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OP is a woman but still extremely pathetic. Looking at her post history it looks like she cheated on her kids’ mom with this woman, left their mom for her, quickly started trying to blend families and has been having relationship trouble the entire time. Her kids are under 8 years old and she’s put them through all of this and wonders why they’re having behavioral issues.
Don't fix a thing. The chew crunch sloo spit etc guys have a heart attack on anyone they perceive to have loud mouths. So watch clockwork orange and get yourself a box of Cheerios it's going to be a good night.
I don‘t think you understood what I meant. He always says that whenever he goes out partying and I don‘t jump around like a 5 y.o. congratulating him, he says „I‘m not happy for him“. I have a huge problem with alcohol and parties but I still let him go there and wish him fun. I don‘t really like who he is right now you‘re right, I like who he could become. Someone who is understanding, listens, doesn‘t threaten me with violence and actually makes me feel like a priority.
P.s. it is also under her control to withhold herself from me if I visit my family. I cannot force her to act in a way. I am just very unhappy with the cards that are on top of the table
Your relationship works for him at present. He has no reason to want to change his status to “married” so he keeps moving the goalposts to keep you hanging on. I wouldn't waste anymore of my youth on this commitment phobic man.
What are the chances it will get back to him if you don't bring it up?
If it's low then it may be best to keep it to yourself to protect your marriage. I wouldn't risk divorce and disrupting your kid's life over a kiss. Sex is one thing but this, providing it was just one time, is comparatively minor. Put some distance between you and your friend. Maybe cut back on your social alcohol intake.
If there's a good chance he'll hear about it from your friend or others then own up to it right away. If he finds out from someone else it will probably be much worse than hearing it from you.
If you’re uncomfortable, don’t. I’m not comfortable with some things my partner wants me to do to him and I won’t. It’s something he has to accept, same with her.
Maybe, every other aspect of our relationship is very happy and healthy. I worked hot making sure I wouldn’t fall into old toxic patterns and it paid off. There’s just been a couple incidents of sleeping with Jay if I’ve been drinking that lead to vivid flashbacks/anxiety attacks, im not sure how therapy can help when it happens so rarely
it takes 3 shots of tequila for your girl to just open her legs to any douchebag that’s with her at the moment, don’t you guys realize this?
Where in OPs post did he state any of the garbage that just spilled out of your comment? You’re making massive assumptions. You don’t think men and women can be friends?
Then avoid going home or just live with it. Your sister and family are not changing. You get good advice (call cops) but turn it down. What else do you want?
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I was one of the possible four. She definitely needs help and I have tried and tried to get her into therapy and is into couples therapy. I have started therapy and I go to co counseling sessions now with my son. Luckily he was with his mom during this holidays so wasn’t around this. He has always been my #1 priority but yes my mental health has effected how I am fathering from this and the custody battle.
They have moved in together and she wants nothing to do with me anymore. I realize how lucky I am but I just don’t understand why it hurts so much. Why my anxiety is so bad. Maybe I am scared she will come back and I won’t be strong enough to say no.
He seems to be your boyfriend too since you're listening to what he tells you. This sounds ridiculous to me in every way, especially because you're supposed to be her husband and making the rules, not him. You may need to seek some therapy to figure out why you're in this marriage and tolerating any of this. Good luck.
First off I don’t believe in having male friends that you go out with like that when you’re in a committed relationship. It is a form of emotional cheating. The intimacy that would be in the relationship is taken out of it. Sing people, socially, or in groups is one thing having lunch every once in a while is OK but when you’re going out at night like that, there’s there’s a problem you need to address it with her. Even if she’s not having sex with the person and believing it dangerous when you’re doing that you have a few drinks with somebody really care about it’s late at night talk to her. And I wouldn’t believe it necessarily but I also wouldn’t automatically assume she had sex.
M sounds like an utter idiot who doesn't cut off a serial cheater and likes to suffer, so quite the doormat who needs to grow a spine (aka completely cut her off) to move on.
But seeing as M seems to want to continue to let F walk over her, something like “I love you so much and I forgive you and I just want to see your perfect face” would probably do.
No seriously, this is not the problem M needs to think about. M needs to think about why he is in contact with a woman who has zero respect for him.
this is going to blow your mind but you can have kids when you aren't married. You can also be fully committed to someone when you aren't married…anyways, you better have a real conversation about what you want with the guy and then have a timeline. Stick to what you want or you wont get it. You really want to get married. He probably really doesnt right now. Since it takes two to get married, who is gonna win this? my guess is it wont be you.
I think it's just a surprise that went badly. She's overwhelmed at work so leaving in the middle of the day probably didn't feel good. Buy her some flowers and tell her you're sorry and won't do this again. If you can think of a more coupley activity you can do together, then do that NOT IN WORK TIME
I think thats my main takeaway. It just went wrong, we need to talk about it.
Well again then this logic of “mine” and “yours” should only work against him. She brings in 2/3 the income, she has 2 kids. So logically they get her contribution. Just as he brings in 1/3, has 1 kid. So his child gets his 1/3 portion.
I don’t honestly think this is anything really to do with being in an open relationship. It’s just the end of a relationship, which happens to us all at sometime or other.
Always consider breaks as a break up. It’s better to just get on with being heartbroken and get the upset out the way and tbh, waiting for someone to come back just hurts you more and stops you living your own life.
I'm a typical modern woman and I have my cake and I absolutely eat it too
For the record i'm not a young woman
For the record I'm very well loved and cared for
And I love deeply and care for others
My relationships however are based on honest communication not on shutting down things that Each of us may need as we grow and change during the course of a long life
It wasn’t more important. I said at the end of the post that my youtube success did not mean more to me than her … i cares for the relationship, i just know as a man i needed to work harder to provide a better life for us.. our life wasn’t bad but i knew as we got older we would want better as we progress. So i was just trying to progress in that direction.. I spent alot of time with her and took her feelings into account alot so i would make sure to talk to her and listen if there was something wrong… I can understand where it could feel like youtube takes up time & i take full accountability for it… but if we had clear communication and spent time together im just lost where the feelings faded away and she would go sleep with another guy so quick… but thank you for your reply, I truly appreciate your outlook!
Cheating is one thing. I personally could never get over it, but to cry “rape” in a cheating situation? Well that tells me the kind of person she really is.
The thing is he sees them when he goes on vacation to Mexico so it makes me a bit nervous as to what might happen. I've talked to him about the porn situation way before I saw it on his phone. I feel like he just lies because he knows it makes me feel bad. His excuse was it's a man thing to do/watch.
OK, so here’s the real deal it’s your body and you get to do what you want with that. However, when you’re in a partnership really important decisions should be made together. So you have to decide whether you are a single person who is deciding to end the pregnancy of a child, you don’t want. Or if you’re in a couple and you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration, I know it’s not an easy decision, but that’s kind of what your face with.
I think so, but like I said this wouldn’t be random people, if she wanted to play with a friend of ours that we trust, I think I’d be fine with that, maybe even enjoy watching, I don’t know. Basically she opened me up to this world I knew nothing about and now I want to explore that. I mentioned to her that I may want to explore being with a man and she seemed much more open to that idea, than with other women. Less threatening to her I assume.
Naaa. I’d just block her. She showed a complete lack of respect for him. I wouldn’t give her another chance to disrespect me again. It was the only the first time they kissed. Not worth it to keep her in your life.
OP is a woman but still extremely pathetic. Looking at her post history it looks like she cheated on her kids’ mom with this woman, left their mom for her, quickly started trying to blend families and has been having relationship trouble the entire time. Her kids are under 8 years old and she’s put them through all of this and wonders why they’re having behavioral issues.
Don't fix a thing. The chew crunch sloo spit etc guys have a heart attack on anyone they perceive to have loud mouths. So watch clockwork orange and get yourself a box of Cheerios it's going to be a good night.
You are a cheater in the making. I imagine some man will be crying about you on here in the future.
I’m trying though, I’m talking to people, going out (just not to bars, I don’t like them), on dating apps. I think I’m just unlucky
I don‘t think you understood what I meant. He always says that whenever he goes out partying and I don‘t jump around like a 5 y.o. congratulating him, he says „I‘m not happy for him“. I have a huge problem with alcohol and parties but I still let him go there and wish him fun. I don‘t really like who he is right now you‘re right, I like who he could become. Someone who is understanding, listens, doesn‘t threaten me with violence and actually makes me feel like a priority.
P.s. it is also under her control to withhold herself from me if I visit my family. I cannot force her to act in a way. I am just very unhappy with the cards that are on top of the table
Your relationship works for him at present. He has no reason to want to change his status to “married” so he keeps moving the goalposts to keep you hanging on. I wouldn't waste anymore of my youth on this commitment phobic man.
What are the chances it will get back to him if you don't bring it up?
If it's low then it may be best to keep it to yourself to protect your marriage. I wouldn't risk divorce and disrupting your kid's life over a kiss. Sex is one thing but this, providing it was just one time, is comparatively minor. Put some distance between you and your friend. Maybe cut back on your social alcohol intake.
If there's a good chance he'll hear about it from your friend or others then own up to it right away. If he finds out from someone else it will probably be much worse than hearing it from you.
If you’re uncomfortable, don’t. I’m not comfortable with some things my partner wants me to do to him and I won’t. It’s something he has to accept, same with her.
Yes you can just cut off your parents, especially when they are as blind to their toxicity as you are
this isn't normal and you should leave him.. don't work through it.. he will hide what he's doing and possibly more.. don't waste your time
Maybe, every other aspect of our relationship is very happy and healthy. I worked hot making sure I wouldn’t fall into old toxic patterns and it paid off. There’s just been a couple incidents of sleeping with Jay if I’ve been drinking that lead to vivid flashbacks/anxiety attacks, im not sure how therapy can help when it happens so rarely
They weren’t even fighting or having an argument. It’s out of the blue after she met his family.
Trust is always a leap of faith. If you feel your gf does not deserve that leap of faith, you're with the wrong gf.
it takes 3 shots of tequila for your girl to just open her legs to any douchebag that’s with her at the moment, don’t you guys realize this?
Where in OPs post did he state any of the garbage that just spilled out of your comment? You’re making massive assumptions. You don’t think men and women can be friends?
Might want to turn em into bullet points
Then avoid going home or just live with it. Your sister and family are not changing. You get good advice (call cops) but turn it down. What else do you want?
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Hmm. This sounds like your wife does not have the “correct” way to transfer to you whatever she communicates with her therapist.
Maybe they should stop and go back to teach her ro express her feelings properly without getting you in defense mode.
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I would go ahead and call it quits on this one.
I was one of the possible four. She definitely needs help and I have tried and tried to get her into therapy and is into couples therapy. I have started therapy and I go to co counseling sessions now with my son. Luckily he was with his mom during this holidays so wasn’t around this. He has always been my #1 priority but yes my mental health has effected how I am fathering from this and the custody battle.
They have moved in together and she wants nothing to do with me anymore. I realize how lucky I am but I just don’t understand why it hurts so much. Why my anxiety is so bad. Maybe I am scared she will come back and I won’t be strong enough to say no.
He seems to be your boyfriend too since you're listening to what he tells you. This sounds ridiculous to me in every way, especially because you're supposed to be her husband and making the rules, not him. You may need to seek some therapy to figure out why you're in this marriage and tolerating any of this. Good luck.
you're privileged to even have water!
First off I don’t believe in having male friends that you go out with like that when you’re in a committed relationship. It is a form of emotional cheating. The intimacy that would be in the relationship is taken out of it. Sing people, socially, or in groups is one thing having lunch every once in a while is OK but when you’re going out at night like that, there’s there’s a problem you need to address it with her. Even if she’s not having sex with the person and believing it dangerous when you’re doing that you have a few drinks with somebody really care about it’s late at night talk to her. And I wouldn’t believe it necessarily but I also wouldn’t automatically assume she had sex.
M sounds like an utter idiot who doesn't cut off a serial cheater and likes to suffer, so quite the doormat who needs to grow a spine (aka completely cut her off) to move on.
But seeing as M seems to want to continue to let F walk over her, something like “I love you so much and I forgive you and I just want to see your perfect face” would probably do.
No seriously, this is not the problem M needs to think about. M needs to think about why he is in contact with a woman who has zero respect for him.
Bro you’re wife doesn’t love you if she already has someone waiting in the wings the second you bail. It looks like she wants to be 23 and single.
this is going to blow your mind but you can have kids when you aren't married. You can also be fully committed to someone when you aren't married…anyways, you better have a real conversation about what you want with the guy and then have a timeline. Stick to what you want or you wont get it. You really want to get married. He probably really doesnt right now. Since it takes two to get married, who is gonna win this? my guess is it wont be you.
Yeah, it's ok for the baby to be alone and cry itself to sleep but not the adult. Babies crave physical affection too.
Are you looking for affirmation that you shouldn't be with her and should break up?
You've already said she's both emotionally and physically abusive and you don't know how long you can tolerate it….so don't?
Leave.
I think it's just a surprise that went badly. She's overwhelmed at work so leaving in the middle of the day probably didn't feel good. Buy her some flowers and tell her you're sorry and won't do this again. If you can think of a more coupley activity you can do together, then do that NOT IN WORK TIME
I think thats my main takeaway. It just went wrong, we need to talk about it.
Sexual assault by family is unfortunately fairly common
Well again then this logic of “mine” and “yours” should only work against him. She brings in 2/3 the income, she has 2 kids. So logically they get her contribution. Just as he brings in 1/3, has 1 kid. So his child gets his 1/3 portion.
If OP makes more than him and he wants to take most of it for his one child compared to spreading it evenly with all three children, then yes.
She's taking a train down the ski slopes.
I don’t honestly think this is anything really to do with being in an open relationship. It’s just the end of a relationship, which happens to us all at sometime or other.
Always consider breaks as a break up. It’s better to just get on with being heartbroken and get the upset out the way and tbh, waiting for someone to come back just hurts you more and stops you living your own life.
I'm a typical modern woman and I have my cake and I absolutely eat it too
For the record i'm not a young woman
For the record I'm very well loved and cared for
And I love deeply and care for others
My relationships however are based on honest communication not on shutting down things that Each of us may need as we grow and change during the course of a long life
Don't have sex with him again until he uses condoms and starts listening to you. This is a huge red flag, though.
Move on,you’re young. There is no reason to lock yourself into a relationship where your hopes and dreams won’t flourish. Good luck!
Well now is the time mom needs to speak up before she loses a kid
It wasn’t more important. I said at the end of the post that my youtube success did not mean more to me than her … i cares for the relationship, i just know as a man i needed to work harder to provide a better life for us.. our life wasn’t bad but i knew as we got older we would want better as we progress. So i was just trying to progress in that direction.. I spent alot of time with her and took her feelings into account alot so i would make sure to talk to her and listen if there was something wrong… I can understand where it could feel like youtube takes up time & i take full accountability for it… but if we had clear communication and spent time together im just lost where the feelings faded away and she would go sleep with another guy so quick… but thank you for your reply, I truly appreciate your outlook!
You cheated. You violated his trust. Suck it up.
Yuuuuup.
And you want to spend the rest of your life with that person… why?
Cheating is one thing. I personally could never get over it, but to cry “rape” in a cheating situation? Well that tells me the kind of person she really is.
The thing is he sees them when he goes on vacation to Mexico so it makes me a bit nervous as to what might happen. I've talked to him about the porn situation way before I saw it on his phone. I feel like he just lies because he knows it makes me feel bad. His excuse was it's a man thing to do/watch.
OK, so here’s the real deal it’s your body and you get to do what you want with that. However, when you’re in a partnership really important decisions should be made together. So you have to decide whether you are a single person who is deciding to end the pregnancy of a child, you don’t want. Or if you’re in a couple and you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration, I know it’s not an easy decision, but that’s kind of what your face with.
I think so, but like I said this wouldn’t be random people, if she wanted to play with a friend of ours that we trust, I think I’d be fine with that, maybe even enjoy watching, I don’t know. Basically she opened me up to this world I knew nothing about and now I want to explore that. I mentioned to her that I may want to explore being with a man and she seemed much more open to that idea, than with other women. Less threatening to her I assume.
Naaa. I’d just block her. She showed a complete lack of respect for him. I wouldn’t give her another chance to disrespect me again. It was the only the first time they kissed. Not worth it to keep her in your life.
To answer your question, no. He’s not in your life and it’s not on you to assume why things are as they are.
But what if I told you yes? What would you do?
Is there a reason you wouldn’t tell him?
Z is not my bf and I am not romantically interested in him in any way ? I was still romantically involved with A up until now