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Im finding some humor in this.
Im glad you know its not cool to demand her to wear what you want. I think its okay to express how you feel and make a specific request that she is allowed to decline.
Before you talk to her about it, take your time to reflect on why you think clothing has an age or why you think an imaginary strangers’ opinion on your relationship is important to you. Try to see from her perspective why she likes this item. Also, she may do certain things as a way to be playful and childish and those kinds of things can be healing for your inner child. That whole concept is worth a google! For example i love playing video games because i could never afford them as a kid. And that feels really nice to me.
Glad you reached out for some perspective!
He throws temper tantrums. You’ve got a 4 yrs old in the body of a 20 yrs old. It’s a red flag worthy of breaking up , plus it’s not sexy at all lmao
You know the answer because your question isn't about just meeting an ex. Your question is
“Am I(26F) wrong to go on a legitimate date with an ex(26M) who has expressly stated he wants to shoot his shot with me, even though he knows I'm currently seriously seeing someone (26M), even if I have the excuse that it is to help a friend… who also knows I'm currently seriously seeing someone, and doesn't care either… because it may help her hook up with this guy's buddy?”