Hold up. He puts up with your crazy and let's you look at his phone… and that makes him more suspicious? You asked what you can do to fix things. This comes under the category of opposite.
I remember a woman who had a similarly horrific birth, going through hell as she tried to establish breastfeeding. She saw a breastfeeding counsellor and remarked offhandedly that she wished she could be a tigress or something, because animals have no problem with breastfeeding. The counsellor told her “no no, a tigress going through all that would have EATEN her baby”.
If your husband doesn't want to help out with cooking and cleaning, I reckon he should get that second job.
If you go back to a job you hated, there's a good chance you'll sink even further into depression. Especially given how badly teachers are treated/paid in the US.
Jesus christ. You never text first? He does all the reaching out? How the fuck do you think that makes him feel. Dont you think this behavior screams that you arent interested? Imagine how you would feel if he never reached out and talked to you. Horrible right? Look at you now freaking out over the fact that YOU LEFT HIM ON READ AND HE DIDNT COME BACK CRAWLING AT YOU. Fucking hell woman, men have feelings too, and realising men need care and attentiion will go a long way. Right now you're creating your own anxiety with your behavior.
Does “building a world together” mean you actually have to do it? I would imagine it would mean he does most and occasionally you play and get on and can do that together. If I made it clear that I wasn’t interested in building that much but I will join occasionally I don’t think that is a problem. I would be pretty upset if my boyfriend never wanted to watch movies I like, or listen to music I like, or stuff. It’s a compromise, specially in long distance. I don’t think it’s like forced medicine. It’s a video game. I’ve played video games for people. I watched all the of the Star Wars movies for people. I go fishing with my boyfriend and it isn’t my go to hobby. But I enjoy doing it because I enjoy doing things with him.
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Hold up. He puts up with your crazy and let's you look at his phone… and that makes him more suspicious? You asked what you can do to fix things. This comes under the category of opposite.
I remember a woman who had a similarly horrific birth, going through hell as she tried to establish breastfeeding. She saw a breastfeeding counsellor and remarked offhandedly that she wished she could be a tigress or something, because animals have no problem with breastfeeding. The counsellor told her “no no, a tigress going through all that would have EATEN her baby”.
If your husband doesn't want to help out with cooking and cleaning, I reckon he should get that second job.
If you go back to a job you hated, there's a good chance you'll sink even further into depression. Especially given how badly teachers are treated/paid in the US.
Jesus christ. You never text first? He does all the reaching out? How the fuck do you think that makes him feel. Dont you think this behavior screams that you arent interested? Imagine how you would feel if he never reached out and talked to you. Horrible right? Look at you now freaking out over the fact that YOU LEFT HIM ON READ AND HE DIDNT COME BACK CRAWLING AT YOU. Fucking hell woman, men have feelings too, and realising men need care and attentiion will go a long way. Right now you're creating your own anxiety with your behavior.
Does “building a world together” mean you actually have to do it? I would imagine it would mean he does most and occasionally you play and get on and can do that together. If I made it clear that I wasn’t interested in building that much but I will join occasionally I don’t think that is a problem. I would be pretty upset if my boyfriend never wanted to watch movies I like, or listen to music I like, or stuff. It’s a compromise, specially in long distance. I don’t think it’s like forced medicine. It’s a video game. I’ve played video games for people. I watched all the of the Star Wars movies for people. I go fishing with my boyfriend and it isn’t my go to hobby. But I enjoy doing it because I enjoy doing things with him.