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You haven't seen this person in four years, he is “so far away” and you don't know each other well – why do you think he needs information about your trip ahead of time?
Your mother knows? Then why does he need to know? (He doesn't.)
He might tell you not to go? OK. He's allowed to say that. You can still go. He is not in charge of your actions, choices, or decisions.
Clear the air? she already have proof that she disrespects him from the start of the relationship, and she cheated on him at least once but most likely more times, and that's only in the few months. What air is there to clear? She will only use this, clearing the air, to gaslight him and make him feel like an asshole for reading the phone.
Yes some. Most do
This is a very challenging topic to navigate. Full disclosure, I'm a guy, happily married, and my wife took my last name. That's what I preferred, but if she wanted to keep her last name then I wouldn't have made an issue of it. I tell you that so that you know I'm not here with an inherent progressive bias for lack of a better term.
I think if the both of you have a strong attachment to your last names, then you should keep them. I think you offered a reasonable compromise, but that doesn't work for him. That's also fine.
The only “issue” (I put it in quotes because I really don't want to say it's an issue) I have with you is when you end this by saying that joining last names is a sign of togetherness and your love. I'm assume you literally mean hyphenating them, which again, is a reasonable compromise and you were the only one making an effort to find one. Having said that, if you see last names as a sign of togetherness, you could also choose to take his.
It's otherwise not that big of a deal. It could get annoying with children, but even then it's still not that big of a deal. I know that, because I dealt with that as a kid. Good luck.
It’s time for couples counseling. He can’t just nope out of having serious discussions with you. You’re at an age where you NEED to plan things. And if his reaction to you asking is rage then you need to find someone to help you have more productive discussions.
I would also start figuring out how to break up equitably. If he’s not even willing to talk about the future at this point, I’d have to assume he just doesn’t see one with you. Selling the house, splitting the money and moving is likely in your future. Hoping I’m wrong but I’d be prepared if I were you.