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Date: October 10, 2022
Four months? Dude, just end it.
Leave him AND his gf alone. You keeping in contact will ruin their relationship.
I'm trying to be kind to him and the best case scenario I can think of is where she's actually asexual and there's no sexy times at all but they still have a strong pair bond. Often the asexual partner is OK with the sexual partner seeking another romantic partner to fulfil that side of their life.
BUT YOU DON'T WAIT A YEAR TO MENTION IT
That scenario is a first date discussion point.
I think you need more information on whether this other person is an asexual partner, a girlfriend or whatever and to find out from him where he thinks you fit into his life because you never know, she might be lovely and you could get on like a house on fire although the realist in me thinks that this is all going to crash and burn and you're going to break up.
If I were you, I'd be punting him out the door.
Just wanted to share my perspective as far as the “permanent” thing I see come up a lot with respect to abortion. Not that you’re wrong. It’s an important decision worth considering and is permanent.
But if you have this baby now, would you still decide to have one at a better time in three years? In five?
How many kids would you theoretically want at most? 3? Because you could do that at 25, 27, and 29 if you wanted. But would you make the same choice if you had an unplanned kid now?
The permanence of an abortion now can theoretically prevent pregnancies you would choose in the future. Just depending on you and how you live your life and what you want.
And honestly as far as his therapy goes, he’s nearing the end of his 20s and you’re still in your early twenties. He might fully and genuinely be on board with everything about why now isn’t a good time for you/you both. But personally he’s more ready for kids.
I wouldn’t mistake what may have been intended as “I wish we were both ready for kids now but I realize we’re not and that sucks but I can’t change reality.”
With,
“I really wish I could convince her not to have an abortion but I know that’s selfish or cruel so I don’t do what I desperately want to.”
They’re very different things.
But only he could really communicate that.
Seriously?