My partner has done this a couple times with me and admitted she was uncomfortable kissing me before leaving for work in the morning. She knew it was obviously a dream but still struggled with it for that day before it sort of just blew over. She does have unusually vivid dreams.
You need to sit down and talk to her, the reason she is talking to so hot is she already had insecurities.
Do you plan to live together after marriage, or wver for thst matter? If yes, then do nit marry before living together for at least a year without major breaks. It will show everything you need to know about him and your relationship. You might think you don't need this, but you.
It's always wirrying when your partner is disintrested in finding time to meet you, especially in LDR.
Unfortunately, you're his side chick as he most likely has another relationship because of him not wanting to acknowledge you to his friends. Please don't hang onto this guy for the sake of being in a “relationship” when he treats you this way, because he won't change.
Dont ask someone whom may not even know how to keep a relationship. Most of these Redditors aren't even married. Seek a licensed marriage counselor. Keep your children out of this internal struggle. Voice that this is a fear your having with him, from your post he's never laid a hand on you, so you shouldn't fear opening up. If it falls on death ears, then you make preparations to leave.
I absolutely agree. My main problems are the fact that just the act of breaking up alone will cause a massive fight and confrontation that I don’t know how to deal with, and more importantly, that if my girlfriend weren’t able to have our child during the days that I work, I wouldn’t have any way for my child to be taken care of during those hours
Break up with him. He’s just trying to cheat on you with your permission.
My partner has done this a couple times with me and admitted she was uncomfortable kissing me before leaving for work in the morning. She knew it was obviously a dream but still struggled with it for that day before it sort of just blew over. She does have unusually vivid dreams.
You need to sit down and talk to her, the reason she is talking to so hot is she already had insecurities.
Do you plan to live together after marriage, or wver for thst matter? If yes, then do nit marry before living together for at least a year without major breaks. It will show everything you need to know about him and your relationship. You might think you don't need this, but you.
It's always wirrying when your partner is disintrested in finding time to meet you, especially in LDR.
Unfortunately, you're his side chick as he most likely has another relationship because of him not wanting to acknowledge you to his friends. Please don't hang onto this guy for the sake of being in a “relationship” when he treats you this way, because he won't change.
Dont ask someone whom may not even know how to keep a relationship. Most of these Redditors aren't even married. Seek a licensed marriage counselor. Keep your children out of this internal struggle. Voice that this is a fear your having with him, from your post he's never laid a hand on you, so you shouldn't fear opening up. If it falls on death ears, then you make preparations to leave.
Would you have not felt heard if he disagreed with you?
I absolutely agree. My main problems are the fact that just the act of breaking up alone will cause a massive fight and confrontation that I don’t know how to deal with, and more importantly, that if my girlfriend weren’t able to have our child during the days that I work, I wouldn’t have any way for my child to be taken care of during those hours