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hot show #teen #squirt #interactivetoys [GOAL MET]
Date: November 18, 2022
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hot show #teen #squirt #interactivetoys [GOAL MET]
Break up. You know no matter what you can never trust her again. She cheated on you with this guy for a while and likely recently. Based on your response it also sounds like she was talking to him as recently as this week. Someone who is remorseful cuts that person out like a plague. They ensure they never communicate with them again after the problem. That's almost always possible EVEN when you work together. Make sure you take breaks at different times and avoid work projects together whenever humanly possible.
So end of the day you can never really trust her and if you get married you'll never stop wanting to check up on her. Just move on and let her go. It's hurts and it's naked but you got this.
You need to move on. You are making progress, leave the past in the past and stop thinking you can get closure. She obviously triggers something in you which is not good for you so don't go back and put yourself in harms way again.
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This has been going on for a couple months now. But randomly my bf (35m) wakes me (43f) up saying the bed is shaking. He thinks I’m doing it. In the beginning I thought maybe I was shaking my foot in my sleep. But as he kept waking me up, I started staying awake thinking I’d let him fall asleep first, so it wouldn’t disturb him. But instead he would just get more irritated and frustrated, tossing and turning, start sighing loudly and making comments under his breath. He would eventually lay his hand on my shoulder or leg, after a minute or so he’d say, “ your shaking the bed”. But I had been laying there awake the whole time and knew I hadn’t been moving. I also hadn’t felt anything. Nothing but him flopping around. It’s been like this for at least 3 months. It’s also totally random. Before last night, it had been about 2 weeks since he woke me up like this. Then other times it’ll be several nights in a row. But every time this happens he will wake me up several times a night, at least 3 sometimes more.
This is starting to cause problems, for several reasons. I get up at 4:30 every morning for work. (He gets up at 9) This is really effecting my quality and quantity of sleep. I’m getting really sleepy in the middle of the day and I drive for a living. Getting heavy eyed sleepy is dangerous for me. Closing my eyes for just a few seconds too long could be the death of me or others.
I’m also starting to get mad about it. He’s waking me up to accuse me of shaking the bed! First of all, even if I was that’s what you woke me up for? Really? Second, I know it’s not me shaking the bed because I’ve laid awake not moving. Lastly, I’ve laid awake not moving and don’t feel the bed shaking. It’s also not pitch black in the bedroom, he would be able to visually see if I was causing the bed to shake.
I don’t know what to do. What is going on here? Is this some kind of sleep disorder? If not a sleep disorder or medical problem, what would be the purpose of doing this?
Thanks for taking the time to read this. If any additional information is needed or clarification, just let me know. Thanks again.
Cuz he loves negging on his partner; makes him feel gooood.
Basically, you're cheating. It's unlikely many people would see it otherwise but that's what you're doing.
You made a lot of little choices time and time again that put you where you are. I'm sure there was at least one moment where you could have set this guy right and told him 'hey, I'm married. I know we work in an intense environment and it can really mess with our emotions but I am married and I love my husband and I do not want to be anything more than friends. Period.'
Friendly flirting is fine. You didn't do that.
You're in the beginning stages of a physical affair. You're far along in an emotional affair.
Just be clear with yourself here – YOU did this. YOU made these choices. It didn't 'just happen.' YOU made the choices each time you were presented with a choice to take things further.
Should you tell your husband? I don't know. Should you shut it down? Yes. You should shut it down. Tell the guy not to touch you again. You're just friends, if that now. You are work colleagues and you should conduct yourself professionally at work. Should you change jobs? Maybe, can you do so in a way that doesn't negatively impact your life too much? Perhaps.
If you love and respect your husband, telling him the truth is probably a thing. You need some individual therapy to help you navigate this. Then you need to figure out how you move forward.
I just don’t understand bringing up all these heart warming texts about our time together etc., and then if i want to reach out I am welcome to do it
Dude all the alt girls now a days want the artsy guys lmao it’s backwards
Because a kid having a stable household is the better option. This man doesn’t want anything serious with OP, so why would he reconsider just because she’s pregnant? If she wants to tell him, do it after the holidays. If she wants to keep it, give him an out don’t make him commit. I think OP wants something to happen out of this and that’s not the way to go about it.
He's deleting her nudes
I don't understand why you are with this person. Leave, now.
Definitely the right call. You don't want someone who's is creating double standards that early in a relationship. She was creating a dynamic where she could essentially be rude to you and you're not able to reciprocate.
You were dating for only a month. Easy enough to move on.
Thank you
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You have been enabling a lazy man for five years
Ask her. The worse that can happen is that she says no, in which case you will be exactly where you are now, no loss. Do tell her that you understand if she says no and that you want to remain friends if she's not interested, but than when she asked you were in another place mentally, which is true, and back then it was not the right time but you feel it is now, which is also true.
I would say you're correct, he sounds very insecure. I understand what it's like when you love someone, you will do anything to keep them but everyone deserves someone who can make them happy. If he couldn't make you orgasm but was willing to learn and adapt then that would be different but it sounds like he doesn't care at all about your needs. His ego is bruised right now, give him some time to calm down and see if he changes his mind on his own. If I was you I would be evaluating whether this is a person I want to be with. Maybe you shouldn't of lied but it's clear to see that you did so out of kindness and not malice, you seem like a very considerate person and he should be equally considerate to you.
Go to a couples counselor. Talk to her about all this. You need to stick it out for at least another 13 years for those kids. So figure out how to make it work.
He absolutely needs a sleep study to rule out sleep apnea. Insist on this. He can do it at home with a simple portable device he can put on himself (my husband did this). So ask your doctor for a referral to a sleep specialist. Sleep apnea can be life threatening. In the meantime, sleep apart, as has been suggested, if you have the room for it.
Thank you for this! I wasn't expecting a comment with so much thought put to it. I just really wanted to vent out. This will be very useful ?
No I’m sorry. I gotta stop making assumptions based on Reddit posts. But my first husband is a retired firefighter and both my sons graduated the fire academy. My life has been surrounded by Fireman. My first husband now owns a company that provides paramedic/ ambulance services at wildfires across the US. I think they are mostly amazing people but I’ve known some cheaters among them.
This is abusive behavior. Ditch his ass.
It’s over. This marriage is over. Start divorce.
Thanks for the advice. The break up would be over video call. The letter is to sort out my feelings.
To clarify, We were not together for the full 4 years… December 2018-end of august 2019 we dated then he dumped me due to family issues
After 8 months I couldn’t get over him. Decided to talk to him again. April 2020 we started dating again. I visited his place every single week since he didn’t have a car. I wanted to tell everyone about our relationship but he kept quite about it since it was during Covid and he didn’t want people know we were hanging out…
April 2020-June 2021 – I went to see him every week. He wouldn’t tell friends or family that we were dating again. He claimed that there was a lot of things he was dealing with. End of June, I finally confronted him and told him I couldn’t put up with it anymore. He finally told everyone about me and apologize to me. I accepted the apology.
September 2021 he moved away. Saying that he wanted to go back to school/be with his mum and family since it would save him a lot of money. We started doing long distance from then till now.
May 2022 I went to visit him
July 2022 I bought plane tickets for him to come visit
Dec 2022 I bought plane tickets for him to come visit
Our relationship has been the best it’s been. But he’s not going to school atm since he couldn’t get in. He told me it would break his mum’s heart if he were to leave her and come back.
He lied to my mum that he was going to school when he came to visit me back in December.
I overheard him talking to his uncle about attending classes when I know he isn’t in school…. He is just working at a min wage job atm….
I don’t believe that he’s told his mum that he’s not in school atm….
Even now I have to ask him to do his taxes multiple times (he hasn’t filed his taxes since 2017 and I messaged/asked his friend to help him) and urge him to do micro certifications that would help him in the field he wants to be in.
I’m pretty tired of always doing everything even though I can tell he’s loving me more than ever now…
yeah you’re right. i not feel like guilt trip but it probably gets annoying constantly nagging about it.
I’ve been thinking about a comment you made, saying that I’m a fish in bed, can you clarify what you meant?
The conversation should flow from there, be sure to mention everything you have in your post, and be sure to clarify what it is he is expecting or wanting to add/ try.
And you certainly don’t sound like a fish.
Maybe I should’ve mentioned that I online in the Bible Belt so it is extremely common to wait until actual marriage to move in with someone (which I’m not doing) ? just some perspective so y’all don’t need to be assholes.
Maybe try spending some time talking with him in a group setting. Then you can determine his level of interest in you. If he's married or otherwise taken, it will save you the embarrassment of being rejected on your cold approach.
She definitely could have said it more gracefully. There are times where we all wish we said things differently. I’m telling your partner that you’re not attracted to them anymore is a difficult conversation no matter. You’ve been together a long time, so at least she told you rather than secretly resenting you for years and then ultimately cheating on you.
It probably has more to do with you, not taking care of yourself rather than your physical form. She maybe couldn’t verbalize that. When you met, it sounds like you were really active and took care of yourself and that changed. I’m sure deep down you probably didn’t like that change either. Use this as a wake up call and see if things get better.
I called her out once when she”joked” about me questioning my sexuality, I'm straight, she's lesbian, and she said she was just joking and I froze up I wish I could have said that but she always tries saying”I just have a dark sense of humor” “my sense of humor is just different” sort of thing.
I'll tell you one thing, they need to adjust your meds.