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I know you don't want guys advice, so I won't offer it. But I will say, damn, that's rough… and I can see how getting mopped up in front of your girl can cause feelings of inadequacy.
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What does that even mean? Its your responsibility in a relationship to take care of yourself and your appearance – for yourself and for your partner. Unconditional love only exists for children. You can be as fat as you want but just be prepared for it to affect your relationship and for your partner to likely lose attraction. Her weight is very much about him. Shes not putting effort into her appearance and hence – the relationship.
This makes a lot of sense it’s just that she also did show it through her actions by baking for me, surprised me with food one time, and lol also gave me the only genuine goodnight/morning kisses i’ve ever gotten. I have had fun in college so far, am in a fraternity and have a good amount of close friends, it’s just she gave me a different type of happiness that i was fooled to believe wasn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
Yes – I would divorce instantly, My wife having a hot photo-shot with a “friend” without discussing it with me first is grounds for divorce, the “friend” is obviously a predator with a camera who took advantage of his wife and his wife albeit blind to it agreed to disrobe herself and take raunch pictures. He said it himself tasteful to straight pornographic and that it was all his idea.
I’m no better then the next man but I like to think most men having their friends go behind their backs to do a hard photo shoot with their wives is absolutely unacceptable, and that the wife was (a) gullible enough to agree to it and do it all bubbly without realizing what she just did behind her husband’s back or worst (B) she knew full well it was unacceptable and decided to still go through with it. In any case a divorce is in short order and the man who took advantage of my* then ex wife would definitely see some blow back, You might be totally fine with your friends going behind you back and having a porn shoot with your wife and not wanna fuck them up by I and hope most men are not.
You can attack my character/religion/my age “am 24” and go through my post history and comments all you want this is all batshit to me. ?♂️
Tell him straight up that you love him and want the relationship to work but that his refusal to communicate is unhealthy and is a deal breaker for you.
I think you’re looking at relationships a bit in the “one size fits all” way.
You have a boundary about phone privacy that she’s crossing here. You also feel like porn is something you want in a healthy relationship (including insta posts).
Your girlfriend has a different view on porn in relationships she’s in. It sounds like she set down a solid boundary about it and is upset that you disregarded that.
Maybe seeing things as “one size fits all” is the problem? If you think there is one healthy way to handle this then you might not have communicated your phone or porn boundary and just expected her to know (correct me if I’m wrong and you did explicitly set these boundaries)? Then from her perspective she’s setting boundaries that you’re agreeing to and then lying about. And from your perspective she’s not being fair and her emotions are unreasonable?
Also…. I don’t think it’s ever very appropriate to say someone’s reaction is wrong. She’s valid for having those boundaries (and it’s not unreasonable that she feels that way) and you are valid in yours. You both need to communicate a bit more to determine if you would both be happy with a compromise or if this is a dealbreaker. You also need to both hold to your agreement and not unilaterally change your mind later without telling your partner.
I know you don't want guys advice, so I won't offer it. But I will say, damn, that's rough… and I can see how getting mopped up in front of your girl can cause feelings of inadequacy.
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What does that even mean? Its your responsibility in a relationship to take care of yourself and your appearance – for yourself and for your partner. Unconditional love only exists for children. You can be as fat as you want but just be prepared for it to affect your relationship and for your partner to likely lose attraction. Her weight is very much about him. Shes not putting effort into her appearance and hence – the relationship.
She might be in the closet.
Worse yet: if they do have a lead it’s your car.
No you weren't being disrespectful but he certainly was.this is major red flags
This makes a lot of sense it’s just that she also did show it through her actions by baking for me, surprised me with food one time, and lol also gave me the only genuine goodnight/morning kisses i’ve ever gotten. I have had fun in college so far, am in a fraternity and have a good amount of close friends, it’s just she gave me a different type of happiness that i was fooled to believe wasn’t going anywhere anytime soon.
Plenty of fish in the sea bruh
Yes – I would divorce instantly, My wife having a hot photo-shot with a “friend” without discussing it with me first is grounds for divorce, the “friend” is obviously a predator with a camera who took advantage of his wife and his wife albeit blind to it agreed to disrobe herself and take raunch pictures. He said it himself tasteful to straight pornographic and that it was all his idea.
I’m no better then the next man but I like to think most men having their friends go behind their backs to do a hard photo shoot with their wives is absolutely unacceptable, and that the wife was (a) gullible enough to agree to it and do it all bubbly without realizing what she just did behind her husband’s back or worst (B) she knew full well it was unacceptable and decided to still go through with it. In any case a divorce is in short order and the man who took advantage of my* then ex wife would definitely see some blow back, You might be totally fine with your friends going behind you back and having a porn shoot with your wife and not wanna fuck them up by I and hope most men are not.
You can attack my character/religion/my age “am 24” and go through my post history and comments all you want this is all batshit to me. ?♂️
Tell him straight up that you love him and want the relationship to work but that his refusal to communicate is unhealthy and is a deal breaker for you.
I think you’re looking at relationships a bit in the “one size fits all” way.
You have a boundary about phone privacy that she’s crossing here. You also feel like porn is something you want in a healthy relationship (including insta posts).
Your girlfriend has a different view on porn in relationships she’s in. It sounds like she set down a solid boundary about it and is upset that you disregarded that.
Maybe seeing things as “one size fits all” is the problem? If you think there is one healthy way to handle this then you might not have communicated your phone or porn boundary and just expected her to know (correct me if I’m wrong and you did explicitly set these boundaries)? Then from her perspective she’s setting boundaries that you’re agreeing to and then lying about. And from your perspective she’s not being fair and her emotions are unreasonable?
Also…. I don’t think it’s ever very appropriate to say someone’s reaction is wrong. She’s valid for having those boundaries (and it’s not unreasonable that she feels that way) and you are valid in yours. You both need to communicate a bit more to determine if you would both be happy with a compromise or if this is a dealbreaker. You also need to both hold to your agreement and not unilaterally change your mind later without telling your partner.