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Room for on-line sex video chat Nikki_Mimimi
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Birth Date: 1993-08-17
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Date: November 16, 2022
OP is 12 apparently
You can’t generalise all men in that category.
YOU ARENT A BAD GF FOR NOT “PROVIDING SEX FOR HIM” he is a POS for cheating on you constantly you are doing yourself a disservice. The guy doesn’t care about you and never will, please please dump him.
I completely agree. I've been SAed in the past… and my boyfriend LOVES sex. It's something he needs but I don't feel comfortable. I've gotten, mostly over my attack, and he understands and sees that.
But we haven't been intimate physically, in over three years. And he hasn't been intimate with another woman since then. He tries, Gently… but I always get scared and turtle up. He loves me for me, and it sounds like he's using you… one of those Chad types. “Hey! My girl allows me to fu k other women! Haha! Cool right?” (I beat vomited typing that blegh!) But don't let him use yiu..you… stay strong… and find what single life has to offer.
Stay safe and know thT we care about you… and want to see you get better ❤️?❤️?
Lol.
The honeymoon phase can last up to a year
Am I misreading this? Your girlfriends co-worker gave her a ring for free that he cld get because he has a connection?
His a 60 year old man who gifted someone prob the age of his grandkids something he could attain with little or no effort…and at xmas.
Would you feel the same way if it was a 60 year old female colleague?
You trust your GF. If this guy makes a pass she can say “no thank you”. I highly doubt he will.
You have a record of overreacting in your relationship. You said you blocked her twice. I think (and you say) you are over thinking this!
Ps. You don't get to decide if she gets to wear her ring.
We are both 16 now im about to turn 17
I didn’t read past the first sentence. You’re both way too young get get married. Wait until both of you are at least 25.
If you want all the above 'this' to continue, hit her back. If you want someone who cares for you, and some self-respect, continue healing. It's v nude to decide, but the decision is worth it, either way
Probably why he has to date much younger women
It's not a good sign if you are having doubts this early in a relationship, coupled with the LDR aspect I'd say move on.
?? I guess the secret is to make more money
Guys like this do not change. They get uglier, messier, nastier.
Look up the cycle for intimate partner violence. He is psychologically abusive and using your victimization to control you. This shirt cannot be salvaged. And sometimes it's better to wear no shirt than stained with shit and infested with lice.
The number one reason for divorce is money issues.
You and your wife need to have a serious chat about Lily. Her mental health is not your responsibility and her coping mechanisms aren’t in any way reflective of you and your wife.
If you two are both on edge in your home because you are on constant suicide watch, it is probably best to get her booked into a facility.
It is worth while knowing that transgender suicide rates don’t decrease after transition according to the very little data on the subject so you cannot hold yourselves responsible for her long term happiness and success.
I would recommend getting in touch with a therapist for her and have her moved into a facility with mental health professionals to give her round the clock care to the standard that you aren’t able to offer.
Make sure to visit regularly and foot the bill if it will keep your conscience clean but do not maintain daily contact so that you can rebuild your marriage.
Is this the life you want? This relationship is making you miserable.
Leave him
As I’ve said many times now, it’s not that different. People don’t magically acquire the maturity of a 30 yr old when they turn 19. Yes, it may be weird because legally one is an adult and one is a minor, but two teens dating isn’t really all that weird. He may have questionable interests, but he’s not the pedo people are acting like he is.
Ask him to marry you. Then you’ll get a clear answer. If he dodges the question, that is an answer in itself. I would not waste time on someone like that.
And OP also says that her sister drinks a lot. She’s no lightweight.
You’re making assumptions based on incomplete information.
Try being objective in this sub and only use the information given.
I broke up with an ex before who I was ready to marry and spend the rest of my life with, mostly because of how toxic the relationship was. It was nude as hell and I thought about her for months afterword, and eventually even got back with her. But let me tell you, it's WAY worse the second time around, especially if you broke up under bad circumstances. That starry eyed facade is completely gone at that point and the toxic traits were even more exacerbated. You just have to mentally act like she is DEAD to you. I mean literally, like she died in a car accident or something and mentally understand that no matter what you have to chance to bring that relationship back. Time will heal these scars trust me
Respectfully, he’s not as oblivious as you think. He knows you aren’t okay with this friendship. You shouldn’t lie to him about it, but since you are, and some part of him knows it, he’s going to maintain it and he isn’t going to establish any boundaries because you’ve let him believe that you’re fine with everything.
You need to be honest with him if you’re serious about staying with him. She knows what she’s doing, but it’s his job to manage this friendship in a way that doesn’t make his partner uncomfortable. Honestly, this friendship should’ve ended when that crush developed. His actions are already very telling. He thinks you’re just jealous and doesn’t want to admit that she’s overstepping.
If you ask him to end the friendship, what follows will also tell you all you need to know. If he cuts her off, either he’s going to still talk to her in secret or he’s going to respect your wishes and your relationship. If the former, leave. If the latter, then go from there.
I don’t know, I feel like making other people “gather” information or rather, spy on her, would be breaking her privacy even more than me just asking what’s wrong, both feel very wrong to me at the moment. And I don’t feel she is going for another person, she is not like that. I’ve been with her this long, I should know.
For real though, if I’ve even had the small doubt it was something like her leaving me for another one, I would just accept it and move on, but I’m worried because I don’t think it’s that.
Where is your self respect.
I do want to stay, but I also wish there was something I could do to help, or at least harm reduction.
I do want to stay, but I also wish there was something I could do to help, or at least harm reduction.
I do want to stay, but I also wish there was something I could do to help, or at least harm reduction.
You need to find a way to let it go. Otherwise, it's just going to hurt you and hurt your relationship. Your wife was honest with you, that counts for something. Was it gentle? Not really, and you should address that with her. Go to therapy together if you don't want to have the conversation alone.
I think you’ve misunderstood what I mean by execute the decision. He’s told me he wants to break up while also simultaneously saying he wants to remain in contact, see each other in the future, watches my snaps/sends me snaps, comes over to talk to me then initiates cuddling. All of those things are the opposite action of breaking up and it confuses me and he’s basically putting me in the position that I have to be the one to cut him off and execute his break up decision. Whenever I talk about it, he tells me how painful it is, how heart broken he is thinking about it, how he has “stress ulcers” from the thought of never seeing me again. I’m really not sure how you can’t see how confusing that is and why I feel like he’s basically forcing me to be the one to actually follow through with a full on break up. I’m really resentful at this point that he’s put me in this position. Sure, after all these comments, I’ll just take the action and give him what he says he wants but can’t do himself even if it pisses me off that I have to do it when it wasn’t my decision. But I will because this is stressing me the fuck out.
I don't even think the specific text matters, does it? Your gut is telling you this relationship is crossing boundaries. Your wife should not be continuing to constantly text a man you're uncomfortable with.
Why is her relationship with this other man more important than your feeling of security in your marriage?