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Date: October 20, 2022
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It’s very hot to be specifically because there’s lot of little things that add up. Like I’ll say I’m listening when I’m not, i make assumptions on how to make her life better and I’m wrong, I’ll cross boundaries and do things she tells me not to do, and I don’t communicate very well about anything
Hun, don't distance yourself from your mom, he's trying to separate you two. You should not act like a guest because he wants to, talk to your mom, but if this is your childhood home or your mom's house he moved into, he might be trying to mark the territory. He's the one trying to be the alpha, not you and I am generally concerned when I hear people using terms like alpha as they look like people that live! power struggles. The nest way to handle him imo is talking to your mom and seeing if she is OK. Confirm if she has sole access to her phone, social media, email or anything that you can leave for you two to have private conversations as you on-line away. If you happen upon another situation where he tries to control your mother, either ignore him and serve your mother the drink or confront him, however you feel more comfortable. If he asks for a chat to clear the air hold your ground and state your opinion (I.e. your mother is capable of making her own choices, you heard him the first time and his concern was noted, but more than that it would be control etc.). Definetely keep in touch with your mom as often as you can and behave as her family, never a guest, you're someone she can rely on, jot someone that needs to be entertained.
If I seem like an unhinged individual to you, you must have a very easy and privilege life my friend. I envy you
Why do I do this to myself? I know I am going to get downvoted to hell but I was 22 once.
Listen, he’s being a little immature (nothing dealbreaker level) and a little insecure.
Next time he brings up the ONS say something like “I don’t know if you are feeling threatened at all but you shouldn’t. You’re better looking, your dick is bigger and you don’t smell like beer and weed. Besides, if I wanted (George) I’d be at HIS place now wondering when HE was going to finally put the moves on me tonight.”
Now before you redditors get all righteous about stroking the male ego know I would give similar advice if the SO in question was a woman, or a trans person, or a freaking potato. Everybody who isn’t an asshole deserves and occasional ego stroke when they are feeling insecure.
Silica packets can be useful. Everything is a matter of degree, though. Does she have 10 packets or 500? How big is the sugar packet collection? I’m now envisioning a gallon ziplock bag full of fur per animal, not a lock of hair.
This right here. We're only getting tiny glimpse into their life, if these are the things she feels comfortable mentioning, imagine what she might've left out.
Seems like his entire attitude shifted once they moved in together. That's probably for a reason.
This right here. We're only getting tiny glimpse into their life, if these are the things she feels comfortable mentioning, imagine what she might've left out.
Seems like his entire attitude shifted once they moved in together. That's probably for a reason.
I think all that really matters is that you don’t trust your wife, and wether that is a you problem or it is genuinely because she is being untrustworthy, it is not healthy for you to be in a relationship where you don’t trust your partner.
The way I see it, your options are to work together to rebuild that trust and address the causes of your distrust, or to get out of this marriage. Neither option is going to be easy.
Your boyfriend doesn't have a relationship with his parents (probably because he doesn't agree with their racism etc) but you felt the need to push him to meet up. Maybe respect his choice not to have a relationship with his parents?
Sounds like your biggest issue with living her is her lack of respect for your boundaries. Set your boundaries it’s your house too. If she wants to be OCD, then she can listen to your music while you shower (obviously when she’s there you don’t do things that make you happy? Why not?). Set your boundaries !
Your request wasn’t clear. But plenty of people were asking for examples of it happening in general, so I’ll leave the link as a reference.
Sorry, but why exactly are you with him? You had hourlong fights for shit. He is SEARCHING conflict. Do you need to tell him every little detail about what you plan to do and what you actually do? And why does he shift the blame always to you like you didn't ask him if he is sleepy. As if he can't say “I'm not sleepy, i can drive”.
How you described him, he sound pretty abusive.
Stop watching porn and only masturbate to photos of her
This is the statistic that got me away from my abuser. It sticks in my mind. Absolutely horrifying how close so many of us have come to being part of this statistic…
I mean it’s super annoying when someone gets that drunk….but yeah he didn’t handle it well
You probably have enough comments telling what you did is horrible and low, which is undeniable. If you happened to read this comment, personally I don’t think it means your relationship is beyond saving. People make mistakes, say things they don’t mean, especially while inebriated. While it doesn’t make the action ok, I don’t think you did something irredeemable.
However it is also very fair for your SO to be incredibly hurt by what you did. Apologize, own up to what you did, don’t try to excuse it but you can explain that you didn’t mean it to let her know this isn’t some deep seated feeling you have for her. After that, let her decide what to do from there. If she breaks it off, then let it run its course. If she decides to continue, have a deep discussion to sort out what to do from here on out and work towards gaining back her trust and not doing that again. But you have to give her some space and time.
Good luck.