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Naomy-taylor Public Chat Channel
Date: October 20, 2022
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Bro brutal honesty here, it's not gunna work out ?♂️ especially if she has your ex and you having a kid in her head ? to me she sounds straight up crazy and thinks life should revolve round her but I could be wrong ?♂️
You haven't done anything wrong and you don't deserve to be treated that way. You were single when you hooked up with someone else. He has no right to invade your privacy and continue to berate you and accuse you of cheating when you have done nothing wrong. Get out of that relationship and quickly because he is only going to get worse about his untrue accusations and resentment. You deserve better
All I can say is that you should never beg someone to treat you the way you want to be treated. You mentioned in a comment that he told you how he spoiled his exes but doesn’t spoil you, I know this feeling. It feels like he’s just settling with you and not putting forth any effort because he does t have to. That’s not something that will ever change no matter how you try to explain it to him.
Filing in small claims court on your own, without legal representation, has almost zero chance.
The odds this guy can prove, legally, including providing relevant case law to support his contentions, in a courtroom are zero.
If he wins a partial judgment, somehow, he’s only won 10% of the Barrie because he needs a lawyer to handle the rest of the process of seizing records, determine what assets can be taken (of which the partner will have none, we already know this), then go through the protracted process of keeping up with the person’s location, jobs, and sending letters demanding payment.
All to a person who almost without question will never make enough to cover the legal costs at the rate of garnishment.
No lawyer is going to do that work on a retainer or contingency, they will be charging $200+ an hour.
Make that make sense, financially.
Depends on the guy, some guys like to be told how great they’re how big haha sometimes it’s nice to just hear her moan and make her own noises. That’s what I like. Some guys like dirty talk. But it sounds like he is needing something more to climax. I could be wrong but after 3 years this is just starting it’s either he needs something to help his climax or someone told him to try it
That's so sad and disrespectful. Please take some time and weigh the pros and cons on the relationship, it doesn't sound like he's willing to put the idea to rest.
One of my past lovers had an enormous dick. Long AND thick and I totally wasn't expecting that the first time. I've had issues with my cervix bleeding if it gets banged too hot (this from normal sized dudes, and before y'all get concerned, I get regular paps, no cancer, my cervix is just very vascular and I was perimenopausal when it started happening).
That being said, his monster cock never made me bleed, ever, because he was a caring and gentle lover. As a tip, woman on top means she can control the depth and timing of entry. That has become my favorite position and has eliminated any bleeding from bruising my cervix. Use plenty of lube, don't be shy about it.
Good luck!
If I were you I'd spend some time gathering my thoughts and thinking very carefully about how to approach this conversation with him. Be able to quickly call on examples of her biting the hand that feeds, not respecting rules, and making everyone's life miserable with her ingratitude. Ask him why he thinks anything will realistically be different this time. Try to help him see that by “bailing her out” he is removing any incentive for her to improve her own situation or treat him with respect.
You can't be the one to decide this issue yourself because you're either going to make yourself miserable or undermine the bond between you and your husband. It needs to be a joint decision, which means trying to get him to see reality instead of being blinded by guilt or whatever else is prompting him to continue to enable her disrespectful behavior.
What redeeming qualities does he have that outweigh emotional abuse?
Goodness me, this is deranged. There's an ocean between a married couple not having sex – and him demanding that she fulfil every sexual want. She's clearly not happy so should leave.
As I sit alone in my apartment I wonder if the qualities I am thinking about, are just common females and I was being too critical. I had a coworker say (sounds like every female I know). Am I asking for a unicorn female?
How are you almost 30, seriously? Stop listening to misogynists like your bro at the office, stop calling us “females”. No, this is not typical behaviour for women. You were right to dump this toxic person.
Why are they so damn determined for him to come to the US to work as if Canada is a 3rd world country or something?
I dunno what they visualize when thinking of the US but this place sucks just as much as any other place.
It’s not really the “land of opportunity” anymore.
Your moms right. He chose to do that, you didn’t attempt to murder him. Block him and every relative of his and get the fuck away asap.
If it is important to you to have your own kids, then you accept her decision, respect her as a person, and end the relationship.
You snooped through his phone, woke him up at 5am, and accused him of cheating because he didn’t have any alarms set…? What does that have to do with him cheating? You’re psycho im sorry
He goes to work at 2pm. If I went to work at 2pm I wouldn’t set alarms lmao, it’s pretty easy to wake up before 1pm so I could make it to work.
I was just trying to help him set him his alarm to get up early in the morning
No you weren’t. Don’t lie to us, don’t lie to yourself. If that was all you wanted, you would’ve set his alarms, put down his phone, and let him keep sleeping. There’s no reason to wake him up and ask him why he forgot to set alarms
Past the time where you both sit and have a talk about each of your boundaries. It will help you grow together or find out if you are both just too far apart.
No matter how it goes, I wish you happiness
People are more multifaceted than an evil cheater.
Sure. That's kind of the point. People who behave like your friend will be shitty on way more facets than just the ones described here. Whatever excuses you accept for her behavior, she's 25. Old enough that her childhood trauma explains her actions, but does not excuse them.
It's easy for someone to say “age ain't nothin' but a number” but in reality, it can be a big deal. You got a 3 year old and you're looking to settle down and have more kids, that's totally fine. And it's understandable that you don't want to be with someone who's still trying to on-line it up with his roommates.
It sounds like you did the right thing in ending things before they got too serious. It's better to end things now then to be stuck in a relationship where both of you aren't on the same page. Plus, you're not a selfish person for ending things, you're looking out for yourself and your son.
As for feeling like you'll never find someone like him, that's just not true. There are plenty of great guys out there and you deserve to be with someone who's on the same page as you. Don't beat yourself up over this and give yourself some time to heal. And don't be afraid to put yourself out there again when you're ready.
Glad the comment hit home. It’s a bone-deep truth.
“You look good enough to fuck but not good enough for my baby.”
Run, run far away.
It took me more time to get over my first relationship than they've had since you left and started your recovery. Give them a couple years and stop thinking of their forgiveness as a marker of your recovery, because it's not. You did incredible damage to your wife and daughter, and you don't get a medal for never hitting them. Words stick, and you probably don't remember half of the nasty things you said to your family.
Make the breakup permanent. Don’t care how much she cries and begs, she was about to cheat and then physically assaulted you. Awful behavior.
Yeah messes up arbitrarily, sometimes it say I’m in the middle of the road, a few houses down or at the park, not exactly 1km away smack bang in the middle of a coworkers house, not just any coworker but one the wife was already suspected of having a thing for.
I can’t fathom how absolutely stupid someone would have to believe that this was just some random placement GPS glitch
Sounds like the two of you have different views on the relationship and where it’s going. Not gonna lie, this is a pretty shitty way for her to find out you don’t view her as a serious partner. Regardless, it’s your money and your house, and you need to level set with her about your views on the relationship. Sounds like a breakup is in your future.
The age is a silly comment but Meth is no joke especially with kids and at 29. This could go south very fast. Do everything to protect your kids a meth addicted mother will surely be one of the hardest things to overcome.
You’re a bit to relaxed about this if you ask me
Bro you’re literally asking if you should charge your homeless friend $200 a month for simply receiving his mail. If you’re even considering doing that it’s not a favor anymore lol.
He cheated on you big time, and trying to put this on you that this was what you asked.
I will straight away divorse, dont know about you.
You husband had a GREAT WONDERFUL SATISFYING SEX with another guy WITHOUT YOU.
You dont feel jealous or betrayed?.