Then just explain that you’re worried, and if he want to vent or talk you’ll listen. Put the ball in his court, and ask if there’s anything you can do. You could try the “bro GF” route and say something like “i dont wanna make your life hot, just your dick” (im only half kidding)
If he isnt communicative, dont push. Just be receptive.
I had a much easier recovery than what you're describing and my husband's complaints were about not waking him up ENOUGH in the night. I was struggling with breastfeeding but not making enough so I was reluctant to skip a single feed. My husband was literally begging me to let him do one of the night feeds so I would get a solid 5-6h of sleep. That is how a partner supports you.
She actually writes “we have a solid foundation of respect for each other.”
Too much damage done tbh. I’d leave.
This question is project better ask on a place like r/nostupidquestions than here
Why did it take 10 years?
Have you both been having trouble before that comment?
Him not happy about you shouldn’t be a shock but a gradual realization at some point because if he hates your personality then you can’t be close.
I really don’t know how to cut ties with him again
Then just explain that you’re worried, and if he want to vent or talk you’ll listen. Put the ball in his court, and ask if there’s anything you can do. You could try the “bro GF” route and say something like “i dont wanna make your life hot, just your dick” (im only half kidding)
If he isnt communicative, dont push. Just be receptive.
I had a much easier recovery than what you're describing and my husband's complaints were about not waking him up ENOUGH in the night. I was struggling with breastfeeding but not making enough so I was reluctant to skip a single feed. My husband was literally begging me to let him do one of the night feeds so I would get a solid 5-6h of sleep. That is how a partner supports you.