right making this post I feel like a idiot I know Thanks tho
If he bothers you again bring it up to management. But if he's leaving you alone just let it be for now
i know he's on the same page, he's just learning to say what he feels more because it's hot for him to do that, i don't want it to be a super fancy soliloquy but i'd like it to not be a list, id like it to sound somewhat mature and more put together, like maybe a movie confession cause that feels put together and less robotic if that makes sense.
God how selfish are you? You’re total trash to be honest going by your post and zero morals. Why did you also mention he kicked out your 7 year old, he kicked you out after your dropped your pants for someone else and messed up your daughters home. Hope he’s out sleeping with someone else now.
You are saying that now. Then there will be another time and another time and another time. You can't keep your legs crossed. He deserves better. You aint worth the time and effort.
Well, turns out you are not enough.
If he still wants to do these things, knowing how bad you feel, and knowing you’re not fully on board, he is being selfish.
I’m a traditionalist for relationships. I just don’t think open relationships are that great of an idea. Literally for every reason you described.
You are putting yourself out of what you want to appease the sexual desires of someone else.
I could never imagine my(33m) girlfriend (29f) being with someone else the way I am with her now. That would break me.
I have such a strong bond with her even though we are a newer couple. I adore her.
I seriously feel so bad for your situation.
It always feels like one you open that door to an open relationship, it just never closes the way it used to.
Yes, I actually WOULD be saying this. But, you don't know me, so it's not surprising that you are just electing to attack me. It's always the way.
But I'm not stalking her. During the past months I'm trying to avoid her as much as possible and I rarely see her during the week.
He needs to just start doing it. If she's scared to reveal, then him just saying it will be okay probably isn't enough.
Read “Why Does He Do This?” by Lundy Bancroft
Good, continue to not smoke. Even if the intimacy doesn't return your wife will really appreciate it. Also it's one of the best things you can do for your health
Extra extra ick for sending mean messages afterwards, too.
You’ve been trying for 7 years.
She admitted to it… she said it herself 'i kissed a guy”… someone who didnt kiss a guy would say “he kissed me and i moved away” not “i fucked upand kissed a guy” she lied and she put herself in a bad situation. Can you trust someone like that?
Okay, nonce.
Youre absolutely rushing her. One month into dating as a virgin is really fast
Well if he wants to not work and contribute nothing to society then he can live! on the street. (I am not saying all homeless people contribute nothing, simply referring to this guy in particular). Benefits are for people down on their luck or have a disability, not people too lazy to get off their ass and get a fucking job
She’s been super clear the whoooole time and everytime that she’s not wanting to date anyone.
These guys and humans in her life want to talk and hang out with her. She wants to just hang out with everyone and have fun it sounds like which is what I did Freshman year of college.
YOU seem to have have serious feelings for her (she’s probably fun to hang with and pretty??) and if you can’t hang with her as a friend then yeah, back off lol.
T is ridiculous. Is she in love with your boyfriend?
Seek therapy, or your relationship may have struggles coming.
See that is my problem because we have different boundaries as people and he is affectionate with everyone but why did he pull me aside as we said goodbye to tell me how pretty I look. It's little moments like those that I tend to overthink because for me that seems strange but maybe for him it's just another Saturday. So I could Definitely be interpreting things wrong and I don't wanna make things wierd by saying things
If this actually happened, you need to start talking to a lawyer about how to get her off of things that she has no intention of working with because the law does not give a fuck about grooming or her not paying her share of anything. You will still be on the hook for your apartment and car, and creditors don't care what your personal circumstances are. Start there, ideally with something in writing from her “having no intention on coming back to the US”.
You can also feel free to report her to the UK Visa and Immigration authorities once her visa is up, but depending on where you're from, this might not matter as she can just exit and come back in on a tourist visa and it resets the clock.
And finally, in terms of getting over the incredible, overwhelming heartache, living well is the best revenge. The type of gal to flee her home and relationship for an underaged relationship, to do so in front of and around friends, and to live at the boy's parent's home is not the type of gal who's going to have a successful life in the near or long term.
That sounds reasonable!
Thanks