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Date: February 14, 2023
He is absolutely making things worse after the fact by clinging to the idea she wants him dead. It’s on him to realize she was probably dysregulated in that moment herself. Either way, one of them made this worse in the moment, and one of them is ruminating after the fact. I’d wonder if this is caused by a continual dynamic of their relationship.
Suggesting that in the moment he should be able to say “you are right, this isn’t life or death” is not realistic. She said something that is designed to escalate his sympathetic nervous response. When someone is escalating you are unable to have a an appropriate social response. He has to process and calm his polyvagal response before he can begin to use his rational brain.
I just want to be clear here. I don’t speak for any other relationship but my own. I can’t answer for the other women on this sub who have clearly upset your delicate sensibilities. However, if my husband verbalized that something easily mitigated about my appearance made him uneasy, whether it is pubes, leg hair, whatever…I’d change it. So I’m not asking for advice about gender inequality or stereotypes, I’m asking for advice on MY relationship. Which I assumed this would be an ok place to do that.
But how can HE get abused?
he said he was some kind of hero for doing it too and for the common employee and wanting to be genuine, and he hates that I questioned it and said I was like his manager
Have you met men?
You need to get on birth control. And not have a child with this immature idiot.
It doesn't have to be insincere to be manipulative. You'll learn how inadvertent manipulation works as you get older, and you'll have to find ones to overcome it. You have to be able to understand how your actions and words effect other people from their own perspective, not yours.